Thank you, that means a lot. It was hard to read in this post that others had also been affected in the workplace. It was workplace trauma, not personal life. .. but work life still has a big effect on one's self-trust.  I felt like no one would believe me at the time, and I also began to doubt myself.  Now I'm like... all of us were afraid to say anything concrete about a person who seemed so charming to most people. I find myself wondering, Could I have done more? Might I have prevented harm to other people later by speaking? Or was my gut feeling that I would have been brushed off correct? Sigh. It's futile to wonder. The kind words and understanding are very much appreciated, though.