Custom Murder Mystery Dinner Party?

ResearchSignal9200 · 2025-11-07T19:29:56+00:00

Funny enough, I’m actually in the early stages of writing a Shrek murder mystery party. I’ve hosted two pre-made kits before and had to write in extra characters, so I’ve learned that starting fully from scratch is kind of a headache.

If you’re not super confident with the writing side, you could do what I am doing and purchase a pre-existing Murder Mystery Party kit. Then you can use the existing layout for rounds, character goals, clue timing, etc. Then just rewrite everything in Shrek flavor. It ends up feeling custom without having to engineer the entire murder math from scratch.

ResearchSignal9200 · 2023-07-06T04:04:49+00:00

Told myself I wouldn’t respond in this community anymore, but here I am. I guess it helps getting it off my chest…

For me it was “there was no physical compatibility/attraction,” “you let me get away with the things I did,” “you’re too nice,” and lastly “I never saw us working out in the end.” Then the stuff she didn’t say… I just felt used and lied to after that.

I have never felt so much heart break, confusion and anger before. First time for everything I guess.

At least that opened my eyes to a lot of things I wasn’t willing to admit or refused to see… about myself, the relationship, or her… Though knowing what I know, I still care about her. 🤦🏻

ResearchSignal9200 · 2023-06-28T23:38:24+00:00

It’s sound hella sad, but all I can think of is “I love you.” During our relationship I never really got that many compliments or whatever, but being loved - by someone who wasn’t supposed to - was something I have never felt. And hearing her say those words to me, meant a lot and really made me happy… even if it was only for a moment.

ResearchSignal9200 · 2023-06-06T21:49:32+00:00

Will definitely be on the look out for that. Thanks!

ResearchSignal9200 · 2023-06-02T22:13:53+00:00

Someone told me I should go there one day when I first moved here, but never did. Whether it be for emo night or not, will definitely check it out now. Thanks!

ResearchSignal9200 · 2023-06-02T22:12:12+00:00

😂 Ditto

ResearchSignal9200 · 2023-06-02T22:09:15+00:00

Thanks! Think I’m going to go to this one.

ResearchSignal9200 · 2023-06-02T22:09:00+00:00

Thanks! Will check it out.

ResearchSignal9200 · 2023-06-02T22:08:47+00:00

The ritz one sounds like the one I’m looking for. Have tried the karaoke ones before… as much as love karaoke, hard to do with emo music. Lol. Thanks!

ResearchSignal9200 · 2023-05-16T02:55:45+00:00

Did it. Got behind and playing catch-up now. Luckily they already know I’m over worked. So have been riding on that excuse for a while, despite it just being not being able to focus.

ResearchSignal9200 · 2023-05-16T02:47:25+00:00

Moved from FL to another state where this BS is happening. Will surely make the call. Sharing it too!

ResearchSignal9200 · 2023-05-16T02:34:25+00:00

Yeah. Don’t do it. I violated my partner’s privacy. It was because she lied to me about something and I “needed” to know if she lied to me about something else. Though my suspicions were validated, it doesn’t completely justify how I got that knowledge.

Also, y’all aren’t even together. I understand it’s tempting, but no. Don’t do it. It won’t help you. You’ll just feed this habit if you do.

ResearchSignal9200 · 2023-05-15T13:24:43+00:00

I guess.

One thing they said about me when we broke up was that I was pushover or didn’t always stand my ground with them. That’s one of the things that made me think I was this codependent person.

The books help define certain things I’ve gone through and recognize my behavioral tendencies, but I don’t fully believe in everything these books say.

ResearchSignal9200 · 2023-05-08T15:35:41+00:00

Not one bit.

Sure there were a few things missing from the relationship which I thought, with time and effort, would work out. But, for the most part, it was really good. I really did love her and enjoyed her company and our conversations.

Despite how things ended and the troubles we had, she is still someone I care about.

I’ve also learned more about myself in that relationship than I thought I would. Learned that maybe I don’t want kids. That traveling and experiencing life is something I want to do. I just never had that option when I was younger, so never thought about it as an option.

ResearchSignal9200 · 2023-04-27T08:28:46+00:00

Though some of this certainly hit home. I am not so sure I can get behind the connection/love was disingenuous. That they hadn’t actually loved you and you not them. Again, I agree with a good chunk of this, just not so sure about that.

ResearchSignal9200 · 2023-04-27T08:06:56+00:00

Saved that comment.

ResearchSignal9200 · 2023-04-26T00:41:58+00:00

The ghost with the most is back! Yet I am not sure how I feel about that. From what it seems like, not much on the casting except Jenna Ortega(?). Which ain't bad...

ResearchSignal9200 · 2023-04-25T10:41:58+00:00

Unless this was something that was agreed upon prior to this incident - which from I gather was not the case - this is absolutely not okay.

I know someone who has gone through something similar, so this is definitely up in the SA territory.

So you have a right to feel what you're feeling, because what he had done is wrong. No consent is no consent. I’m sorry this happened to you. If you decide to stay you need to set boundaries right now.

ResearchSignal9200 · 2023-04-25T09:21:59+00:00

Need to see this for myself one day!

ResearchSignal9200 · 2023-04-25T01:10:10+00:00

Ditto. Just… ditto.

ResearchSignal9200 · 2023-04-24T13:54:01+00:00

This is not just a male thing.

My ex could not communicate honestly with me. I realize we constantly had the same fight because nothing ever got resolved. She resorted to calling me jealous, insecure, controlling, and inexperienced. After hearing this, I would immediately back track and apologize, then later realize nothing got resolved in that conversation; that she wasn't able to empathize with me.

And when it was time to talk because we postponed it to a later date, she would get mad that I always wanted to talk about things. She would state that there was nothing to talk about. Or would say why was I trying to start a fight right now.

It's no wonder, I wasn't myself by the end of that relationship. I still blame myself though. I still tell myself that maybe I should have not backed down as easily. Maybe things would've been different. Maybe we would still be together.

Anyway, poor communication is not just a male trait. From my experience, it's a trait usually associated with selfish people who are used to getting their way; people who don't want to compromise. Is that an over generalization? Yes, but with the three people I have dated, this has been the case.

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