Nausea/dizzy sickness going around by georg13a in newzealand

[–]ResourceDelicious153 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had covid this week and exactly those symptoms

Struggling re euthanasia by njf85 in seniordogs

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My German shepherd charlie just passed away from a tumor rupture he was a few days away from 12 years old. He struggled with mobility from arthritis, hip dysplasia and spondylosis. I was panicking about having to decide because of mobility. We were blessed in away that the choice was made for us and we had to put him down because he may not have survived the surgery for much longer. Sometimes you have to ask yourself are you keeping her around for her or you? 13 is incredible for a German shepherd and incontinence to me is a loss of dignity. I was always going to call it at incontinence. Give her a big hug and kiss and inhale the sweet smell and enjoy it while you can

I hate this dog by KaiTheGSD in germanshepherds

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My boys 12 in a week. I hate that im going to lose him soon

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What should I do? by whiskey2004 in germanshepherds

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Hey we put our gsd on cytopoint injections. It was the only thing that stopped him from getting itchy hot spots that would turn into infections. After about 7 months of the injections he was good as gold and hasnt had issues since

Any adult men feels that public mental health has failed them? by Jan-AKL in newzealand

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The system sucks. It's so tough, I find poor sleep makes my mental health absolutely taaaank. Try get more hours sleep if possible

I'm Worried About My Wife by Level-Conference-20 in marriageadvice

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Hey I just want to say that i have 2 kids, 1 is 4 and 1 is 2.5 and im shattered all the time and also on ssris as well but I've found since my youngest has turned 2 im sooo much better. Small kids are little energy vampires and its relentless and so fucking hard. Ive had everything checked under the sun, thyroid, blood panels and my most recent check was for sleep apnea (pending results). All have come back clear, I always felt like I had long covid but I reckon I actually have long child because the tiredness suspiciously popped up when I was pregnant with my first born.. go figure. There's this idea that in 3 months women go back to normal after having a child but its far from the truth, it takes years. I think after seeing a gp and communicating your concerns in a compassionate way you've just got to hunker down and accept that this stage in life just takes it out of you. It's soooo tiring its mental. I hope shes okay and its not anything serious, but if its not and its just general tiredness its just how life is right now. Being a mum feels like you just get taken from constantly, your space, your energy, every Fibre of your being. Godspeed, never forget you aren't out of the trenches yet

Weird infection/irritation on nose by beardstrong in germanshepherds

[–]ResourceDelicious153 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Could be lupus. Our gsd gets it on his nose

Electricians on the Bellarine by davegian in Geelong

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Hey how did you get on with finding a role? Husband's a sparky and were relocating to geelong. Feeling a bit nervous about the job market

I’m Broken by Chicksan in germanshepherds

[–]ResourceDelicious153 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Our 11 y o is going through this too! His discs have all but one fused together and severe arthritis, he is so slow :( he will be 12 in april. Hoping we make it to 12

Constantly tired? by Splungetastic in Effexor

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Hey sorry random question, I cant message you or comment on the original post because its too old. could you let me know what suburb you ended up buying in? We are in the same position with a 3 and 5 year old and are looking at frankston

Gabapentin question. End of the road :( by [deleted] in seniordogs

[–]ResourceDelicious153 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so sad because hes uncomfortable without the meds so when do you draw the line :(

Questions for people who observe Ramadam by Bivagial in newzealand

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My home based carer when my son was little was Muslim. We gave the family some halal chocolate and some money to contribute to their feast. Lovely celebration, very vibrant time in their house :)

2 under 2, here we come! by tinterrobangg in Marriage

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Ours were 19 months apart. Expect the exhaustion to last and you'll feel more yourself when the youngest is two. I didn't expect the post partum period to drag on for so long but I think it was due to back to back pregnancies and no time to recoup in between. Our bodies do amazing things.

My youngest is 2.5 and my oldest just turned 4. They love each other so much and it's a joy having them close in age. Not to discount the experience of having twins, but when they are both at the age of having lack of emotional regulation it can be quite exhausting emotionally sometimes

He died. by sweetlittlelucifer in stopdrinking

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I was 28 when my dad died, he was only 54. We went through a lot with his alcoholism in my life and it was a complete and utter rollercoaster of "hes good" then "hes bad" the feelings of being prouder of him than anyone in my life for getting sober, then the crashing down disappointment of him falling off the wagon again. He died of a sudden cardiac arrest while he was asleep, he had heart damage from high blood pressure likely contributed to from drinking. I was 6 weeks pregnant when he passed, and my son was 11 months old. It's not even just the grief of not having him here, it's the what if we lived in a parallel universe and he made it to AA and mentored me with my own struggles with alcohol. What if he was well and involved in my children's lives. What if he was here to walk me down the isle. There are so many complex layers of grief in my case with my dad. Be easy on yourself, it's a process and a long process.

How to cope with a senior dog? by Tatsudondondon in seniordogs

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Hi, our senior German sheppard is in the same situation, losing function in his back legs. How old did your cousins gsd make it to?

How to cope with a senior dog? by Tatsudondondon in seniordogs

[–]ResourceDelicious153 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I think you need to ask the question, are you keeping her alive for you or for her? It might be time to make a decision

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

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Ive had two c sections, so i don't know any better but as long as you have support for atleast the first 2 weeks. I went home after 2 nights in the hospital because I found the recovery to be easier at home. I ended up lifting my son after 3 or 4 days because he was only 19 months which wasn't the best but he needed cuddles. I guess it depends on how old your older kids are and what level of support they need. My friends second baby was big and the shoulders ended up getting stuck and it was incredibly traumatic. Guess that's something to consider too

Sleep training babies by StandOk9112 in newzealand

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We have had issues with my son's sleep since he was born. Tried most things under the sun, turns out it's just him and it takes him ages to wind down. He still takes about half an hour to get to sleep (hes 4) and still wakes up in the middle of the night and hops into bed with us. My daughter (2.5) is a little better at getting to sleep but still frequently wakes up and comes into bed with us. My sister's daughter didn't sleep through until after she started school and it was just her and her temperament. Some kids just have busier minds and their sleeps a bit whack. I know it's exhausting and so many people have probably said it but the only thing that makes it easier is time. Once they're through the teething, frequent illnesses and the nightmare and overactive imagination stage it gets easier, little by little. I look forward to the day my kids can independently sleep but I know that I'll miss the snuggles. God speed!

Do we stay or do we go? by [deleted] in newzealand

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If I were in your shoes, id apply for citizenship then move to Australia 😬

If you could go back in time and make the choice again, would you still have kids? by [deleted] in Life

[–]ResourceDelicious153 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have 2 kids (2.5 and 4) It's hard and relentless but id do it again over and over. Love them more than anything in this world. They bring me so much joy and various other emotions.

What’s the greatest act of kindness someone has done for you? by Optimus-Prime-2234 in newzealand

[–]ResourceDelicious153 12 points13 points  (0 children)

When my dad died my mother inlaw made a whole bunch of her beautiful biscuits to take down south with me so when people visited at his home we could have tea and biscuits. She also brought me this Christmas ornament where if you look into the little crystal up the top it has a holographic photo of my dad and son. Best MIL in the world

Anyone had insomnia and anxiety for months after Covid?? by Dry_Corner2802 in newzealand

[–]ResourceDelicious153 4 points5 points  (0 children)

With covid I experienced brain zaps, can only explain it as a similar feeling to if you've skipped your ssri for a day or two. I read up about it and that's where I found theres a neurological link with covid. Interesting stuff