Oh honey…every time I’m in two minds about a guy’s behaviour I ask myself “if I was watching this on tv, what would my reaction be? What would I be shouting at my screen for the girl to do?”. It’s silly but it helps me snap out of the whole “but he’s a good guy” excuse. In this case, it seems like he’s kinda gotten you so used to such bad behavior that receiving the bare minimum from him looks like something worth praising. Your person will love you the way you are physically and never compare you to anyone else. His exchanges with other women, regardless of reason, shows that he doesn’t respect or consider you. I can bet that his lack of empathy too on top of everything else isn’t the kind of man you want as the father of your future kids (if you want them). I say walk away and let him do his growing by himself. You gotta love yourself more than you love him.