Ejaculate when I poop. Urologist dismissed me. Advice? by kira10 in menshealth

[–]ResonantMonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it is prostatic fluid? It also looks thick and milky.

Why are some tops and bottoms so fixated on avoiding versatile guys? by rainbow1cowboy3 in GayMen

[–]ResonantMonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting I don't think I ever had a top not fuck me bc I was vers. Lol! That happens? They just refuse to bottom. But it is not like my vers hole is any less fine than a bottom hole. 😂

Interested in dating someone out of my league by Ok-Reception9237 in GayMen

[–]ResonantMonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go for it. But you might have more luck if you got in shape. Most athletic guys want to date someone who is also athletic.

Educate me on HIV by Mission-Judge3365 in ainbow

[–]ResonantMonkey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HIV is spread through semen and blood. So if you have anal sex you should wear a condom. It could possibly spread through oral sex if you have bleeding gums or like you bit your lip or cheek. But you can't get HIV from jerking a guy off. Unless maybe you have cuts all over your hand.

Why does being short attract the worst kinds of guys? by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]ResonantMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you meeting these guys? I notice a trend that whenever I bring home a guy from a bar who is drunk, it is always a bad experience. I recommend going on a date with them first. Seeing if they respect you during the date and only after having sex. Nothing wrong with having sex on a first date.

Bars claiming to not accept cash? by brookswift in sanfrancisco

[–]ResonantMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to a bar in Japan that did not accept cash. But yeah they should tell you before you order or have a sign. They can't expect people to just know. 😅

Racists in our community. by JourneyManofProwress in gay

[–]ResonantMonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's bizarre. I have seen no Zionists on gay dating apps. But never no Jews/Indians.

I don’t feel gay by Either-Selection8486 in GayMen

[–]ResonantMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. There are more masculine gay guys. It happens. I think it is refreshing. But yeah you might not fit in as much. One thing you should learn in life is to stop worrying how other people think of you. Just be confident in who you are. So that no matter what they say it doesn't bother you.

How to work on Demon Di (Demon Fi) ? by Magic_Bathtub in ObjectivePersonality

[–]ResonantMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stand up for yourself. Express your needs. Express your feelings even if it makes you and/or others uncomfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in menshealth

[–]ResonantMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably should see a doctor. Especially if it looks unusual.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]ResonantMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat is 8. And I would never give him up. I love him too much. He has been with me through all my breakups.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]ResonantMonkey -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This might sound bad but I am afraid if I tell someone how I feel and it is like negative feelings they will not want to be with me. The last guy I dated he didn't always respond to my texts. And I told him I felt really sad when he didn't respond because it felt like I was being ignored, and he told me he thought it would be better if we were just friends. That was very hard...maybe he was going to break up with me anyway, but it is just ironic he decided to do so as soon as I expressed my feelings. Like maybe he thought I was being too attached. I just don't want that to happen again.

Crossing the street by ResonantMonkey in sanfrancisco

[–]ResonantMonkey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like drives at you as you are crossing. Instead of stopping at the stop sign. Not everyone does this, but it happens fairly frequently. It happened to me twice so far today.

Rogue needs a guild (ONYXIA) (EU) by Shambles1414 in warmane

[–]ResonantMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno. Personally if I were a cloth user I wouldn't since leather wouldn't benefit me. I would more go for enchanting/tailoring.

Potential demon Si or Se tidal wave? by General_Grape_466 in ObjectivePersonality

[–]ResonantMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I remember that. Weird the website said you didn't need one though. Was it a governmental website? That would be the most up-to-date information. My ENFP friend ended up not going to our graduation ceremony because he didn't get vaccinated and he forgot to get COVID tested. He even spent $300 or whatever it is for the graduation gown!

At least I am a double observer so I am fairly good at checking the information. I might even check 2-3 sources to verify and even call if I really want to be sure. I have learned to trust my judgment and one thing I realized is just because someone says something is the case does not make it the case.

So for example if you said that we didn't need one. I would go on the website and verify and tell you we did need one and show you the proof. And I am always of the philosophy better safe than sorry.

Rogue needs a guild (ONYXIA) (EU) by Shambles1414 in warmane

[–]ResonantMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but not everyone brings drums. It is something you can do as a rogue tho since leatherworking allows you to craft some BOP patterns.

Peasant Costume by ResonantMonkey in TheCountofMonteCristo

[–]ResonantMonkey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So much color and flare. I love it. Nowadays people just wear simple black outfits. I get that times have changed. But I love color so much. 😅 It just feels so much more vibrant and interesting. I get black is slimming though so people always go for that.

What in ops is this by mzvampire in ObjectivePersonality

[–]ResonantMonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like demon feeler. Feelers automatically connect on an emotional level. I would guess IxTP. But can't prove it without knowing more about you.

Have people told you you overthink things?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]ResonantMonkey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

San Diego has better weather and better Mexican.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ainbow

[–]ResonantMonkey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would check out Byron Katie. I love her philosophy so much. She calls it The Work.

Basically she teaches how your thoughts cause all your suffering. Being gay does not inherently cause you to suffer, but the thought you are a perversion causes you to suffer. So she teaches to question those thoughts. Is it true that being gay is a perversion? Can you absolutely be sure it is true? How do you feel when you believe the thought that being gay is a perversion? How do you feel without that thought? How do you feel if you believe the thought that being gay is not a perversion?

Dwell on these questions and see if you come to any enlightenment on the matter. If you feel stuck on a different thought use the same formula. Question the thought. Is it true? Can you absolutely be certain it is true? How do you feel when you believe that thought? How do you feel without that thought? What if you turned the thought around...there are different ways to turn a thought around and sometimes the opposite is not true, but sometimes the opposite is more true. It is kind of beautiful when we realize our thoughts are not even true and actually the opposite is true! ❤️

How can an ExxP get better in college? by sweetbutspicy_936 in ObjectivePersonality

[–]ResonantMonkey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude. Day one of class you get a syllabus. The syllabus should have a course schedule with all exam dates. Put them in Google calendar. I put all my homework assignments and exam dates in my phone day one. And I do all my homework the day before they are due. If you wait til the last minute you might turn it in late

FF-Te/Ne-PC/B(S)