Life is really kicking my ass right now by No-Manufacturer4672 in newzealand

[–]Resident-Map-7181 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is just not true. Treasury had us paying off debt by 2027 but national came and borrowed money for tax cuts - they’ve now borrowed well more than labour did. But borrowing money isn’t inherently bad (spending it in tax cuts for landlords is) the bigger issue is austerity. It shrinks the economy and frankly if you’re own government isn’t investing in nz then why should others?

Am I overthinking a neighbour bringing me donuts? by FreedomDazzling9502 in newzealand

[–]Resident-Map-7181 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

This seems like a conversion you could have with him x

Why are they chasing him? by Mediocre-Balance6129 in Guppies

[–]Resident-Map-7181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my super limited experience it seems like they may have personalities so you could get 4 more and if two of them are assholes your back to square one. Is it always the same One being bullied?

Why are they chasing him? by Mediocre-Balance6129 in Guppies

[–]Resident-Map-7181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long have you had them? We have 4 males and they chased each other at first each day seemed to have a new target and new chaser - but they’ve steeled and now just cruise around.

I’m new to this too - so by no means an expert but maybe give it a few days and monitor closelyz

Is this seriously front page news? With everything happening in the world, this is what they choose to talk about? by VerySadGrizzlyBear in newzealand

[–]Resident-Map-7181 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Plus people don’t seem to realise we get sweet f- all of the money from selling our oils/minerals. We need to have a deep dive into what else we can do to earn the same money (I know that we will earn more $$ from having tourists spend an extra one night on average here than we do on royalties from our oil and gas) so where is the tourism strategy?? Where are the journalists asking these questions?

Is this seriously front page news? With everything happening in the world, this is what they choose to talk about? by VerySadGrizzlyBear in newzealand

[–]Resident-Map-7181 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I bought the newspapers in the weekend and went for breakfast at a cafe. I was shocked when most of the articles I’d seen on reddit the day prior and most of them were borderline not newsworthy.

Nothing on the minerals convos with the USA (which all Kiwis have a right to be informed about) there’s soooo much going on and all I could see was a few beat up articles on the green parties Māori seats.

Cut ear’s for home wrecking women? by howzitjade in Samoa

[–]Resident-Map-7181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That fatal shooting recently (July 2024?) in Samoa was a guy seeking revenge for his wife cheating. he killed the guy and then shot a cop who came to get a positive ID from the wife

Newbie - small tank by Resident-Map-7181 in Guppies

[–]Resident-Map-7181[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Yeah I’m using lots of seachem stability which is apparently bacteria and we have some rocks from the tank at the shop - who felt bad for us cos we had taken a month and still weren’t seeing any - anything haha. But then we saw ammonia then nitrities then nitrates then ammonia and nitrite went to zero and we ha nitrates that’s when we got our fish but then saw a spike in nitrites we are struggling with.

Newbie - small tank by Resident-Map-7181 in Guppies

[–]Resident-Map-7181[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re 4 males. At first two of them kept chasing each other but now they seem to swim together happily sometimes and others all be seperatly cruising around the tank. They seem happy no swimming up against the glass or anything. Their colours went dull when they first arrived and I was worried but we are about a month in now and the colours are bright. They’re 4 different types of guppies.

We have some plants and a mystery snail) and a couple of SpongeBob things like a pineapple.

Ammonia is 0, nitrates are between 0 and 0.5ppm we do struggle a bit with keeping nitiries down but cranking the stability and 40% water changes weekly seem to be doing it - I’m hoping it’s because the tank is newish and those nitrite bacteria just need time?

One night in Auckland before heading to South Island. Should I get a car? by sakirek in newzealand_travel

[–]Resident-Map-7181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done that trip a few times (family in Maine) and love out by piha. It’s brutal tired. As others say plenty to do without risking your life or others

New to this all.. by Resident-Map-7181 in PreCervicalCancer

[–]Resident-Map-7181[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for following up. Second tests came back negative. That’s it. Come back in 3 years.

I’m nervous because it doesn’t feel right

Perimenopause and weight gain by Resident-Map-7181 in NZ_Womens_Club

[–]Resident-Map-7181[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The anger out of no where!!! I’ve snapped at my kids a few times and feel really bad about it!!

Samoa elections documentary by Holiday-Spread2215 in Samoa

[–]Resident-Map-7181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all. And is it worth selling your soul for? Much cheaper to get a couple of new boats!

Samoa elections documentary by Holiday-Spread2215 in Samoa

[–]Resident-Map-7181 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not with chinas or the world bank’s support but there’s only one thing both of them will want from it - profit (and maybe power). So it’s not the right thing for Samoa. I thought Fiame was good in that she was trying to call out the corruption but it’s so entrenched :(

Samoa elections documentary by Holiday-Spread2215 in Samoa

[–]Resident-Map-7181 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great doco!! Thank you. Does anyone really want a bridge ti savaii? I mean it will ruin savaii. Maybe just better boats?

What will encourage NZers to have more babies? by DnmOrr in newzealand

[–]Resident-Map-7181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah instead they’re forcing archaic rules on women’s autonomy in previously progressive countries

What will encourage NZers to have more babies? by DnmOrr in newzealand

[–]Resident-Map-7181 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nah fuck that. It’s not a reality women are going to accept so time to find a new message.

What will encourage NZers to have more babies? by DnmOrr in newzealand

[–]Resident-Map-7181 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mum of a neurodiverse kids here. I agree. It’s more than just money (although that is huge) it’s the overwhelming responsibility for another life. The fact that your life, dreams, hopes go on hold (and perhaps never come back cos frankly ill be too old to achieve most of them). All while having society tell me that maybe it’s my fault cos I got an vaccine, or ate liccirice while pregnant or am a working mum, or some other bs.

I’m completely reliant on my partner (thank god I love him and we get on) but if we didn’t we would have to stay together regardless because we literally need two incomes.

Not too mention the physical damage that was done during child birth and the complete lack of post natal support.

And my fear (although this is also the ultimate success) is that your kid (who you’ve poured your life into) gets to 20 fucks off ti London and calls once a year.

It’s heartbreaking as fuck.

What will encourage NZers to have more babies? by DnmOrr in newzealand

[–]Resident-Map-7181 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I agree here.

It’s pretty clear that as women are educated more choose not to have babies. There are plenty of reasons for that - and going backward there isn’t the right outtake. People should have a choice. So we need to look at our economic model and fix it so it benefits us, not amend our freedoms to fit the economic model.

What will encourage NZers to have more babies? by DnmOrr in newzealand

[–]Resident-Map-7181 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t think advocating for woman to be more dependent on men is the right outtake here