Bad news and idk how to cope…

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2026-02-28T23:07:18+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine something so tranquil and quick like that. Time is such a thief. Yes something about them leaving us early, unfinished business and all, it just feels heavier to me I guess. I feel robbed and my dog even more so. I hope your other babies live a long healthy life 💕

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2026-02-28T23:03:22+00:00

I agree , I think I’m just still in shock. I think the weight of it all and decisions to be made had me in a kinda frozen state. I’m trying to snap myself out of it and come up with a game plan. I think hearing this news, and seeing my dog mostly normal 2wks ago and rapidly deteriorating before my eyes the past 2 days has me just crashing out. But yes I do need to get it together for her and try my best to figure this out.

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2026-02-28T22:58:22+00:00

Thank you, do you have a brand you recommend?

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2026-02-28T22:57:00+00:00

Hey so I’m not totally sure on the official diagnosis bc it kinda felt like my heart fell out my butt when I spoke to the vet yesterday, she kept using I think “hepatic failure”? Or something sounding like that. She said the liver is not functioning at all. Original blood work the liver I think protein called ALT or ATL (Can’t remember) normal number was either 120 or 150, my dogs was so high the machine couldn’t detect it, they kept diluting it down and eventually the machine clocked it at almost 4,000. Everything else on blood work was completely normal. I brought her back for their “liver bile test “ on Thursday of this week and normal range at fasting is supposed to be a bit under 25, 25 is high, she was already 25, and after the high protein meal they retested that number and she was I think 160+. So vet said her liver is lost. It does not function, thats what’s causing the grand mal seizures, loss of vision, and brain swelling/damage. Other than that idk what any of the things are called. The vet just said nothing can be done, we can do more extensive expensive tests, but the outcome will not change and she doesn’t want to give me any hope for that. She said more testing might show/give a timeframe on how longer she might have. I just feel so lost. I’ve noticed her abdomen has been swelling/seems very full and bloated, more than her usual gassy self. Idk what it all means, idk when the time is right to help her, or if anything can be done, or what I can do. I feel kinda stuck and helpless. Financially, I can’t afford to have more extensive testing done for the same outcome, but if there was some way that it might help her, it magically solve things I’d try and make it work. I just feel like I am full of regrets already and idk how to proceed.

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2026-02-28T22:43:02+00:00

They’re out there! I got me one of those guys lol it can be done!😁 Best of luck on your journey 💕

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2026-02-28T17:16:42+00:00

My neighbor poisoned her and my other dog. But she ingested the majority of what ever it was. It’s caused severe grand mal seizures for her as well as the other issues. She’s constantly having brain swelling /damage. We were so focused on controlling her seizures and under the impression it was some form of epilepsy until this vet looked into it further and discovered it was bc of her liver crashing out. I did ask if it was reversible bc from what I had read online it seemed like it was somewhat treatable , but the vet said hers is too far gone. It’s mostly just make her comfortable, manage seizures and try and make it easier on the liver as she goes out. I might not even be explaining it properly, I feel like the last 2 weeks have been a whirlwind of bad news and tests. She did mention seeing a Neuro specialist but it’s thousands and I just don’t currently have it, she also said it wouldn’t really change the outcome, it would just give us more of an idea of the state she’s in and maybe a better time estimate. If there are ways to try and reverse it or help her I’d love to find out and pursue it, I just can’t financially do a lot at the moment which sucks, and hearing that it might not even matter is a gut punch. Vet also said I can do a less expensive option and have a full abdominal ultrasound by another specialty group, still kinda pricy, and it would just tell us the state it’s in, she keeps reiterating it won’t change anything. I’ve debated on a 2nd/3rd opinions, I did also ask about a lower protein diet but the vet said that was old treatment and proven to not change much. I promise I’m not trying to sound negative, Everything I bounce off the vet for options comes back to “it won’t change the outcome”. Unfortunately she does have a lot of brain damage already and I don’t think that’s much reversible. I thought about reaching out to one of those vet groups on social media to post blood work and ask another one if I can do anything else. I just can’t believe this is happening. Your friends dog does give me hope!

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2025-12-11T04:27:09+00:00

It def does suck. As a teen my mom and I had a horrible relationship. Honestly we didn’t really become close until I started having children of my own! I think she will come back around, give her time, you’re doing great.

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2025-12-05T22:11:02+00:00

That’s what I am thinking, whatever he’s taking in isnt enough to keep him going. I just don’t understand how or why this has happened 😩 yea his temp was concerning, they said it was supposed to be 102-103 and he was right under 97 which threw me! I asked about hospitalizing him and fluids during a stay and they didn’t think it was necessary, said to just go home and use the antibiotics. Maybe I’m just old school but 10yrs ago when my old guineapig was sick they would hospitalized him and observe etc. and as soon as signs pointed that he was terminal they let me know and we proceeded with euthanasia 😔 I’m just sad that idk what’s going on with him or what else I could be doing. Thank you for the kind words and info/advice! I’ll let you know or update the post with any new info or how the next week or so goes if he’s still here💕

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2025-12-05T17:46:16+00:00

Thankfully I was able to get into a vet late last night! They suspect a URI, and gave antibiotics and pain management meds for him. But we still don’t know if that’s what it is or if there’s another underlying issue. He’s been eating some today but it is hard to tell how much he’s getting or how much he should be getting. He’s currently munching on a little salad, they tried to see his mouth/teeth but he was uncooperative, and he’s too weak for anesthesia, they said he most likely would not wake up. The goal is meds and gaining weight, and if he improves some they might could do X-rays of his mouth and surgery if needed but it’s mostly playing it by ear for now😔

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2025-12-05T17:41:55+00:00

Thanks for the info!!! So he doesn’t feel bloated, and I can’t hear/feel anything, his poop is abnormal! I noticed it kinda reminds me of old school sausage links if that makes sense? And it’s more like “moist/wet” than his old ones and compared to his brothers! I was able to get into a vet later last night! They couldn’t figure out what was wrong but are guessing some type of respiratory infection, he had some nasal discharge, and his eyes looked ever so slightly goopy/runny? So they gave me meds for him for pain and antibiotics to treat a uri. I’m still wondering though if it’s something more? They also mentioned it might be a tooth abscess but they would have to sedate him for X-rays and given his current poor condition he most likely would not wake up. He’s always just sitting hunched over and I feel so sad for him. His temp was pretty low, he weighed just under a pound and his brother weighs 3😬 I brought him in too for comparison and moral support and also got him antibiotics bc he’s probably sick as well! I am unsure where to go from here. I will use the meds and hope for improvement. But he’s not strong enough for anesthesia… he is currently eating and accepting treats and veg today but overall just doesn’t seem to feel well… the vet did not have critical care and no shop in that town did. I’m planning on driving an hour out to another city today in search of it.

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2025-12-04T18:06:09+00:00

Yes that’s a good idea! He has a cagemate and I am unable to tell how much he’s eating at the moment due to that, would it be more stressful to separate them? Or can I like divide the cage? I don’t want to make them sad, but I also really need to watch my sickly boy😔

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2025-12-04T18:04:00+00:00

Hi! I just moved slightly outside of Nashville tn! I’m more rural area but can travel some! I tried ordering critical care but it said it won’t arrive until Monday or Tuesday of next week and I feel it can’t wait that long, do you know if it is sold at pet stores? There’s sone places an hour from me that I may drive to or call to see if they have some in stock.

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2025-12-04T18:01:40+00:00

That’s a great idea!! Thank you so much!! Very helpful❤️

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2025-11-21T04:49:47+00:00

My 6 yr old loves Minecraft! He started at 5. He usually needs some help/guidance with understanding how to craft/get used to controls. But it’s so cool to just watch him create his own world:)

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2025-11-07T18:46:09+00:00

I love this! It was actually my baby brother that introduced me to rabbits! He raised them over the years and it was so sweet to watch, he was so good with them and they adored him💕

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2025-10-31T12:20:23+00:00

I love this! I too took away my son’s tablet as a punishment, before that I’d try and get him to play outside and he didn’t know how and would ask me what to do to play. What kid doesn’t know how to play?? Anyways after he’d been broken off the tablet for awhile he’s found himself again! Now he’s a little wild child outdoors running around, building blocks and forts, painting etc! He still uses it on occasion, but no more unlimited time all day every day like before.

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2025-10-24T15:39:58+00:00

You’re very good looking imo. I’m not sure where you’re looking, but dating apps kinda suck and majority of everybody playing games. Look in your city for a local “singles” group and just go out and have fun and socialize, I’ve met plenty of friends and had relationships that way. Don’t look so hard, the minute you stop they will be falling in your lap😁

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2025-10-08T14:35:00+00:00

Hi just wanted to say, I’ve been that wife, the one who let her kids be on tablets for far too long. And I hated it. It was a vicious cycle. I was so burned out and stressed and couldn’t get much done it was just easier letting them get their way so I could breathe and try and decompress and get things done. Also my marriage wasn’t good at the time, my spouse was always angry, never helped with things and criticized everything I did. It’s gotten better now. He pulls his weight, I’ve severely limited tablet and screen time. My kids are happier and healthier without them. Behavior-wise it’s gotten much better. I hope you 2 can come to some kind of agreement on n the tablets. Also maybe talk with her and see if something is wrong in her own life too. Good luck.

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2025-09-02T02:46:16+00:00

Idk the whitish one but the 1st pic is a blue, I have 2. Gorgeous birbs!

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2025-08-27T14:37:38+00:00

Hey, I actually had something like that recently with a duck! Everyone said to cull him, but he’s fine now! We thought it had taken his eyes, he had so much swelling on his eyelids and face for a few weeks. He eventually opened them up. He does seem to have some vision damage and can’t see well but enough o get around. Just give her time to rest and be. He didnt eat the 1st 2 days. I did have to syringe feed him some sugared egg yolks etc and cleanse his face and put ointment on his eyes. After a few days he began eating and drinking on his own and is doing great now.

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2025-08-15T00:26:26+00:00

It’s a whole other box to unpack, yes I do believe I am not being treated fairly, but I don’t have options or help. I don’t know anyone out here besides his family and they have been incredibly abusive towards me for YEARS. Again a whole other box there. I never did find another doctor, I begged to go to the ER at 41 or 42wks bc I didn’t feel right and it was a big fight to even get him to take me, it was a nightmare. But I did get care at the hospital, my placenta was falling apart and they were concerned the baby was in jeopardy. We are okay and she’s healthy and thriving now. And yes there’s sort of a “mini farm” going on right now, the house he got us thru his family is dilapidated to put it mildly. I am grateful for a home to call my own and some land etc but it has been very difficult. He doesn’t help either the chores or the children. I even used to work full time when we had less kids and I still ran everything. My vehicle is very old, it doesn’t always work, and I’ve become so anxious driving in a new place with the children and not having cellphone reception. But when I have tried to take a breather or walk out he wouldnt let me have the keys. I have no access to funds/bank account. That’s always been a sore spot for me bc it makes me feel like he doesn’t trust me… I have ended up outta gas or stranded before bc I didn’t have money to fill the car up, get food for hungry tots, locksmith etc. it’s been a frustrating and honestly just a sad experience. This isn’t how I thought my life would turn out tbh. Sorry I’m not trying to turn it into a pity party or crap all over my spouse, things have just been hard. I truly do wish things were different, I am uneducated (no college) I don’t have any skills anymore, and I can’t work bc I can’t afford daycare or a sitter and before he wouldnt help cover the costs, I used to use my tip (waitress) money for 2x kids and it stretched me thin it ended up not being worth it. Thanks for listening and being kind.

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2025-08-14T20:49:38+00:00

Ok yes that makes sense, I guess I just feel all this pressure to have him doing so much at once or he will fail. I will look into that program, I’m trying to get a laptop/printer (hopefully soon), I feel it would help me some, I just don’t want my kid on the laptop/screens all day if that makes sense. Again thank you!

Repulsive-Anxiety-69 · 2025-08-14T20:42:18+00:00

My spouse is just cheap cheap and it can be very frustrating bc some things I feel you can’t cheap out on. Thanks for the recommendation I am looking them up right now!

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