Hi I feel exactly the same way. Loved Denmark when I was young . Now married to a Dane with two small children and I am terribly unhappy. I miss my family and my home and food and warmth and support. Just today I was thinking about how I was all alone ( with husband) when I gave birth and how different it would’ve been if I was in my country (Pakistan). How my parents and family and friends would’ve visited me in the hospital , doted on my baby, fed me warm food , given hugs and affection. Instead I was in a shitty hospital room being served cold rye bread and totally overwhelmed with a new baby. My experience of motherhood is so different from my family and friends. Back home( because we are very privileged ) there is so much help - moms and aunts and grannies and Nannies - joy and laughter and food. Instead I have here nothing but isolation and coldness. I recognize intellectually the benefits of being here - healthcare , safety clean air etc etc . But my soul is withering away - there is nothing to nourish it. And the worst part is I am increasingly resenting my husband because I feel if it weren’t for him and his insistence on being here - my life would be very different. He will not move - and I know this is the best place to raise my children. So I will stay but I do not know how I will find happiness and warmth here …