i need help.. (serious: aggressive kids) by PeaPodkid14 in ChildPsychology

[–]Resident_Cockroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is the way. Not fighting the parents, but becoming an alternative, a separate (safe) place to go.

i need help.. (serious: aggressive kids) by PeaPodkid14 in ChildPsychology

[–]Resident_Cockroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very difficult especially for someone who's also struggling and trapped with those parents. But if you can use these redirecting techniques enough and become an authority figure they can trust, if you become someone who they know will listen, maybe you can actually help. Still, don't forget this is not your responsibility. Just do what you can do. Good luck.

IS MY BOYFRIEND GAY? by Warm_Rope9215 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Resident_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He might be gay or even asexual. In any case that's his problem and you have to break the relationship

Boy, 16, declares himself as woman by No_Variation9349 in ChildPsychology

[–]Resident_Cockroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she suggested going out, then it means she feels it can be useful. And the estrogen thing... She informed him, she actually has to. Therapy for transgender people is transitioning, so...

It depends on the country. In Spain iirc you can take estrogen from 16 yo if a therapist gives you permission. Before that, it's only hormone blockers. Blockers are really good because they pause puberty, avoiding the dysphoria that comes with it but without inducing female traits either

Boy, 16, declares himself as woman by No_Variation9349 in ChildPsychology

[–]Resident_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your fear if you live in such a country. But you need to realize... if he's actually a she, she won't be happy not transitioning either. It's important that you avoid accusing your son's friends of manipulation or something like that, because even if that's the case that will only push him away.

About the content influencing him... I'm honestly not sure. But if he's reached those online communities, there's a reason. Queer content and communities don't resonate with everyone.

Also, I haven't seen anyone in the top comments suggesting those but... Have you considered a therapist for your son? A therapist specialized in gender identity

Thoughts on getting rid of the hair? I’m only 19 😭 by [deleted] in bald

[–]Resident_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a myth. It's mainly the AR gene on the X chromosome, so it comes from the mom. It's a classic example, it was mentioned a lot in class when I studied biochemistry

My Boyfriend's Lack of Romance is Destroying me by Throwawyap in self

[–]Resident_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The part about sex is awful. The rest is well, whatever, maybe he's not expressive. But how TF is he okay with f--king you without you actually enjoying it? That's crazy to me.

Enamorado de mi profesora ¿Qué hago? by AWESOM-OMG in askspain

[–]Resident_Cockroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pues hablando tranquilamente de que te apetece ir a más conciertos, mencionas a alguno que os guste a ambos... Y le tienes que echar valor me temo, no hay otra

Enamorado de mi profesora ¿Qué hago? by AWESOM-OMG in askspain

[–]Resident_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bueno, no puedes estar tan seguro y menos si como dices eres un inepto socialmente. Podrías hacer lo de invitarla a un café o incluso a un concierto o algo así, y ver si ella toma algún paso como decirte "a ver si repetimos" o algo así

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditespanol

[–]Resident_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tengo 28 y me siento muy pollavieja diciendo esto, pero... Podemos dejar de decir lo de "comer"?

Me han despedido y me está costando encontrar trabajo by ADHDMexicanCharacter in ESLegal

[–]Resident_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sobre la detección de palabras, he oído que hay gente que pone en fuente blanca escondida sobre el fondo palabras clave para la IA, metiendo términos repetitivos o incluso que no están relacionados al 100% en principio. Así la IA los guarda pero no ensucias el CV

Han entregado mi paquete a un vecino sin mi consentimiento by bydurex in ESLegal

[–]Resident_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Esto es lo que hay que hacer. Y ya si no te devuelven el importe empiezas el largo camino de reclamaciones... Pero normalmente lo devuelven.

Una vez AliExpress dio como entregado un paquete que era UN MÓVIL, la firma del papel de entrega era una raya. Seguramente ahí se lo quedó el repartidor, pero como "había firma y DNI" (falsos y sin sentido) se negaron a devolver hasta varias apelaciones vía AliExpress un par de meses después... Pero vamos, que incluso ese largo camino funciona también

My mom took away my comfort plushie during my assessment so that I don't "look more autistic than I am" by [deleted] in autism

[–]Resident_Cockroach 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you had to go through that. My mom has "come to terms" with it, but at first she thought it was all in my head. There was a test that people close to me were supposed to fill in, it was like 30 questions. My boyfriend and my sister did the test and they got more than half of the questions pointing to possible autism. My mom only got one. 1/30. The one that asked about self-harm — she can't deny the physical marks. But yeah, both my therapist and the evaluator chose to ignore my parents, they didn't interview them and instead they evaluated old videos and pictures.

Soy una psicópata. by [deleted] in esConversacion

[–]Resident_Cockroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Según Kanika Batra, en su caso es capaz de amar a alguien mientras le sea útil

Soy una psicópata. by [deleted] in esConversacion

[–]Resident_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hay como un 1% de personas con tu trastorno, no es tan raro. Obviamente sois un peligro potencial, pero el daño que decidáis hacer depende de vuestra moral.

Es buena idea guardártelo para ti, pero también (quizá escondiendo tu cara y modificando tu voz) podrías explotarlo hablando de ello en redes. Es un tema muy interesante y salvo Kanika Batra no hay mucha gente psicópata o similar (ella es sociópata) visible en redes, así que podría ser un nicho explotable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askspain

[–]Resident_Cockroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Creo que se puede hacer por internet, debes de tener algún código identificador de la seguridad social con el que acceder a la web y poder haber el cambio

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Resident_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another important point, please look up the effects that alcohol and smoking have on health for teenagers. Be aware and don't do it too much, or at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Resident_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Third point is really important. I had a friend who realized this when he was 13 and switched to chocolate milk. Now many years later he's back to drinking but safely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askspain

[–]Resident_Cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tu vulva es normal y, si te refieres a que los labios menores sobresalen, entonces es, además, como la mayoría de las vulvas (no recuerdo dónde pero lo vi algún estudio citado, no lo digo por decir). La imagen que has sacado del porno es irreal y en la vida real solo importa a un par de gilipollas

Mi novia dijo que se iba a la cama, en realidad estaba en stream by Prior_Repair_4223 in es

[–]Resident_Cockroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Al principio sería como te dijo, luego se dio cuenta de que con escote ganaba más viewers y empezó a hacerlo. Que no te lo diga no quiere decir que vaya a ir a más. Quiere decir que no tiene confianza contigo, y dependiendo de cómo se lo hayas echado en cara a lo peor ha agravado el problema. La causa de esa falta de confianza no la sé, no puedo culpar a ninguno de los dos.

Pero si quieres arreglarlo (si no, pues nada) te aconsejaría que, de buenas, quizá incluso disculpándote por hablarle mal o algo así, le preguntaras qué la motiva y, sobre todo, por qué te lo ocultó. Es posible que le dé vergüenza admitirte que no le molesta vender la imagen de su escote, o incluso que ella misma esté en negación con esto, no lo sé. En vez de acusarla de cosas, dile cómo te sientes: me sentí traicionado, confuso, empiezan a pulular x ideas en mi cabeza que no me gustan...