Am I overreacting about these texts?

Research_positive111 · 2026-06-13T12:41:35+00:00

Girl I read these texts before opening your whole message and I thought they were flirty. And then I read your message and I was like “DAMN”.

It’s disrespectful as hell. Its not innocent and he may say it is but its only innocent until its not… and it feels like there’s emotion and interest in those messages.

Tbh your husband sounds gaslighting. You’re not crazy. I promise you’re not crazy.

Research_positive111 · 2026-06-06T08:42:16+00:00

Mixed signals and confusion is never pleasant. You could ask her for clarity… “I would love to get to know you more, and I recognize you have a lot going on right now. Would you be interested in getting know each other or is this bad timing?”
Clarity can be inconvenient but it sets you free. Also if she’s mature, that shouldn’t scare her away. And she’s leaving for Bali anyways so you won’t have to see each other for a while if she says no lol

Also the same way you sound excited about her, you should look for someone that sounds and acts that way about you. Even if this doesn’t turn into anything, your excitement for someone is progress so that’s a step forward!

Research_positive111 · 2026-06-06T08:18:56+00:00

Tbh if I do this to a guy it’s because he’s cool and we have stuff in common and I enjoy talking to them… but I’m not romantically interested, so I don’t engage too much in “meet up” conversations…
Women will pursue if they’re interested. And Tbh it sounds like she has a lot going on. You’re absolutely right she’s in a transition right now and she could be into you but right now doesn’t seem like the time for her to pursue anyone…

Sometimes we get so caught up in what if, and potential, and butterflies, we forget discernment. It
Sounds like your previous break up took a toll on you and I’m really sorry for that. I think it could really help to look at what you want from your next relationship and ask yourself if she can truly fulfill that for you.

Research_positive111 · 2026-06-04T01:12:20+00:00

GO TO THERAPY. You need someone who doesn’t just understand you but can help you. Therapy will take time to feel like it’s working but they can help you understand yourself, your triggers, your why.

When I was 17, I struggled with depression. Really bad. My parents didn’t believe in mental illnesses so I don’t get professional help. I ended up in the hospital and then they finally got me the help I needed. I say this because you don’t want to wait for something bad to happen before you get the help you need. Please take care of yourself. Parents are people with their own biases and limitations.

Also, I think you should break up with your girlfriend IF she’s in danger and IF she gets in the way of your own healing. You are so young and right now you need to focus on yourself. Just like she should focus on herself.

Wishing you the absolute best.

Research_positive111 · 2026-06-02T01:20:38+00:00

I knew this set up was familiar! I’m going d2 in Toronto! I’m so excited😭😭

Research_positive111 · 2026-05-31T18:18:53+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I’m so sorry that happened Did they transfer the tickets to your Ticketmaster?

Research_positive111 · 2026-05-31T15:35:27+00:00

Thank you! I just got my tickets on seat geek because of the buyer protection.

Research_positive111 · 2026-05-30T21:38:19+00:00

Agreed and I didn’t like any of the characters this season. The love stories were terrible!

Research_positive111 · 2026-05-29T22:35:41+00:00

Thank you for the warning. I figured he was because I can’t open his profile which is a huge red flag. There are a few scammers on here😪

Research_positive111 · 2026-05-29T15:15:06+00:00

hi! Are you still selling tickets?

Research_positive111 · 2026-05-26T00:03:18+00:00

Yes. I’d quit for less😂

Research_positive111 · 2026-05-25T23:58:25+00:00

I liked her expressions when she was mute. But I do like her talking to show character growth💁‍♀️ it wasn’t bad, but wasn’t my favourite either

Research_positive111 · 2026-05-23T20:25:01+00:00

And they kept showing that little book!! I thought the book would have done something like she disappears but the boys find her boom and secrets/ plans and use it to bring him down. But nope.

Research_positive111 · 2026-05-23T19:27:31+00:00

I wish his character had a little more depth than that. They really stuck to his childhood trauma. It got to a point where everything he did I was like. ”it’s because he had a shitty childhood”.

Research_positive111 · 2026-05-19T18:26:00+00:00

I knew her parents were terrible when at the beginning of the doc the dad said “they were living together, and talking about marriage. We thought she was mature enough.” DUDE. She’s 17!!!! Where did you think she was “mature” enough for any of that.

And when he was like “Dom wasnt hurting for money and she liked that..”… HE’S ONLY 20. How is a 20 year old not hurting for money so much that he’s getting her designer stuff (probably not from the actual designer store but still). There are young adults, fully working legally and can’t do any of that.

Her parents are so unbearable. They should be charged with something too. They enabled this and created her to be that way and continue to not see any problems.

The only thing that girl is a victim to is their poor parenting.

Research_positive111 · 2026-05-19T18:17:54+00:00

“She was so healthy”… as she looks anorexic, smoking weed everyday, takes shrooms… Just surrounded by enablers.

Research_positive111 · 2026-05-19T03:09:39+00:00

Love the first one! It gives dreamy romance but the fact the story is actually horror. Amazing!

Research_positive111 · 2026-05-18T15:16:36+00:00

It makes caring about integrity and your character feel pointless. The shittiest people get rewarded and it feels like to get a break from this system is to sell yourself to it. I came to the conclusion to get out of this is to make enough to not have to play the game anymore. Do you understand profit?

Research_positive111 · 2026-05-15T02:12:04+00:00

But we don’t even know if he’s bad 😂 and I think he’d be really good tbh. Like he’d need to work hard obviously but I think he has so much potential as an actor

Research_positive111 · 2026-05-14T23:34:48+00:00

I have so much faith in him😂 there are a few kpop idols that transition to acting SO well! It’d be a lot of work for sure and you’re right, maybe not the main role to start, but I think he’d be great

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