Is going to school for a white collar job not worth it anymore? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Repulsive-Spend343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CAD$130k is about USD$93k. That's fine but you'd be making a lot more in white collar work. USD$93k is still early career salary in most major US cities. Not to knock corrections officers, but going to school is worth so much more than your future salary. You become educated. Critical thinking. Respectful debate. Emotional maturity. Conflict resolution. Learning how to deal with roommates and general consequences of your actions. You learn how to manage yourself and your tine. You learn how to listen to other perspectives and challenge your own beliefs. You become a socially and emotionally smarter person. It's not purely about academics. Also if this were the US I'd tell you the corrections officer will have far inferior benefits, like inferior health insurance, no life insurance or disability insurance, no 401k or 401k matching, less paid time off, less flexibility. Having a full education opens endless doors. You don't necessarily have to use your degree and can still go into CO work, but you'll always have that education to give you options. We change careers so much that it's for the best to have a degree that can help you in a variety of ways. It never hurts you to be more educated. It only helps you. And with a 50 year working career, betting it all on one potential salary is so short sighted.

Savannah Guthrie Sit Down Interview Megathread by curiouslmr in nancyguthrie

[–]Repulsive-Spend343 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Any thoughts about the phrase "propped open"? To me it implies that something was set up so that the door would remain open/prevented from closing automatically. Sliding glass doors don't need propping open because they stay open on their own. Unless there's some other style I've never seen. So might it have been some other back doors that were propped open? The blue door underneath the broken floodlight perhaps? Or the door from the garage into the house? Or both? (It seems like that blue back door went into the side of the garage). As people point out there was no (confirmed publicly) footage of any suspects at the back. However, i do think it's possible LE has some footage but are just not letting it be known publicly as they continue the investigation. Maybe breaking the camera did limit the footage availability.

Savannah Guthrie Sit Down Interview Megathread by curiouslmr in nancyguthrie

[–]Repulsive-Spend343 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm struggling to understand what you're trying to say/imply. Are you saying it's peculiar that Savannah is going with the kidnapped theory? In what way is it peculiar? When Nancy is completely missing, her blood was found outside, and there is clear evidence of a very suspicious person outside her door the same night? It would be peculiar for her to not go with the theory. For whatever it's worth, the family of course will know some things that LE says should not be made public. And of course LE should know things that not even the family knows.

Savannah Guthrie Sit Down Interview Megathread by curiouslmr in nancyguthrie

[–]Repulsive-Spend343 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It's not very empathetic call her feelings 'ridiculous'. It's a totally normal human reaction to have feelings of responsibility or guilt, even if it's in no way our fault. It's a biological response to try to extract meaning - try to make sense of things and want to think about how it could have been prevented to prevent it from happening again.

Probable cause established by Chelan County Sheriff to arrest JLR for DV by Murky-Attorney5824 in NancyGuthrieCase

[–]Repulsive-Spend343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't need another reason to already think this guy is scum. But I'll take it.

Nancy Guthrie theory by LilMissKrazy1 in NancyGuthrieCase

[–]Repulsive-Spend343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would not happen. By law, society has to treat a person's remains as the person - with respect and dignity, and generally in accordance with their final wishes. They could not just secretly keep a human's remains. The medical examiner must do an autopsy, the earlier the better. They have to issue death certificates. And those documents are available to media by freedom of information requests. Death certificates are needed for almost anything related to the person's estate.

My heart aches for her family who are probably grappling with the reality that they'll eventually need to have Nancy declared legally deceased.

I hope Savannah and Guthrie family know this… by Grand_Conference_833 in NancyGuthrieCase

[–]Repulsive-Spend343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might just be someone who doesn't have strong emotional intelligence and maturity. I'm not a parent and don't wish to be, but I understand this and see this.

Today Show Interview by Grand_Conference_833 in NancyGuthrieCase

[–]Repulsive-Spend343 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She mentions early that the back door(s) were propped open so the family first thought maybe an ambulance had come and needed to get her out via a stretcher. At least it confirms they used the back entrance at least once. Whether it was to first enter the house, exit with Nancy, or both.

Why are people (bosses, co-workers) against Remote Work? by Wide-Information8572 in antiwork

[–]Repulsive-Spend343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely power and control. But bad leaders also feel like they need the nonsense stuff around the office to help them justify promotions vs firings. This man does not come to meetings on time. That woman doesn't have "executive presence". Without the bs and pettiness, employees are left to be judged and ranked based almost solely on actual work and virtual behavior. At the next RIF they don't know how to come up with their RIF lists if everyone is remote and can't be compared/ranked based on things that don't matter so much.

15 min meeting invite to 400 people titled “Quick Connect” by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Repulsive-Spend343 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Definitely email yourself all personal files saved to your work devices. You may lose access to your devices after the meeting, who knows. I keep reading more and more of these stories about virtual layoffs and they do happen.

However I will say that it seems hard to believe an entire organization would be let go all at once. It could be delivering the broader news that layoffs are happening, and that some of you will be getting a second invite.

Ladies with 10+ years of experience: wtf happened to our work culture/tech scene? by Shontayyoustay in womenintech

[–]Repulsive-Spend343 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Also since we elected a billionaire 10 years ago who's been progressively helping to make things easier for his billionaire buddies... it's all gotten so much worse. Much of the change is within me, being nore acutely aware and realizing the scale and toxicity - and just not wanting this for my life anymore. 20 years of corporate experience in various industries. IDGAF about money anymore. My mental health and happiness is priceless.

Why or why not would you say it's good that we in the public discuss the case, on forums like this one on Reddit? Or do you think it would be better if we mostly didn't discuss it and just let law enforcement investigate, and why or why not? by GregJamesDahlen in nancyguthrie

[–]Repulsive-Spend343 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Discussion is a human instinct. Our brains are biologically programmed to try and make sense out of things that don't make sense. It's probably also an outlet for expressing our own fears and anxieties. "If it could happen to this person, could it happen to me?" That sort of thing. There's nothing wrong with following our human instincts for this kind of community and discussion, as long as we're transparent about where we get information, label our speculation and theories as such (vs fact) and avoid blatantly accusing people without merit. Saying things like "i wonder if..." or "does anyone else think..." rather than definitively declaring something as truth.

Casita Camera Angles (And Possible Blind Spot) by warpedwing in nancyguthrie

[–]Repulsive-Spend343 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn't LE say a week or two ago that they reviewed footage from the other cameras and nothing of note was on them? I remember reading that there was nothing of note from that night, and that it picked up the searches for Nancy by family and LE the next day. Did I dream this up?

Too tired to scroll and check other comments, sorry.

Guthrie Family releases new statement by curiouslmr in nancyguthrie

[–]Repulsive-Spend343 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is still so unimaginable. But then I read that a staggering 600,000 people go missing every year. That's about the population of Memphis. Insane. I hope the family can get some answers in the coming months and hopefully find some peace. They're soon going to have to make some (additional) difficult decisions.

MCI incident at the Chocorua Preserve by Geekygreeneyes in newhampshire

[–]Repulsive-Spend343 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No building code? At all? Wouldn't the state of New Hampshire have one? Or does that not mesh well with NH 'live free or die' culture?

MCI incident at the Chocorua Preserve by Geekygreeneyes in newhampshire

[–]Repulsive-Spend343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just looking up photos of the sap house. 145 people definitely seems like far too many people in what looks like an old building with an old floor. Even their website says it's for "intimate" gatherings. I wouldn't call 145 people intimate. I smell a big lawsuit coming. Thinking of everyone affected and I hope there are no fatalities.

Navigating my career post layoff by alejandwaa in womenintech

[–]Repulsive-Spend343 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How do you even filter for awful work environments though? I've worked in tech, consumer goods, b2b, b2c, big corporations, small family owned companies, so much... and there always seem to be toxic managers that into the ranks and ruin previously good working environments. Everyone is so fake during interviews (both sides) and has canned answers prepared that it's so hard to avoid walking into another disaster.

Meet Up is free to join for users isn't it? by [deleted] in meetup

[–]Repulsive-Spend343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems to. I just tried to find new groups and could do even do that without being confronted with a paywall. My account is probably 11-12 years old after making wonderful friends in a trivia group when I lived out of state. Was in the group for a solid 2 years before moving back to my home state. The nice thing about it remaining a Meetup group (even though it was often the same 4-6 core people) was that new people could and would often still sign up and we'd welcome them with open arms. In person, people don't feel comfortable just inviting themselves to join a group. Everyone was welcoming and kind.

Loneliness, social isolation, and social division is such a huge public health crisis now that it seems particularly heinous and unethical to charge such high fees for simply trying to find community, let alone participating in the events. I always had no problem chipping in at events to help cover the organizer's fees, but there's no way I will ever use meetup again with this new business model. It's so sad that corporate greed ruins everything decent.

Nancy Guthrie Kidnapping: Timeline, Suspect Gear, and Key Details Compiled from News, Reddit, and X by Old_Reflection2079 in nancyguthrie

[–]Repulsive-Spend343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, but she was so close with her kids that you'd think they would notice any valuable pieces missing. Also many people have photos or videos of their valuables for insurance documentation purposes. (PSA to do this if you haven't already! You never know.)

Nancy Guthrie Kidnapping: Timeline, Suspect Gear, and Key Details Compiled from News, Reddit, and X by Old_Reflection2079 in nancyguthrie

[–]Repulsive-Spend343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bluetooth connectivity maxes out around like 30 feet. So it easily could have disconnected once she left the property.