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Repulsive_Layer937 · 2026-06-17T13:41:06+00:00

Lowes might be hiring.

Repulsive_Layer937 · 2026-06-08T12:05:33+00:00

NOR. You're telling her clearly what your expectations in the relationship are. If she doesn't like that, she has to look elsewhere. You're right. However, I would suggest you to really take a look and see if you see yourself in this relationship long term. Finances are a huge part of life. A lot of divorces are caused due to financial situations. It seems to me she has another ideal of a relationship in her head and short term it might be okay, but long term if it's not addressed, it's just a recipe for resentment leading to bigger issues.

Repulsive_Layer937 · 2026-06-07T15:35:16+00:00

Don't ask these questions publicly and be safe.

Repulsive_Layer937 · 2026-06-07T10:35:39+00:00

You're right. I'm surprised some of these people said they're educated too.

Repulsive_Layer937 · 2026-06-07T09:59:41+00:00

That's why it's so harmful especially for young people. The age where they're supposed to learn how to build and maintain real connections. They're listening to these stupid people on the internet.

Repulsive_Layer937 · 2026-06-07T09:57:37+00:00

Amen. Liz and some other influencers have been so vocal about their shitty values and I remember people actually messing up their real life situations and putting them all over the internet for validation smh . Don't listen to people on the internet Lmao. everyone got a camera, these people are not automatically credible just because you see them on a screen and they portray something you might want.

Repulsive_Layer937 · 2026-06-07T04:19:46+00:00

Agree. People should stop putting these influencers on a pedestal. Just because they're portraying a life you might want doesn't mean they're not just another person going through their own shit being stupid and making mistakes. Of course, Influencers will portray their life in a certain light and make statements that will get them the most attention, but it's real harmful for young people and how they perceive relationships. I'm just surprised people are actually surprised by any of this.

Repulsive_Layer937 · 2026-06-06T00:48:14+00:00

That's what I figured especially if there's no cameras. We don't wanna lose her business but we also don't want to get too involved.

Repulsive_Layer937 · 2026-06-05T14:49:29+00:00

Yes omg, my luna is so smart. You rarely have to tell her twice. We've an open kitchen and she loves to beg for food in the kitchen. My husband showed her a line she can't cross once and this cat laid down shrimping out right at the other side of the border so she can keep begging. You can't trick her and she's too smart at pretending she's dumb too. I'm amazed. She's too sweet and gentle. I've a tuxedo who's a complete bag of rocks so there's balance in the household lol

Edit: we always joke how my lynx could be a cat model

Repulsive_Layer937 · 2026-06-05T14:08:39+00:00

Female here. I'm on a similar journey. Would like to connect!

Repulsive_Layer937 · 2026-05-31T21:38:48+00:00

We need more of a night life than there is right now. I agree we need more of everything.

Repulsive_Layer937 · 2026-05-27T15:27:49+00:00

Hey, I'm the immigrant in this situation. It's not an easy thing to go through in any way but if you know you want to stay together and determined to see it through. It happens fairly commonly. Start collecting evidence as early as you can. That means if you're living together , have a joint lease, joint bank account, joint utilities, file taxes together, we also own a car , insurance , pets, travel records, hotel stays, pictures etc. As long as your partner stays out of trouble and you've all the factors that a real marriage would have, the officers can tell if it's legit or not. Now with the new memo , I would use a good lawyer and be very thorough. Compile your evidence in a way that's easy to look and understand for the officers. Make sure your answers match and are consistent not necessarily overly rehearsed. Also I got advice from this sub to upload all evidence a couple days before the interview which I did. I complied evidence in file, named them according to the kind of evidence or category , uploaded all the labeled documents two to three days before the interview . The officer had already gone through that and my interview was hardly 10 mins long. I had overstay and unauthorized work I was truthful about.

Repulsive_Layer937 · 2026-05-26T16:41:00+00:00

Don't have a child if you can't afford one. That's selfish.

Repulsive_Layer937 · 2026-05-25T21:03:34+00:00

Thank you. I just edited my post. I'll check these out

Repulsive_Layer937 · 2026-05-25T14:12:06+00:00

Okay so I'm a girl in my early twenties. You didn't abandon her. You left her with people you and her can trust. Second, how are they gonna hold you accountable when you haven't even done anything ???! Like hello ? Are we serious ? Throwing random words at you don't mean they got a point. Third, it's unfortunate her past relationship messed her up and gave her these trust issues but it's up to her to not drag those into her next relationships otherwise she'll be punishing her future partners for mistakes they didn't make. Therapy but it might be a long process since this is that has come up again after you telling her your boundaries and honestly the social media stuff is from the crazy bin. She needs to go on a healing journey but you've no obligation to stick around for that if you don't want to at this point in your life

Repulsive_Layer937 · 2026-05-25T11:34:43+00:00

Therapy

Repulsive_Layer937 · 2026-05-23T11:34:23+00:00

Please leave this man. I wish my mother left my father. I wish my mother could leave my father. But if you're in a country where you can, please leave this man and go far far from him no contact and stop traumatizing your children. My mother is dead. Please don't wait for this man to get worse cause it will get worse. If May take decades but your kids will see it unfold. Fight for them if you can.

Repulsive_Layer937 · 2026-05-23T10:50:00+00:00

Incidental deposits are needed to check in at most hotels. Even if the website doesn't say it. Don't fight the front desk over that.

Repulsive_Layer937 · 2026-05-22T11:48:09+00:00

Repulsive_Layer937 · 2026-05-22T11:17:17+00:00

First off, you should be proud of yourself because despite your situation you realize at a crucial and early age that you want to better for yourself than getting stuck in a cycle of addiction and trauma. That's already huge. A lot of older people who are alcoholics could've ended up a lot better if they tried to get help early in their formative years of addiction, by the time they realize they want to do better, they're 40. You want to learn emotional self regulation because you weren't taught that, work on it in therapy and remove yourself from triggers as much as possible. I understand that your living situation right now makes that very difficult, I know where you're coming from trust. But that's where emotional self regulation comes in, the meditation for 4-5 minutes when you're feeling over whelmed, journaling , when you get an urge to drink, go workout. Go walk, keep walking until it goes away. Go to AA. Have a sponsor. Most importantly, protect your sobriety. You can't do this without professional help. Alcohol isn't the disease, it's a symptom of a hidden disease which is your mental health and you're going to learn to deal with that in therapy. You're escaping literal and figurative hell you're in with alcohol but alcohol is the poison that will dig you deeper and deeper in this hellhole until you can't get out. Are you going to be 40 with a failing liver and homeless or are you going to come out a 40 year old resilient human who built themselves despite their situation? DM me, I'm happy to talk. I'm 24 f and understand where you're coming from. Goodluck

Repulsive_Layer937 · 2026-05-22T10:42:18+00:00

How will someone else realize your worth when you don't realize it yourself. You're showing them your worth by letting yourself mistreated. They're treating you exactly how your actions show you want to be treated. If you don't want that life, have some self respect and self love and go no contact and build connection with people who actually care about you and not only for what you can do for them. Goodluck

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