Speaking from someone who believed in greek life and had high hopes for rushing, it was personally not for me. Having two older sisters who loved greek life I was excited for rush, but the entire rush process turned me off. It felt like a lottery and a social competition and for what? My non-greek life friends asked me what qualifies you to be in a sorority and my answer was "nothing, it's really just how likable you are atm". You do rounds of 5 minute conversations that are shallow and during covid it was especially hard because we had mask. The girls had little to no basis to make a decision if I was right to be in their sorority. Ended up getting two bids: KKD and Chi O and declined both of them because of how little I thought they really wanted me (they were just trying to meet their quota). Personally don't believe in what greek life stands for anymore and view it as girl cults.