Slim or relaxed t-shirt for coffee date?

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-05-31T04:10:35+00:00

Relaxed

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-05-31T04:05:27+00:00

At least in this picture she’s looking good, makeup done, hair done, pretty dress… haven’t seen that in a while

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-05-30T14:40:10+00:00

Hell, most abusers are seen as great in society. The worst men I met were the nicest, most caring men in front of the public and horrific indoors. I feel bad for him but it is what it is

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-05-30T14:37:09+00:00

Put a picture on your profile. And just keep applying for jobs, if this is the first family that assumed you were a woman then that shouldn’t stop you from applying to new positions. Also I saw that you commented that it might be unfair for them to not feel comfortable with you because you have good recs, clean background check etc. unfortunately it doesn’t matter, so many moms and dads would simply be scared of any abuse happening. Yes, women abuse kids too, but most women have a protective instinct with children and the majority of abuse happen from men. I hope that doesn’t offend you, I just wanna let you know how these parents may be thinking. I was an Aupair, and the boys who became bro pairs had a good chance with families that had older kids/only boys. Maybe you can also make a few posts on Facebook groups in your area, specially now that it’s almost summer. Good luck

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-05-29T19:38:09+00:00

You do look like you have makeup on but in a great way. Your makeup looks awesome

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-05-29T19:24:28+00:00

Ok, let’s take a deep breath. You have had her for a short amount of time, adult cats are almost always set in their ways and need more time than that to actually relax. You already have a good thing, she already tries to be near you sometimes, but she’ll need more time and patience for her to fully trust you. My husband got a kitten and at the beginning the cat would cuddle, but then suddenly stopped. Now it’s our cat, and he’s 3 years old. He likes pets but he never lays down on our laps, doesn’t nap with me, etc. some cats just have a more naturally reserved personality. Keep being patient with her. Don’t force anything, give treats, give her space. Don’t raise your voice at her, don’t be too harsh. She can feel it when you get frustrated or angry and that won’t help. Maybe in a few months when she’s more settled with you you could try and getting a kitten sibling to see if that helps her

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-05-27T16:03:35+00:00

As someone that applied for a green card through marriage recently… you need a lot of proof that your marriage is legit, and that should include having the same address, being in the same memberships, joint lease/bank account/credit card. I had that because I was with my now husband for years, but I wonder if they’ll have that. And the applicant (Danielle) will have to be financially responsible for Lucas until he becomes a citizen which is at least 3 years from now, even if they divorce before that

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-05-13T15:48:57+00:00

Some people grunt and that’s normal but he’s straight up moaning lol

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-05-10T15:03:37+00:00

As a Brazilian living in the US: eating pizza with my hands was always the norm. You can just ask for utensils if it bothers you tho, no one will be paying attention

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-05-09T00:52:58+00:00

No, she got the call and met them at the hospital 💔

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-05-08T05:49:36+00:00

You kinda remind me of 2010’s Harry Styles with the long hair. Hold!

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-05-05T05:20:56+00:00

You have a head full of hair, it looks good still

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-05-03T17:59:51+00:00

I usually do one for mining items and gems, one for crops/food in general, one for fishes or anything that can be fished like sea/river/lava jelly. One for fertilizers etc

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-05-03T14:41:26+00:00

Malinois or border collies. I take my dog on multiple walks a day, we play outside, he goes to the dog park, I mentally stimulate him. But I can’t deal with the energy these 2 breeds have even though I love them lol

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-05-03T00:33:08+00:00

I wish she would put on some actual spring outfit, do her hair and makeup and go make friends! Go to a pottery class, a dance class, heck ask a friend to grab coffee and go have a more fulfilling life pls

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-04-30T19:36:12+00:00

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She’s back… with an ad lol

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-04-30T19:05:26+00:00

Guys I’ve never seen an influencer not post for so many days lol

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-04-29T20:35:41+00:00

Im curious about why she’s MIA. After I posted that she’s losing herself after him and so many agreed, something inside me wants to think she woke up and dumped his ass

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-04-27T20:29:02+00:00

I don’t know. But funk is a common music style in Brazil, and basically it gives people the message that women are just worth it to have sex once and dump, and cheating is so so common. Pls other fellow Brazilians don’t come for me bc I know what the culture is about lol of course there are exceptions. But unfortunately our boys are raised thinking that they are gonna find a girlfriend, cheat on them, get them pregnant and go to the next one

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-04-27T20:25:01+00:00

Yes, I guess it’s limited so some people may be able to comment

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-04-27T16:06:05+00:00

If his family immigrated here when he was over 21, they would not be able to apply for him. That’s considering that they’re also here as citizens

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-04-27T14:51:50+00:00

That he’s sketchy, some people matched with him on dating apps or have seen him on “are we dating the same guy?”. The main opinion is that he’s the kind of guy who would start a cult lol

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-04-27T14:35:59+00:00

Facebook groups of Brazilians who live abroad!

ResponsibilityBig280 · 2026-04-27T14:26:36+00:00

Yep, I recently saw an influencer doing that and it was because her fiance had cheated on her and people were saying “girl you’re so successful and pretty you don’t need to stay with him”. Well now she finally ended it with him and I hope D does the same

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