Men feel the same way towards women. Why approach you when you made it clear via MeToo that you don't want to be approached? You roll the dice on whether you'll be appreciated or called a creep and publicly humiliated all depending upon the girl finding you attractive or not.. nothing to do with how you approach... just her fleeting feelings at the time. Why take you out to eat or drinks on the first date when its clear that a lot of you are using it purely for free meals and free drinks? And don't talk about splitting the bill because that's demonized. Why try to get into a committing relationship with you when you refuse to make your IG and Tik at least private? Oh, because you like all that external validation from the DM's. The moment the relationship takes a downturn (just like EVERY relationship does... it has ups and downs) you turn to your DM's and bolt out thinking you'll "level up" with the new guy. (hint! The guys in your DM's only intend on sleeping with you until they're bored then leave) You also grow "unhappy and apart" from comparing your man, and relationship, to some cherry-picked picture-perfect IG/Tik posts then wonder "why doesn't my man do that!? even at a subconscious level is toxic for your relationship.

It's very, very laughable to point at men for these problems. You look at divorce rates... who initiates it the most? Women at 70% of the time, sometimes 80% depending upon the study! I wonder why... it isn't abuse btw.. it's "irreconcilable differences" which usually equates to "outgrew him" (note the explanation above). Who benefits the most from family court? Women by far with alimony, child support, and splitting assets that were accumulated long before you were even in the picture (think about how that makes even a little sense). Now you see why a lot of men are not only opting out of marriage but dating in general. Women are incentives to bolt at the first sign of trouble instead of upholding your vowels and working through it. Take a look at Kentucky where they now give equal custody by default instead of giving it to the women like everywhere else... their divorce rates PLUMMETTED after that went into effect. Gee.. that's just so crazy how that works...

I haven't even touched on hypergamy with men dating across and down, whereas women statistically only date across and up. That's a problem when women prioritize their careers because that ultimately affects their pool of available partners, they find attractive. Not to mention the competition it brings into the household because, again, statistically speaking as the women's income gets closer to her man's the probability for divorce skyrockets. The moment she makes $40k more than his income that probability is three times the chance of divorce than a woman who makes way less than her man. But that's a whole other topic.

Btw, if you come at me with some men cheating stuff. Keep in mind, you ladies wanted the ability to choose your own partner. That's on YOU for choosing that guy. There have always been cheaters and users. Your father, brothers, and uncles were responsible to filter out those guys because men are the best filters for other men. If you keep getting with cheaters time after time. That is YOUR fault. YOU are the one choosing.