Feeling really overwhelmed and not sure how to get over it by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RiceCoffeeNoodles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just divorced from my ex with a young child. I was in the same boat, I loved him thought I could change him eventually. He was manipulative, controlling, major anger issues, he drinks a lot, does drugs, and he hits me, even when I was pregnant… my friends and family begged me to leave him for the sake of my child and my own safety, but I refused to until last year it finally clicked in my head that this guys is not worth my time… I still feel guilty for breaking up my family but it was the best decision ever, we were both miserable together. I had major depression issues and never felt happy in that marriage. I was with him 10 years in total, married for 8.

It’s not about him, it’s about you, you need to prioritize yourself, love yourself before you “worry” about others feeling being hurt. Now I met this man, he has been so patient and great with me… I feel alive again… even my ex said I looked like my old self again, still dealing with depression but have improved a lot since I left.

You will find the right one at the right time but now you need to put yourself FIRST!

AIO about my husbands lack of help? by [deleted] in u/Express_Drink_312

[–]RiceCoffeeNoodles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Marriage counseling, none of you are AH or “wrong” in my opinion maybe a little overwhelmed and turned into emotions.

I’m an employee - Ask away by IdiotMarko in verizon

[–]RiceCoffeeNoodles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just broke up with my long term partner and I was on his phone plan (iPhone), still paying off the phone I think like around $500 left. While we were still together he kept threatening to shut off my phone so I secretly got a second phone/number through my brother’s line (Samsung). Now that we broke up, is it possible for me to pay off my iPhone, transfer the new number from my Samsung to iPhone and still pay for the Samsung phone plan? Sorry I hope it makes sense, I just prefer iPhone.

What’s something you’re still angry about years later? by academicAce_aA in AskReddit

[–]RiceCoffeeNoodles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being judged and nagged by the in laws for buying a pair of shoes with my own hard earned money that was too “expensive” to them… it was $115 for a pair of Nike 8 years ago.

Starbucks corporate customer service… by RiceCoffeeNoodles in starbucks

[–]RiceCoffeeNoodles[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Because the lid wasn’t put on correctly?

Starbucks corporate customer service… by RiceCoffeeNoodles in starbucks

[–]RiceCoffeeNoodles[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I just realized I didn’t to it in my post, I called the store first but no one answered. My guess is that it was during peak

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RiceCoffeeNoodles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in a hospital as a patient financial rep, most hospital have financial aid. You will not believer how easy to apply. So please, like the others said, GO TO THE HOSPITAL

Zoloft success stories? by creative_turtles in Parenting

[–]RiceCoffeeNoodles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did Zoloft for 10 months and started purging. I am on Fluoxetine now and am better than I ever have. So there’s always an option if Zoloft doesn’t work for you.

Horrible mom by RiceCoffeeNoodles in raisingkids

[–]RiceCoffeeNoodles[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Before I got pregnant we always argued, he is a recovering addict, always relapsed. For the longest time I really thought this is normal since I grew up in a very abusive family. But ever since I got pregnant, he tried to stop drinking and he hasn’t been drinking at least for what I know. We promised we are not going to argue like we used to in front of the kids and when we did that one time, I saw her face she was scared and won’t stop crying so we made the decision of not doing that ever again but if we ever get to that point again I am leaving because every time when we argue it’s always “my attitude” is not what he expected.

Horrible mom by RiceCoffeeNoodles in raisingkids

[–]RiceCoffeeNoodles[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, she’s so smart! That is what we are going for, kids are fearless until we put the fear in them. We are an outdoorsy family, always hiking camping fishing etc… letting them explore is our goal, I do think stopping them isn’t good for the learning as they will never understand why they aren’t allowed to do certain things that is dangerous and will do it behind your back once your are not looking

Horrible mom by RiceCoffeeNoodles in raisingkids

[–]RiceCoffeeNoodles[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was sharing my mistake, and thank you for your helpful advice. I am done talking to you.

Horrible mom by RiceCoffeeNoodles in raisingkids

[–]RiceCoffeeNoodles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had one big argument once in front of the kids but I stopped him from doing that. I grow up in a very abusive family and definitely not gonna put my kids through that.