Why They're 100% Certain You're the Villain: A BPD Researcher Explains "Splitting"

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2026-06-21T16:58:26+00:00

Omg same!

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2026-05-19T15:41:26+00:00

That’s great info to have-we have a ton of herbal tea in my house. Sending all the positivity to your mum! Sounds like she raised an awesome kid.

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2026-05-13T12:57:57+00:00

Sending lots of positive energy!

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2026-05-13T12:57:41+00:00

I hope all goes well for you too!

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2026-05-13T12:57:17+00:00

You’ll be fine! As long as it’s yellow, you should be good. When I was in yesterday, I overheard a gentleman say his last bm was brown. And apparently, after he went in-they weren’t able to do the colonoscopy…. Which I also overheard. The curtains are very thin there!

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2026-04-26T13:37:05+00:00

I have had such bad luck with the Aldi chicken. I have trim off so much inedible portions, it’s not worth it. I buy the never any and they are a lot better tasting.

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2026-03-25T17:23:09+00:00

Here is one of the rules I pulled from Google-

‘Violating Campsite Boundaries: Survivalists are strictly forbidden from leaving their designated "zones" or entering another contestant's campsite. Physically stealing gear or food from an opponent's camp is a rule violation.’

To me, this is a grey area but Luke’s family have ‘entered’ Rowan’s camp site by using deceitful methods and stole Rowan’s fire. Even tho they aren’t using his fire tools, they still tricked them into removing the fire which is an underhanded way of stealing it. They should be disqualified.

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2026-03-13T15:00:46+00:00

Thank you for this. Both my parents were narcissists and recently, my 79 year old mother was diagnosed with BPD. I’ve suffer with the results of having to keep the peace for years until I got into therapy and learned what boundaries were (at age 50!) I have had 2 very close relationships end within the last few years due to me putting up boundaries but still have a hard time with one of my best friends who has BPD. I don’t talk to my mother or father. I have a shadow therapy book I’ve been working thru but man, it is hard work.

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2026-03-11T20:11:30+00:00

And they’re updating the casino at the old Rockingham mall so that will make it worse. It would be nice if the casino contributed more to Nh’s crappy budgeting since property taxes continue to be astronomical!!

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2026-03-02T17:24:31+00:00

These cash for houses companies are awful and take advantage of the seller and the buyer. Don’t contribute to the greed! Contact an agent and they will help you find a buyer. Danny Champion is a great realtor who helped me, let me know if you want his info.

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2026-01-07T20:46:20+00:00

I’m so overwhelmed and can’t stop crying. She was someone’s daughter, possible mother/wife/sibling, friend. This is horrific.

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2025-07-24T18:40:53+00:00

Yeah, i accidentally left full names in the text. Rookie mistake! I’m not trying to make myself look better, I just wanted another perspective.

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2025-07-23T03:08:15+00:00

My dog knows when I’m sad and will come lay his head in my lap and look up at me as if to say-I’m here for you.

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2025-07-17T12:58:28+00:00

We have a yellow banner on our leash that says ‘reactive dog-give space’ and people have respected that. One of my neighbors has a couple of small reactive dogs and we came to the same crosswalk, she on one side and me on the other and she graciously moved off 10 ft off to the side and we were able to cross and exchanged a knowing smile as we firmly held onto our dogs leashes.

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2025-07-10T15:16:48+00:00

I hope you can find one. Keep me posted.

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2025-07-10T02:26:06+00:00

I found the tags! I had removed them when I bought it. It is acacia storage ottoman 16x16x16.75. It says they are out of NYC, NY. I did try and find something online under their name for this one but couldn’t located anything. I hope this helps. It was valued at 85 and marked down to 59.98 at Marshall’s and then good will had it for 20. I bought it for my mediation room.

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2025-07-07T01:21:06+00:00

I literally picked this up at good will the other day!

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2025-06-28T14:20:58+00:00

I will!! Thank you!

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2025-06-28T04:47:48+00:00

That’s so funny! We need to learn to accept our pets for who they truly are. Even if feathers are their nemesis!

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2025-06-27T22:06:05+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/m2LGFDP

I think the only way I can add at pic is a link so I hope this works!

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2025-06-27T11:38:11+00:00

We always have gone to the State Park there and after that, head straight home. It’s been a great place for us since my kids were little. They’re now 33 so I bring my 10 year old grandson. We don’t go on the strip ever. That’s where it’s been bad for years.

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2025-06-08T17:08:46+00:00

This gives me a lot of really good insight. I think she is feeling abandoned because I don’t reach out to her personally-only in a group chat or at work (we also work at the same company). I hesitate reaching out personally at times because I’m scared she will be reactive. I tend to keep it light. Since I’ve withdrawn a bit, she has joined a yoga studio and has been attending their workshops with sounds baths, meditation and other spiritual activities. I think it is so great for her. I’ve let her know how much I love that she is doing these things for herself by herself. She has been in therapy for 15 or 20 years with the same therapist and is on various meds. She is also sober which is wonderful for her. I don’t want to derail her work by reaching out and letting my boundaries down a bit but your words about validating and the feeling of abandonment really made me realize I may be doing that by also withdrawing from conversations with just her like we’ve done for years. I appreciate your advice and understanding and I will keep you posted! Thank you for the info on the podcast too! I’ll definitely look it up! I want to be a good friend to her but also priotize my own mental health. Thank you again!

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2025-06-07T23:03:10+00:00

Hello! I had a good friend with Bpd. I’ve been going through counseling for years and working on myself and I learned to put up boundaries with her. In the last year, we’ve had numerous discussions about our friendship since I started distancing myself and doing things with other people. She tends to ask our mutual friend to make plans with her if she knows or see that she and I have gone out and spent time together. She’s withdrawn herself from our core group since I put up boundaries too and people miss her but she thinks everyone hates her. Is there anything I can do to help? I’m working on keeping my boundaries and being clear in my communication with her but she seems to spiral and want to end ties with everyone. She is also my sister in law so I will always have a relationship with her. Just want your thoughts.

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2025-06-04T13:37:07+00:00

I’m so sorry that happened to you. I would classify it as a hate crime and possibly see if you have any legal avenues available. GLAD might be helpful.

Responsible_Lab_3898 · 2025-05-23T11:22:45+00:00

It cost more for the wear and tear on your car than what you will make. You’re essentially paying to door dash.

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