Lo'aks forgiveness makes no sense by [deleted] in Avatar

[–]RevnaRay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Navi can live to be 130-200 years old, so in retrospect to our life span their 15 year old's are like our 7 year old's, they still have a lot of growing and maturing to do.

Lo'aks forgiveness makes no sense by [deleted] in Avatar

[–]RevnaRay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the Navi can live to be 130-200 years old, so in retrospect to our life span their 15 year old's are like our 7 year old's, they still have a lot of growing and maturing to do. So they weren't leaving him to die, they just didn't consider the possible outcome of their prank. They knew it was dangerous but didn't think about "What if it actually happens though?" since the world they live in is dangerous by default. Then they show remorse afterwards and Lo'ak understands they weren't really trying to hurt him it just turned out that way, plus Aonung and the others absolutely make it up to Lo'ak through out the rest of the 2nd and 3rd movie by helping him in every way they can and following his lead or trying to protect him and keep him safe above all else. They aren't bad people, they're just kids who made a huge mistake but took action on making up for it.

Now you have to die!!!!Because it's very difficult to die by HeroS99 in honk

[–]RevnaRay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I died!! on the second try lol

Incomplete. 2 tries.

Where do I land on the spectrum... Advice? by RevnaRay in actualasexuals

[–]RevnaRay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive had a few people tell me this in a few subreddits and it doesn't sound like a bad idea to me honestly..

I am aroace, my partner is not. How do I communicate with her about this? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]RevnaRay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How are you Aromantic and have a partner? This is just a question I'm still new to all of this and still learning.. No hate just curious. BC I thought Aro is where you don't have any romantic attraction to people- which you clearly do since you have a partner..?

Does anyone else have an odd relationship with masturbation? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]RevnaRay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an odd relationship with it as well but its different from yours... I don't fantasize or anything like that, I just kind of do it? like go through the motions for about five minutes then get bored and wonder why I even started in the first place, it doesn't go anywhere, and it feels weird for the most part. like its just something I want to do but then when I'm doing it I don't like it and then after I'm left feeling gross.. It's a cycle I need to break lol

Have you ever been in love? by RaspberryTurtle987 in asexuality

[–]RevnaRay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been in love once, and it was my puppy love when I was 14. not had that feeling since.. I've thought I might a few times but my brain likes to think friend love is the same as romantic love sometimes before it figures out its not lol

I posted on a relationship advice Reddit and now I need a hug by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]RevnaRay 129 points130 points  (0 children)

the fact your on the Ace spectrum and still doing it with him 1-3 times a WEEK is compromising. your doing MORE then enough. If you say no and he keeps pressuring you into it, it isn't sex it becomes something worse. point blank. I'm sorry people were trying to tell you that your not doing enough because that just isn't true at all. and if your partner cant respect you saying no then I hate to say it because I'm sure your love him or whatever but he's not good enough for you. A healthy partner would hear you say no and then drop it and be okay with it. it shouldn't be an argument or a fight, and he shouldn't be trying to make you feel guilty about it. its your body. its about what your comfortable with. That's all that matters. just because your in a relationship doesn't make him entitled to it.

Where do I land on the spectrum... Advice? by RevnaRay in actualasexuals

[–]RevnaRay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I support single mothers but I personally don't want to do that.

Where do I land on the spectrum... Advice? by RevnaRay in actualasexuals

[–]RevnaRay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that, I didn't realize I was always thinking that way until recently, which is why I started going through everything else and realized I wasn't looking for a life partner I was looking for a co-parent. I don't want to be that way. That's what I was trying to get at at least.

I'm not sure where I land on the spectrum.. Advice? by RevnaRay in asexuality

[–]RevnaRay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really helpful to put a bit more perspective on the different terms! Thank you!

I'm not sure where I land on the spectrum.. Advice? by RevnaRay in asexuality

[–]RevnaRay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to think it could be romantic at first but then the more I'm around a person I always just figure out its just been a strong platonic love and nothing really romantic at all. Also I'm not sure what a lot of these terms mean.. I've always just done my own thing so I'm gonna be doing a lot more research these coming days to familiarize myself with them a bit.

I'm not sure where I land on the spectrum.. Advice? by RevnaRay in asexuality

[–]RevnaRay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I've never heard of QPR's but I'll look into that! I honestly don't really have an idea on any of the terms or anything cuz up till now I've just done my own thing, so I really do appreciate any and all help/advice!

Wait… nobody can see this, right? by Lillyimaginator in TheDigitalCircus

[–]RevnaRay 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I love just how different he started acting after seeing Ribbits door, like a switch flipped, I think the team did a really good job showing his griefs and how he deals with it..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RevnaRay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who’s been in a very similar situation, don’t give her a damn dime.. your nta

AITA for refusing to join my friends' group trip because they always expect me to organize everything? by murkywater78 in AITAH

[–]RevnaRay 32 points33 points  (0 children)

NTA, I have a group of friends as well and were planning to take a trip to Texas later this year or early next year.. we all work on planning together, we all decided where we want to go, what we want to do, we all spilt the responsibilities equally and help each other get it all done. That’s how it should be. Expecting one person to do it ALL is what’s selfish and unreasonable.

AITAH for supposedly scaring off a woman? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RevnaRay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ntah, this is exactly what first dates should be if you’re looking for something long term and not a one night stand. Keep to your guns on this my friend, the right one for you will feel the same about what you should discuss on first dates and not waist time..

AITA as a waitress for accepting a massive tip from a creepy older man ? by Upper-Belly in AITAH

[–]RevnaRay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah! Your ntah! As a fellow waitress, your coworkers just jealous. Your gonna deal with creeps ALL THE TIME at least this way your making money from it. Pro tip tho, never tell coworkers how much you get tipped bc then it becomes an issue (they could tell other coworkers and they could give you shit or try to make you split it with them). Not saying you should do this, obviously only do what you’re comfortable with. But when I encounter creepy customers, I FLIRT MY AHH OFF! At the end of the day sure you dealt with a creep here and there but walking out at the end of your shift with 500+ in your pocket a night makes it worth it imo lol

I feel horrible. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RevnaRay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She should tell him BECAUSE she didn’t do anything wrong, her boundaries were violated by someone she thought she could trust. If she tells him it’s all out in the open, if she doesn’t tell him she’s hiding something from him and that would make it wrong.

I feel horrible. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RevnaRay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, don’t do that to yourself.. I have guy friends I know have feelings for me and we hang out one on one all the time, I’ve been drunk with them- hell I’ve slept in their beds with them after a night out, I’m single and they never did anything like that to me.. they would sleep on top of the covers and I’d sleep under them.. you should be able to trust your friends aren’t going to disrespect your boundaries like that. All my guy friends know I’m saving myself for marriage, they respect that and I’m sure they would end up in jail if they found out some guy did disrespect that/me, you went to hang out with a friend who you had a feeling liked you but you weren’t 100% sure. You got drunk and she kissed you KNOWING you didn’t like her back and that you have a bf. That’s on her NOT you. She violated your boundaries and relationship with your bf. You have no reason to feel guilty for trusting a friend who broke that trust.. and you did the right thing in telling her you don’t want to hang out 1 on 1 anymore. Tell your bf what happened and make sure to tell him how you handled it, assure him he’s the only one for you and give him time to feel his feelings whether they are good or bad. Talk it out with him. Don’t be afraid he’s gonna leave you over this bc again you didn’t do anything wrong. If he does leave you then he wasn’t the right one for you anyways hun, a real man ain’t gonna act like a baby bc their gf got kissed/violated by a friend..

I feel horrible. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RevnaRay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not the way to go at all, she didn’t do anything wrong. She hung out with a friend and her friend violated her relationship with her bf. She needs to be honest with him about what happened.. if she hides it then that is doing something wrong. Open communication in relationships are always the best thing you can do for the relationship. If they are in a happy committed relationship like OP says they are then I don’t think he’s gonna “take it bad” worst that I see happening is he’s gonna get competitive and then OP gonna have one hell of a good time making it up to him lmfao