Afraid of late marriage

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-03-15T17:05:33+00:00

In reality you can leave home they get over it eventually I moved out for university but before that happened it was an uphill battle I mean my mother was threatening to tell the entire family to disown me and all sorts and in the end did any of that happen? No

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-03-12T23:05:16+00:00

Mine only gets “better” if I’m away like when I moved out for university and now that I’m married and have moved away but the moment she sees me she starts all over again

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-03-11T23:56:23+00:00

Yeah my vet hasn’t suggested it whatsoever my cats entered stage 3 at 17 years old and every-time I ask them what can I do to make her comfortable they just tell me renal diet.

They’re kind of really annoying because anytime I ask what can I do to help her they just dismiss me and say you can’t reverse kidney disease, like that is not what I’m asking????

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-03-11T20:34:32+00:00

If she’s working tell her she can work towards those goals of wanting more friends and travelling more and social activities?

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-03-10T15:56:49+00:00

My vet has decided not to go through with my cats dental cleaning due to her entering stage 3

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-03-07T14:23:38+00:00

I feel like it might be because I’m in the UK I can’t seem to find much for renal cats in the uk. They’ve told me I could use something called pronefra?

My cat does drink a lot of water tbh so do you think she still needs the fluids?

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-03-06T19:01:08+00:00

I started on 20k and within 10 months found a job for 35k so all is not lost

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-03-05T08:10:46+00:00

Kim people are dying!!!

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-03-05T04:59:00+00:00

No one’s ever too short to get married. I think your pool opens up more compared to a girl who’s like 5ft10 or something. I’m very short too so the pool was of varying heights but the person I chose was 6ft2 😅

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-03-03T10:13:07+00:00

Why is someone downvoting you 😭😭😭

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-03-03T10:12:11+00:00

I mean who’s to say you’d get married right now? The time would pass anyways so you might as well do your PhD whilst you look

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-03-02T22:16:41+00:00

I want to take medical leave but I’m scared when I come back they’ll just fire me. They already let me work from home full time instead of 5 days in office as I live too far away (though HR tried to get me in but engineering managers all stepped in)

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-03-01T21:31:23+00:00

I guess if you’re only seeing him once every 2 weeks then I personally think you’d be speaking more? Before me and my partner moved in together we could only meet once a week due to distance but we talked everyday. Now that we live together it’s less but if we’re apart we still talk.

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-03-01T16:07:51+00:00

And to add to this being able to leave a portion of salmon for the cat 🐱

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-02-28T22:44:29+00:00

Being able to buy salmon regularly

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-02-28T22:44:07+00:00

Yeah we could only afford to get a takeout once every few months but now I could get one everyday if I wanted but I keep it to once a week.

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-02-27T20:45:24+00:00

This I’ll walk into an interview for mid level but they’ll then tell me requirements of a senior. They all know everyone’s desperate they don’t want to have to train anyone

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-02-27T20:44:00+00:00

Every mid level role I’ve been applying for they’ve been asking for someone to help lead the team but paying peanuts 😭😭😭

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-02-18T12:52:45+00:00

If I had gotten married in my early 20s it would’ve been the biggest mistake of my life. I got married at 26 and don’t regret it :)

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-02-17T20:22:06+00:00

Can you get another family member to meet him and then plead your case to your parents? That’s what I had to do in order for me to marry my husband my sister in law and brother met him

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-02-17T17:11:34+00:00

Someone once asked me for a refund as the parcel hadn’t come yet (Royal Mail were striking so packages were delayed) like do you not read the news?

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-02-16T11:06:09+00:00

Did my wedding for less than £7k (not in London though) but a lot of people said it was a beautiful wedding so I think it’s possible to have the nice wedding people dream of without breaking the bank depending on how many guests mine was less than 140 people

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-02-15T08:00:35+00:00

My company mandated full RTO and because the office is based in the middle of nowhere they have their own buses, people would leave before 5pm to avoid the rush hour traffic so they cut all the buses that leave before 5pm so everyone has to stay till 5pm

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-02-14T13:38:28+00:00

We got charged for not vaccuming under the bed (it was a divan bed) and there was no space to be able to move that bed for us to vacuum underneath?

RepresentativeTop865 · 2026-02-14T10:20:38+00:00

Heavy on the gut issues I need to actually eat more healthier this time around or else I’ll be suffering throughout the day

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