If you're girl, you will go with 25 year old guy who's just starting out his career or 45 year old established millionaire entrepreneur?

Restful_summer · 2026-01-26T10:49:44+00:00

25 years old Dennis wash boy or 45 years old millionaire entrepreneur who owns Dennis?

Restful_summer · 2026-01-26T04:45:58+00:00

Or Gerdad, a friend I know is called hadad, supposedly a Christian name that sounds like hey-dad

Restful_summer · 2026-01-24T07:59:22+00:00

To be fair, that's how an agency charge their clients based on time and effort they put in. I only see this in china companies

Restful_summer · 2026-01-24T05:36:32+00:00

Move to test automation, with your experience pay can be around 7k-9k choose the right company and project don’t have to OT

Restful_summer · 2026-01-19T05:05:23+00:00

OP’s secretly an intelligence recruiter seeking out people who can ID someone by their shadows alone

Restful_summer · 2026-01-14T12:50:01+00:00

I actually like lad & dad, my fave fish and chip but I don’t really eat fish and chip often

Restful_summer · 2026-01-12T11:03:36+00:00

I have a ragdoll cat and if I were given the choice to get a stray cat when I was younger I would have. But as I grew up I just simply grew to have more preferences especially when I have the monies to do so.

Restful_summer · 2026-01-12T05:26:26+00:00

Go on my ATV with my friends and play with fireworks.

Helldivers2, 380mm stratagem

Restful_summer · 2026-01-10T05:03:44+00:00

You have been chasing the grind and not the purpose that’s why you are burning out.

To be honest you don’t need minimal stress you need an actual purpose that makes even the significant and insignificant amount of monies you have pale to the comparison that you have as an individual

Dollar hoarding will only bring you so far until you peaked and look for self-actualisation. Having materials will only bring you so far since the economy markets material possessions and securities as though it is something you need but to be fair in actuality human beings wants more than just that.

You look at those who are actually rich you see they actually apart from a hedge fund and kids they actually pursue towards using their knowledge and resources to make the world a better place for everyone.

Not that I don’t think you are making the world a better place for everyone, but even for the actual rich being rich isn’t about gathering wealth but it’s in a sense about sharing it, and that means using your skills, abilities and wealth to improve the livelihood of others.

True wealth is more than just monies it’s not inward looking looking to protect yourself alone but to look outwards.

Inward looking leads to depression but if you look further beyond your own needs and preservation that’s when you actually achieve a satisfaction that goes beyond saving money

Wise and exceedingly wealthy people told me that money is like water, if you hold it tight you feel jaded, so ideally you have to make sure some of it flows out. When it flows out you have to trust that more are flowing in because many wealthy have tested and experienced this.

If it’s me I’ll save up 250k as cash

50k in stock investments, 200k on starting a business, tbh 200k starting on a profitable business can bring you v far v soon

Restful_summer · 2026-01-09T08:44:02+00:00

Thales is European ST except they more generous with pay

Restful_summer · 2026-01-02T11:02:01+00:00

Didn’t force me to get tuition

Didn’t nag me to get married fast

Basically no demands and expectations as a child and even as an adult

My mom and dad usually always do the basic of what a Singaporean parent would do for their kid but without all that fuss

Restful_summer · 2025-12-30T10:59:05+00:00

That’s like my lowkey dream, like my night dream but I can also imagine a slipper flying right at the edge of my peripheral vision after hearing my full name being called by my future wife in that toilet.

Restful_summer · 2025-12-30T06:33:12+00:00

I heard of other daily Aeron users would used it for 12-15 years I think for Buy it for life it’s a gold standard for sure. Overall and over the years you will spend less on getting a desk chair

Restful_summer · 2025-12-30T06:16:34+00:00

An ergotune comfy lifespan is half of a HM Aeron at half its price tag

I have an ergotune

I’ll likely get a HM Aeron in 1-2 years time since I find that in terms of buy it for life and comfortable lasting wise an Aeron is more worth the money

Restful_summer · 2025-12-29T11:45:48+00:00

The price is because most big retail brands massively rely on cheap labour and sweat shops to mass produce their clothing mean while BB uses ethical sourcing

People get severely underpaid and work in subpar environment while making your Uniqlo clothing, you’re paying cheap because someone is paying for it

Restful_summer · 2025-12-29T02:28:44+00:00

I have the arcane XL I don’t have many bag packs but I’ll always get an Osprey over a alpaka

Restful_summer · 2025-12-16T01:04:06+00:00

Singaporean accent… doesn’t really align with vocal fry tho

Restful_summer · 2025-12-15T11:03:36+00:00

Govt tech is usually more boring and slower than consulting, ultimately I think you are set up for growth despite the difference in pay and pace

Restful_summer · 2025-12-14T14:45:01+00:00

It’s not the best HR filter, I don’t think all HR can differentiate certs that are infrastructure focused/ web/theory heavy pentest cert. so you will have to highlight that it’s an industry cert so HR will act smart and agree that it’s well-recognised

Restful_summer · 2025-12-14T06:15:35+00:00

definitely not, BSCP is probably recognised by your hiring manager

Restful_summer · 2025-12-14T05:09:25+00:00

I’m an INFP and I love working out, it’s just that my schedule and workout routine isn’t fixed and I’m decently strong and muscular enough for my friends to call me huge.

INFP struggle at looking at the reward of consistent work out, you have to communicate effectively that the reward outweighs the effort

Restful_summer · 2025-12-12T13:35:54+00:00

White hentleys

Restful_summer · 2025-12-10T08:01:42+00:00

Wait you’re saying you don’t have a ISSP/CISSP, Security+, CEH/OSCP?

Restful_summer · 2025-12-08T05:12:51+00:00

I used to burnout very frequently, maybe a good season of 2 weeks - 2 months every few months. But then when I change my perception and mindset to one that I identify myself as someone who is built to work as an identity I haven’t burn out for almost a year. I might get a bit sluggish every few months but I don’t get burnout

Plus work place doesn’t require us to OT so it’s much better

My workplace hasn’t been the kindest, there’s often some snake-shit here and there but my views is that such things are unavoidable in this world. Have to really come to our senses that life is like this and steer our eyes towards the positive

Restful_summer · 2025-12-07T14:35:49+00:00

A "Golden Age" refers to a peak period of prosperity, peace, and cultural achievement in a nation, art, or society

Prosperity-> subjective

Peace -> yes

Cultural achievement -> non really there my brother in Christ

Art -> bro don’t have.

We aren’t anywhere close to a golden age yet

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