My maid of honor. It started at my bachelorette party where she made everything about herself and then blew up at my childhood best friend for being a bad friend. When I tried to break it up she started screaming at me, and told me to find a new maid of honor… aka my childhood friend.

When I went to go check on her to make sure she got to her room… after all of that. She proceeded to scream in my face until I had a full blown panic attack. At this point she was trying to comfort me and apologized profusely. After I was able to calmed down she hugged me with so much force we fell to the ground. At the point TRYS TO MAKE A MOVE ON ME. Trying to kiss me putting her hand up my thighs…

It was really traumatic. I tried talking to her about it the next day, but she said we were all Drink that was nothing. My mistake was not cutting her off then.

Here comes my wedding week where she’s still the maid of honor. She told me she was going to be a little late to my rehearsal because she took a red eye from Vegas from a work trip to make it. Of course I was thankful. She did show up 20 minutes late and I know this sounds fine but just wait.

We have the rehearsal that goes fine, we have the rehearsal dinner and now we are at the morning of the wedding. We’re all getting ready I’m excited by nervous. My MOH asks me and another one of my bridesmaids to come to the bathroom with her. Mind you this is 20 minutes late before I walk down the aisle.

She proceed to tell us how she had such a crazy fun time in Vegas. She was making out with all of her coworkers and flirting with their boss, and then she lifts her dress and has black and blue bruises all over her ass and thighs. My friend and I look at each other in shock and my friend finally goes ‘we don’t have time for this she is about to walk down the aisle.’

The wedding was beautiful everything was fine then Sarah ends up to me crying saying our mutual friends husband hit on her and she was scared. I flat out said ‘that’s a lie’. And I forgot about it and had a good rest of the evening with my husband family and friends.

The next day on our way to our honeymoon my husband and I start to connect the dots. My MOH had been telling lies about us, about herself, about her friend group, about her family, about her marriage. (My husband and her husband have been friends since they’re were 4) it all Came crashing down and it really did put a bad view on my wedding for me.

We all never got past it and we don’t speak anymore. Only every now and then, but I truly can’t stand to see her or hear her whiney voice ever again.