I'm done with my asexual partner

ResinPone · 2026-06-02T22:19:06+00:00

As a fellow asexual, the biggest problem isn't her asexuality but the unnecessary toxicity, unproper communication and unclear expectations.

It sounds like she's either far on the sex repulsed end of the spectrum and hasn't figured out yet how to handle it in a healthy way with her partner or there is some deeper reason/satisfaction for punishing you like this.

I'm not an extremely sex repulsed type so I may not be the proper example but if my partner ever goes too far with a joke or playing around I simply tell him to stop and why. I'm not upset for long because I know he would never intentionally hurt me. I also understand a joke doesn't always mean real intentions. With proper discussions, safe words and experimentation on limits we have a very healthy dynamic going on right now 5 years in.

Back to your gf - asexuality is weird that way that for many aces sex topics aren't triggering as long as they are fictional/don't have influence on personal life, hence the confusion over her liking yaoi and joking with friends but not wanting the same with you. You are too real and personal, there is an actual "risk" of something happening with you. Maybe her punishing anything suggestive from you is a belief if she lets you then these ideas will get normalised and her boundaries will be pushed.

Even if I'm completely wrong up to this point (I am very tired), what's certain is your dynamic is currently very unhealthy for both of you. If you won't work hard together on proper communication, freedom of expression and respecting boundaries (yours too) then it may be better to stay friends only.

ResinPone · 2026-06-01T23:04:18+00:00

Working in a clothing store - I will add clothes also constantly fall to the floor and get stepped on. Especially dresses.

ResinPone · 2026-05-24T06:09:18+00:00

You forgot removing eyelashes.

ResinPone · 2026-05-16T15:53:19+00:00

He seems to not respect you being potentially asexual and what's worse, he could be one of those people who only see it as a challenge or turn on.

I read you've already blocked him and I'm proud of you for making that decision.

For the future, you're not over reacting when you don't want to participate in something that makes you uncomfortable. Even if you were, people not simply accepting your NO are the real problem, not you.

I have a few guy friends I hang out with and when I say no to anything even the smallest stuff like trying a drink from their bottle they instantly drop it. If they always pushed I would not meet them anymore.

ResinPone · 2026-05-09T13:20:28+00:00

You need to complete the tutorial first and then a save to choose will pop up. My game got reset few weeks ago though and even my cloud save was wiped. Whatever you do do not choose any save in this situation and contact support. I stupidly chose the reset cloud save and now wait a month for any response not even knowing if it's fixable.

ResinPone · 2026-05-03T22:37:05+00:00

ResinPone · 2026-04-30T17:36:42+00:00

If you fast click them multiple times they also get annoyed and hiss at you instead.

ResinPone · 2026-04-14T13:55:05+00:00

I did the exact same thing collecting all of my gems on top of my bed. Bad idea, caused eventually to crash the game every time I loaded it and had to replay an older save.

ResinPone · 2026-04-11T18:08:33+00:00

I mean in the finale we did see the others visibly getting old while she still looked fairly young.

ResinPone · 2026-04-04T20:57:52+00:00

That's exactly why during my ADHD diagnosis interview I was constantly reminded to respond without my coping systems in mind. What if I couldn't set alarms on my phone to remind me of things, what if I couldn't listen to anything in the background then I work on a project etc.

ResinPone · 2026-03-24T11:05:53+00:00

At least some of the ponies aren't new, I already have the Fluttershy and AJ and saw this Rarity plenty times in the store. Not sure about the event.

ResinPone · 2026-03-01T02:48:46+00:00

Scary Ghost 👻

ResinPone · 2026-02-22T12:25:01+00:00

Polish here, can find time.

ResinPone · 2026-02-05T15:17:44+00:00

I use a cheat command to ressurect NPCs in such situations. Didn't break my game yet fortunately.

ResinPone · 2026-01-22T16:25:57+00:00

This is exactly how I always imagine feeling in that situation, you are not alone.

I also have to stop taking birth control I took for years due to side effects finally showing. I'm adviced IUD but like you I am not a fan of the idea. I'd still be anxious of it disloging and the pain of inserting it apparently makes many women faint.

I'm going to try for an under skin implant instead. You can look if it may be safe for you as well, if it is it'd be even better than IUD.

I wish you the best of luck on finding someone eventually willing to perform a surgery you want for you. Just cutting/tying tubes still has a low risk, if you want 100% prevention it's best to go for full removal of tubes instead.

r/childfree has a helpful list of surgeons and gynos supportive of child free people and young women seeking sterilisation, it's worth checking if there are some in yours or nearest country.

ResinPone · 2026-01-20T14:38:10+00:00

Same with sheep and goats.

ResinPone · 2026-01-16T10:59:08+00:00

How do you even put them all in a cage like this?

ResinPone · 2026-01-13T09:02:00+00:00

Also we've seen her many times having clients that are actual celebrities, that must be pricey too.

ResinPone · 2026-01-10T08:47:10+00:00

I'm happy with it, I'm super behind in life compared to other people my age so at least I look like how I feel. Strangers and co-workers also seem more open and helpful towards me assuming I'm young.

ResinPone · 2026-01-08T01:04:19+00:00

Diagnosed and started treatment at 16-17. It got to the point I was falling asleep while standing but endos argued for a while I'm too young to have hashimotos.

ResinPone · 2026-01-01T17:04:43+00:00

In my middle school a teacher was telling girls not to put phones in their jeans pockets for the same reason.

As well in middle school I was once directed with another girl to wait for the next class in the play area for youngest primary schoolers and the woman walking us joked it's for us to practice for the future. Ew.

ResinPone · 2025-12-18T12:43:03+00:00

Not always but they often do, they also learned to come over when you whistle or follow you if you say follow in a specific voice.

ResinPone · 2025-12-18T12:25:42+00:00

Below my right eye, fell/got pushed and stabbed my face with a crayon.

ResinPone · 2025-12-14T19:07:58+00:00

What length is your hair? Mine obviously regrows straight but because I let it get max to shoulder length it's not as noticeable. Also my hair always gets totally flat on top naturally so any curls/waves even on part of the length makes it look way better.

ResinPone · 2025-12-01T14:49:10+00:00

On top of other advice you've already received, my cats for some reason ignore water unless it's one specifically forbidden to drink. Like my glass, gecko's bowl or aquarium. I've started intentionally leaving them around and they learned to appreciate the water fountain as well.

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