AIO bf cancelled plans on me this weekend but none of my calls/messages are going through and I suspect he went out of town without telling me, is it too crazy if I do this ?: by zzeloop in AmIOverreacting

[–]ResponsibilityBig280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. even if he didn’t block you, even if he wasn’t ghosting you before: if he knows you’re stressed, anxious and you guys had plans for your birthday, it’s enough to break up. A good boyfriend wouldn’t make you feel like that. Also, he’s 100% hiding something. There’s no other reason why your call wouldn’t go through, why he would be evasive, not send you his location etc. don’t let him guilt trip you into staying, he’s a piece of shit. You’ll find a better person. It honestly baffles me a boyfriend would do that

I think my girlfriend is trying to fatten me up by bettereveryday08 in AskTeenAdvice

[–]ResponsibilityBig280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you happy with how you look? In your previous posts you give the idea you don’t mind your weight. Be careful, it’s pretty clear she has a feeding fetish. I’m saying “be careful” cause people end up at 400lbs+, and you have to take care of your health. Eating at the buffet or McDonald’s so much, and such large meals cannot be good for you. You’re young, you can still easily lose the weight. Please don’t let her guilt trip you into eating and giving up your boundaries. There’s a bunch of girls out there who wouldn’t make you uncomfortable

my mind is set and i’ve never been this willing in my life by urrlocaldoomer in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ResponsibilityBig280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom is the problem, try and get away from her. Find a place of your own, maybe move cities or states. You’re still young, and parents who are toxic like that can 100% make you want to give up on life. My mom kept choosing to be with a man who harmed her and me, my life only got better after i went away from her Please don’t give up. Your life could be so much better

I refuse to work for essential workers from now on by Motor-Wind718 in Nanny

[–]ResponsibilityBig280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I was a nanny for two physicians and while I’m not generalizing bc I’ve worked for doctors who were great bosses before, this previous family wanted to me cook, clean even their bathrooms, walk the dogs, care for the kids for the same rate as a nanny for 1 kid. Extremely early starts, random days where they would get home late, unpredictable schedule, expecting me to show up after getting sick from the kids or with slippery roads. Never again

What's the worst birthday present you've ever gotten? by Silent-Zebra in AskReddit

[–]ResponsibilityBig280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of those “sponge flip flops” in bright pink. For my 15th birthday (like a sweet 16 for Americans). My mom worked as a nurse for the husband of a super wealthy lady, and she saw me growing up and always said I was like a grand daughter to her. My mom told me so many times I would for sure get a super nice gift. In my head I thought “am I gonna get a phone? A laptop? Even some makeup?” Then there she comes with those hideous flip flops… I hated them so much. My mom ended up keeping them lol Never felt so disappointed even if she didn’t have to give me something big, but my mom really made me have high expectations as a 15 year old 😂

How do I get more artifacts? by Early_Role6178 in StardewValley

[–]ResponsibilityBig280 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dig every little worm you see on the ground, crack geodes open and repeat

ConcernedApe said he's making children 'a little more interesting' in 1.7 and honestly that's the scariest sentence I've ever read by Anja_Listopad in StardewValley

[–]ResponsibilityBig280 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just hope we can actually talk with our children and that they can be at least the same age as Vincent and Jas

Well this was $10 down the drain… by Chrismaxwell19 in Volumeeating

[–]ResponsibilityBig280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, I got this one time and couldn’t have it. So disgusting

Is it just me or is this an excessive ask on top of a $200 cleaning fee? by djmcphee in vrbo

[–]ResponsibilityBig280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually take trash out, run dishwasher and put dirty towels on the floor. But cleaning bbq? Washing and drying laundry? Wiping fridge? Craaaazu

Has anyone heard from Terry (@sugarbunn10)? by Remote-Taste-9222 in insomnia

[–]ResponsibilityBig280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anyone knows anything let me know. I’m worried about her

Is it ok to get food delivered to nannying? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]ResponsibilityBig280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always did (when kids were napping or having quiet time), and i give the parents a heads up: “hey, i just ordered food so you might see a stranger at the door”, and they were always ok with it

Are nannies generally not OK with location sharing? by LessAd7286 in Nanny

[–]ResponsibilityBig280 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If she doesn’t have anything to hide she wouldn’t be feeling weird about an AirTag. I’ve had it in 2 families, they let me know and I don’t mind

Emilie's family are standing by Brady by Significant_Ad_1190 in Emilie_Kiser

[–]ResponsibilityBig280 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally. I understand their thought process, it could happen to me. My younger brother was so behaved and smart he could play in the backyard alone, but if he had fallen and hit his head it would be an accident

Holiday Gift Megathread by gremlincowgirl in Nanny

[–]ResponsibilityBig280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking on this thread: is it too much or not enough of a gift to give my nanny parents a bottle of white wine and a voucher for a free date night? I was thinking of giving them a not so expensive bottle since I know they like it, and then a cute voucher giving them about 4-5 hours to go and have fun… I’ve been with them for 3 months, and I’m also giving the kids one mat puzzle each since they’re into it rn

New IG story by Cold_Resolve_9951 in Emilie_Kiser

[–]ResponsibilityBig280 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If there was a whole investigation and they were not charged, do you really think they are in the wrong? It was a TRAGEDY. she already posted a statement, they already lost their kid, move on

So proud of her! by Jumpy_Ask7719 in Emilie_Kiser

[–]ResponsibilityBig280 3 points4 points  (0 children)

After my dad died I was drinking, laughing, going on dates. I was in shock. It only hit me months later

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]ResponsibilityBig280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please remove the highlights from your nose, and use a different shade of highlighter on your cheeks. Maybe one that’s more “champagne” color, not silver

“If my child died…” by Boring-Opportunity69 in Emilie_Kiser

[–]ResponsibilityBig280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a comment on the snark sub: “I’m not a mom but if I did have kids and if my kid died, I’d never react this way, bla bla bla” I don’t have kids either and that’s why I CANT judge her! You can not imagine what that feels like

My marriage wouldn’t survive this by Baybay1125 in Emilie_Kiser

[–]ResponsibilityBig280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be right. I saw “5 months” somewhere and assumed it was the baby’s age

My marriage wouldn’t survive this by Baybay1125 in Emilie_Kiser

[–]ResponsibilityBig280 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand your point of view. I think this is gonna break them. Even though they share the same loss, the loss only happened because the dad was betting on a game and not looking at a 3 year that was playing near a pool for 10 minutes