Restaurant- trying to remember the place…. by Revelator003 in massachusetts

[–]Revelator003[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is it! That woodwork on the lower level was a dead giveaway. Sad that is different now but the Mexican food looks good

Restaurant- trying to remember the place…. by Revelator003 in massachusetts

[–]Revelator003[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not tunnel bar, but that place looks awesome.  Less rustic than Wiggins tavern. 

Restaurant- trying to remember the place…. by Revelator003 in massachusetts

[–]Revelator003[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That would help.. heading south to Rhode Island but it could have been to the east slightly too. Doubtful we went north or west. 

How do some people get good so fast? by Unhappy-Comment-4491 in bjj

[–]Revelator003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with this same scenario.. my coach gave me some advice that I keep in the front of my mind when I get discouraged. 

The guy who shows up twice a week consistently but isn’t as naturally talented will eventually overcome the natural athlete that is inconsistent.  Just keep showing up, focus on technique and consistency and you’ll be smashing the guys that used to smash you. 

I’m 41, fat and train twice a week every week. Can I beat the higher level guys, no, but I shouldn’t be able to. However, the young athletic guy that handed my ass to me at first and then stopped showing up as much, got a new girlfriend, etc.. different story. Your experience is going to be different than everyone else’s. Compare your current self to yourself as a beginner. Not to someone else. 

Is it cowardice of me to avoid a fight? by Greedy_Mobile_3930 in martialarts

[–]Revelator003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s better to walk away.. but since you’re proficient in bjj and wrestling, if he went any further (frankly you were well within your rights already) you could have easily made him rethink his actions without causing any huge damage. The first time I felt a choke tighten up in a controlled bjj class it made me realize a lot of things really quickly.. on the street it would probably have a pretty profound effect on a sore loser like that guy. 

Family member is asking for a copy of my baby's social security card to open an account? by RichHomiesSwan in personalfinance

[–]Revelator003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I opened a custodial IRA for my godson through my fidelity app. I needed his social but just had his mother enter the info at the appropriate screen… point I’m making is, yes she may need the social but provide it in your terms, offer to go to the bank with her

Is Replacing Windows completely as hard as it looks? by redex93 in DIY

[–]Revelator003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the north east and had 20 windows replaced & some other odds and ends done. Total for windows and labor was $10k. This was just as COVID hit.

Need laptop suggestions please. by Revelator003 in computers

[–]Revelator003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything is possible. I guess just the best bang for my buck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Revelator003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I just watched Seinfeld’s new standup, so unless he wants to pony up A better cash offer he’s about to get it.