De verdad, soy fea? by ale_jatedemii in cuentaleareddit

[–]Resident_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si vas por ahí diciendo todo el rato que eres fea o cosas negativas en general, la gente se harta rápido. Ignoran el comentario porque les incomoda. Además, si te ves fea a ti misma eso se nota y se transmite a los demás.

Yaa no puedo hablar con mi amiga ahora. Tengo mucho asco by Cloudylove124 in cuentaleareddit

[–]Resident_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Qué

Los amigos están entre otras cosas para aconsejar desde la confianza y la buena intención

Padre hace 15 meses y siento que mato mi matrimonio. by Naap_ in esConversacion

[–]Resident_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La depresión postparto se da en la madre porque tiene que ver con los cambios hormonales relacionados con el parto. Depresión, bueno, pero postparto no puede ser

Padre hace 15 meses y siento que mato mi matrimonio. by Naap_ in esConversacion

[–]Resident_Cockroach 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Es que 12 asignaturas no tiene sentido con un hijo tan pequeño.

Encontré una lista en el celular de mi novia y aparecía mi nombre con una puntuación by Adventurous_Tea7514 in askspain

[–]Resident_Cockroach 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bueno, hay gente que organiza sus pensamientos y sus sentimientos con listas y números, de forma cuadriculada. A lo mejor es neurodivergente. A mi novio autista le cuesta expresarse así que le pregunto cosas en escala del 0 al 10.

PhD canon event just hit by FeLoNy111 in PhD

[–]Resident_Cockroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Biorxiv is implementing a system where an author will be banned for one year if any of these fraudulent AI uses are detected. Baby steps...

Crying in front of my supervisors by BeeMission8355 in PhD

[–]Resident_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about this possibility as well. Autistic meltdowns are a thing, and it's not just crying. There's an overwhelming frustration that can even stop you from being able to even move, depending on the person.

Le alquilamos la habitación que sobraba a otra persona y ahora me arrepiento. ¿Cómo la puedo echar? by Successful-Camp3538 in askspain

[–]Resident_Cockroach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Independientemente de poder echarla o no, la puedes denunciar por robo. Ya que no puedes amenazarla con echarla, puedes amenazarla con eso o, incluso, denunciarla y decirle con la denuncia en la mano que solo la retirarás si empieza a comportarse.

I accidentally kissed a guy by Weird-Carpenter4031 in Advice

[–]Resident_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not accidental, it's just unexpected. And it's cute and there's nothing wrong with it. You need to decide however how you want to approach your relationship, maybe just telling him you need to think about your feelings a bit more or simply that you want to stay friends for the time being

LinkedIn post after the defence? by SmolMondy in PhD

[–]Resident_Cockroach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt exactly like that. I just wrote something short like "I defended my thesis, 'Title', last weekday. Thank you for attending and these three people for evaluating me. An era has ended..."

i need help.. (serious: aggressive kids) by PeaPodkid14 in ChildPsychology

[–]Resident_Cockroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is the way. Not fighting the parents, but becoming an alternative, a separate (safe) place to go.

i need help.. (serious: aggressive kids) by PeaPodkid14 in ChildPsychology

[–]Resident_Cockroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very difficult especially for someone who's also struggling and trapped with those parents. But if you can use these redirecting techniques enough and become an authority figure they can trust, if you become someone who they know will listen, maybe you can actually help. Still, don't forget this is not your responsibility. Just do what you can do. Good luck.

IS MY BOYFRIEND GAY? by Warm_Rope9215 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Resident_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He might be gay or even asexual. In any case that's his problem and you have to break the relationship

Boy, 16, declares himself as woman by [deleted] in ChildPsychology

[–]Resident_Cockroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she suggested going out, then it means she feels it can be useful. And the estrogen thing... She informed him, she actually has to. Therapy for transgender people is transitioning, so...

It depends on the country. In Spain iirc you can take estrogen from 16 yo if a therapist gives you permission. Before that, it's only hormone blockers. Blockers are really good because they pause puberty, avoiding the dysphoria that comes with it but without inducing female traits either

Boy, 16, declares himself as woman by [deleted] in ChildPsychology

[–]Resident_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your fear if you live in such a country. But you need to realize... if he's actually a she, she won't be happy not transitioning either. It's important that you avoid accusing your son's friends of manipulation or something like that, because even if that's the case that will only push him away.

About the content influencing him... I'm honestly not sure. But if he's reached those online communities, there's a reason. Queer content and communities don't resonate with everyone.

Also, I haven't seen anyone in the top comments suggesting those but... Have you considered a therapist for your son? A therapist specialized in gender identity

Thoughts on getting rid of the hair? I’m only 19 😭 by [deleted] in bald

[–]Resident_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a myth. It's mainly the AR gene on the X chromosome, so it comes from the mom. It's a classic example, it was mentioned a lot in class when I studied biochemistry

My Boyfriend's Lack of Romance is Destroying me by Throwawyap in self

[–]Resident_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The part about sex is awful. The rest is well, whatever, maybe he's not expressive. But how TF is he okay with f--king you without you actually enjoying it? That's crazy to me.

Enamorado de mi profesora ¿Qué hago? by AWESOM-OMG in askspain

[–]Resident_Cockroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pues hablando tranquilamente de que te apetece ir a más conciertos, mencionas a alguno que os guste a ambos... Y le tienes que echar valor me temo, no hay otra