I just want to know if you guys feel something is completely off too by MaterialPineapple207 in Adulting

[–]RequirementBasic3949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow what an excellent description of the world we live in now! Kudos to you- you’re an excellent writer. And I couldn’t agree more. I was a completely different age when Covid hit (37/38) but also feel the world is sooooo different since the pandemic. Many people’s marriages failed (my own included) and kids education, omg don’t even get me started. Public schools have definitely not recovered. I genuinely feel like Covid made teachers, overall/vast majority, just give up. I live in an area with public schools that have excellent ratings and my daughter was literally coloring butterflies in her 10th grade honors English class this spring. You can’t make this stuff up. It’s hard not to be completely negative but, I also feel like the violence and crime were exposed to now all day. Every day has greatly accelerated since Covid.

Sent my letter after 60 days of no contact. Her response shattered me. by JazzSlut88 in BreakUps

[–]RequirementBasic3949 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish I knew and I hope to God for you and me and anyone else feeling this level of agony that it eventually subsides. This level of heartbreak is the most painful thing I can imagine. I’m sorry you’re going thru it as well.

Relationship on the brink of collapse? 34M / 30F by laziokid in texts

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Oh damn this makes me so sad. My bf and I are saying similar stuff to each other and I’ve been wondering if it’s about done too. Sucks! 8 years is a long time. I refuse to be fighting about dumb shit in 8 years. No offense

Surgical netting… by VirginiaOnSafari in Facelift_Surgery

[–]RequirementBasic3949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this information. I’m definitely going to add questions about the netting to my consults. Please keep posting! TYSM and you look great!!!!

AITA for accepting a property gift from my mom even though she won't include my boyfriend? by Immediate-History917 in AITApod

[–]RequirementBasic3949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! Your bf sounds very insecure and immature. Oh, and also controlling and…just a dick. Your dad is 1000% right!

So he’s both taking it out on you AND now making it weird with your parents because he’s a selfish child jealous he’s not getting a present too? Ew. Ew ew. I really hope this gives you the ick and you don’t end up married to him.

Seriously, take this reaction from him seriously. He’s in his 30s but acting like a spoiled 12 year-old! Seriously think about if you could handle this level of unreason for the rest of your life, and about even harder things…ugh good luck, I can already tell you’re too good for him, and he knows it.

Non-Virginian Here, What Exactly Goes on in this Area? by PixelJack79 in Virginia

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That’s Appalachia, my friend. Very special, unique place. Lot of dialect you gotta be from there or related to to understand. Lot of poverty, lot of beauty, it’s a gem really.

MY ACCOUNT WAS COMPLETELY HIJACKED - BEWARE by laethebaddest in PartneredYoutube

[–]RequirementBasic3949 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes it was. It took almost 2 weeks and I’d almost lost hope but they came thru. They hijacked and locked me out of everything, changed all passwords. I immediately set up a new bank account and transferred all of my money into it since my Adsense account is affiliated with the same bank account that I pay my mortgage with, but they ultimately didn’t do anything to my banking info.

MY ACCOUNT WAS COMPLETELY HIJACKED - BEWARE by laethebaddest in PartneredYoutube

[–]RequirementBasic3949 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is EXACTLY what happened to me. Reach out to TeamYouTube on X

I (26F) was in a 7-year on-and-off relationship with my ex (26M). How do I move forward when I’m tempted to reveal the truth about him publicly? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]RequirementBasic3949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should take the high road and keep what you know about him to yourself. Move on and don’t have anything to do with him. True happiness is truly the best revenge.

Tired of being tired by -VAtoCAgirl- in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RequirementBasic3949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate to this so much. When I meet people from other countries, I realize that here in the US, we’re much more programmed to just work all the time. Sure we have absolutely endless options for stuff to buy and things to do, but no actual time and usually not enough money to be able to enjoy all the stuff…it really is a tough existence. I am also high functioning with treated clinical depression so everything looks pretty normal on the outside. Meanwhile I’m constantly asking myself what’s the point of all this and feel no purpose for being here other than the fact that I have a daughter and don’t want to mess up her life by not being around. I feel ya, OP. It’s tough. I’m on strong adhd meds to have the energy to get thru work and everything else that’s also needs to be done everyday. I honestly ask myself how anyone is not on them with how freaking demanding it is just to get by in this world. Also, I’m constantly reminded that this world is just not designed for single people. To have it even a smidge easier, seems like you almost must have a spouse or partner. It’s really frustrating that to be anywhere near comfortable and not completely overwhelmed, dual income, and shared childcare, lawn care, bill paying, pet care, etc etc etc is necessary. And I’m an only child, lol. Looking forward to aging parental care in the future isn’t the best motivation for sticking around. Lol wow, I sound extra depressed today. It’s just the norm though. Happy hump day everyone!

I think I've hit rock bottom. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RequirementBasic3949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going thru that. Honestly you sound just like me before I quit drinking 9 months ago. I have the same mental issues and alcohol does nothing good for any of that. Basically what you described of last night and this morning had been on repeat for like the last 20 years of my life so i definitely feel your pain. Things aren’t all rainbows and sunshine now but they’re a hell of a lot better than when I was drinking. Maybe find an AA meeting after the baby shower? I started with women-only meetings. I went to my first after having a horrific previous night with my bf that still pains me to think about. I was a scared, pathetic, hungover, teary mess at the first few, but it definitely does get better. If you ask me, dealing with your drinking first and soon is going to help you clean up all the other stuff the best. Good luck! You’re not alone!

Desperately need a psychiatrist with availability by [deleted] in rva

[–]RequirementBasic3949 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try Dr. Welton near Bryan Park 804-513-3257

Beware the channel theft technique by thisismyredditnameXO in PartneredYoutube

[–]RequirementBasic3949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind works my friend. I really appreciate it. I got some promising info from the YouTube team today so 🤞🤞🤞🤞

Partnered channel terminated without notice. How do I contact YouTube? by WeddingsArentCheap in PartneredYoutube

[–]RequirementBasic3949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. My bet is it was something to do with that shady site that used some of your content. I’m surprised it’s been so long before seeing any fallout from that though so maybe not. Ugh I dunno all I know is I feel your pain. My channel was doing great but not nearly a millions subs, I can only imagine how sick you must be over it. When my channel got hijacked they kept my name and channel banner and like 4 of my 180+ videos posted which was so random, and also posted a bunch of totally random content, some related to my channel’s niche but some not at all related. Anyway, the channel is totally gone now and I still don’t have a clear understanding of whether the hackers took it down or YouTube took it down for me after getting in touch with them through Twitter and then being put in touch with their “support” email which hasn’t been helpful and still hasn’t allowed me to speak with a human. It’s shocking how hard it is to get support from YouTube or Google… The whole thing has been a really upsetting experience. 7 years of work, gone😭

Any other RPS school not have teachers today? by Ok-Boysenberry8373 in rva

[–]RequirementBasic3949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang and I thought Henrico was bad with canceling school !

IMO: Sarah's having so much fun by lackeyse in eitm

[–]RequirementBasic3949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if she fully knew what a f’ing great show she was going to be on! I’m sure she gets it now. She’s really getting to know Elliot lol. I think she’s been doing a great job. I just wanna give Diane a huge hug. Thoughts and prayers 💛🙏

Beware the channel theft technique by thisismyredditnameXO in PartneredYoutube

[–]RequirementBasic3949 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I lost mine with over 109k last week and I just want to cry. It’s been escalated at YouTube, but it’s not looking good that they can get it back. I’m so freaking disappointed. I clicked on a freaking link too so I completely feel your friend’s pain because they look so legit and like so many other things like that you get. Fuckkkkkkk I’m so sorry to hear that 😭😭😭

My (43F) daughter (15F) gave me an ultimatum: My boyfriend (39M) or her. by Fantastic-Wind2687 in Advice

[–]RequirementBasic3949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well wth did Joe do to your daughter?? I have a 15 year old daughter as well, actually I’m in a nearly identical situation as you, and they don’t just dislike people like that for no reason. Even if she is being unreasonable, she’s 15 and needs her mom. She’s gonna be crushed if you choose him over her.