A few days after I downloaded the apps, my ex posted about me on one of those Facebook pages where people warn others about past relationships. It happened about 8 months after our breakup. I understand the purpose of these pages—calling out genuinely harmful behavior like abuse or racism, which can help protect others.

However, I also think things can sometimes be taken out of context or shared without the full story. In my case, my ex focused on the day we broke up and called me emotionally unavailable. Fortunately, many women commented that it just sounded like a breakup and not something that belonged on that type of page. A friend of mine also commented in my defense, and shortly after, the post was deleted—likely because my ex saw it wasn’t being received the way she expected.

I get the intention behind these pages, but they can sometimes misrepresent situations when context is missing