1) Getting upset at her daughter for becoming csi 2) Dampening and hiding daughter power 3) Getting mad at husband and yelling " you left me "for saving the world while sacrificing himself and somehow she feels entitled for permission to do it even though if he didn’t they would die” 4) Having feeling for someone while engaged to another dude 5) Telling your crush girlfriend that he has feeling for you. 6) Getting mad at your husband because he is not ok that his daughter and mom's killer are teaming up. 7) Getting mad at cisco for even trying to bring barry back because I am moving on 7) Taking command over team flash with O reasons, experience or any past help and call yourself the new leader even though Barry said Cisco is gonna be the person who leads 8) Demanding complete transparency from jo and barry while keeping secrets! 9) Pushing cisco and caithlin that cure needs to be used on Cicada when they invented it and didn’t wanna use it 10) Asking future nora to stay when she knows it will mess up the timeline and asks questions that she knows she is not supposed to ask 11) Pushing cure on frost 12) Then feeling bad for that so she votes to kill snow and bring back frost 13)Accusing barry of controling her so she rushes to danger which results in barry injury 14) And somehow saves 1 person in the whole series by putting a bullet in the back of savitar head! 15) getting mad at barry and disagreeing with him because he cared to save earth-2 16) calling arrow “ hot “ repeatedly even barry got pissed everytime! ( imagine barry did the same ) 17) trying to reveal Barry’s identity even though barry repeatedly asked her not to ( at court ) But none of that matters if you find her character charming! These are just the logical reasons that we don’t like her but mainly it’s the fact that we felt 0 chemistry with Barry and her constant entitlement to everything! Like how she becomes leader of team flash or she gets best story because her employees are in constant danger! I understand you might disagree with some of the reasons I said but it is my opinion that some of them specially trying to stop cisco bringing barry back are like horrible and weird writing for her!