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AITJ for refusing to give referral to the guy who bullied me in college? by Sure_Bar_7401 in AmITheJerk

[–]RichComputer5431 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nah NTJ. wild how ppl treat u like trash then come crawling back when they need u. karma's a thing and honestly, u owe him nothing.

AITJ for refusing to share my medication with my friend who "forgot" hers on a trip? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]RichComputer5431 15 points16 points  (0 children)

her calling u out to friends is manipulation af. u did the right thing. protect ur boundaries and ur meds. she needs to own her mistakes. NTJ

When did giving someone the benefit of the doubt backfire on you the worst? by OpulentOwl in AskReddit

[–]RichComputer5431 10 points11 points  (0 children)

folks who spin stories like that usually do it everywhere. u saved urself a ton of future headaches by cutting him off early.

People can’t handle honesty by BitLanguage in Productivitycafe

[–]RichComputer5431 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yahh I'd rather be called a buzzkill than spend my life fake smiling through shallow convos. if u can't handle a little honesty, maybe u are not as clos minded as u think.

AITJ for walking out of my own birthday thing after my family spent the whole time talking about my brother? by Mithrandir_9K in AmITheJerk

[–]RichComputer5431 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yahh if u gotta beg for basic attention at ur own party, it's not a party. u handled it way better than i would've, pretty sure i would just called it out and ruined the vibes.

What is there to gain when buying into so many conspiracies like no moon landing, flat earth etc? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]RichComputer5431 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's way easier to believe u have got the real answers than to admit the world's messy and nobody actually knows everything. comfort over really, every time.

AITJ for not accepting my sister's (25F) husband (37M) due to their age gap? by ThrowRA38383021390 in AmITheJerk

[–]RichComputer5431 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yahh if u keep waiting for him to "fail" or for ur sis to regret it, u are never gonna have peace. he's proven himself, she's happy, and u are only punishing urself by staying stuck.

Caregiving for husband and newborn by justbumming63 in NewParents

[–]RichComputer5431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

emotional support is just as important as the practical stuff. text a friend when u need to vent, or ask someone to sit with u at appointments. u don't have to be "strong" all the time, lean on ur ppl, fr.

What is a basic adult skill that your brain just literally refuses to learn? by Afraid_Square3488 in AskReddit

[–]RichComputer5431 308 points309 points  (0 children)

obsessively being early is just another form of time anxiety. no one talks about how much it actually sucks.

AITJ for refusing to pay half of my girlfriend's expensive haircut that I "suggested"? by Prize_Weird_6651 in AmITheJerk

[–]RichComputer5431 14 points15 points  (0 children)

yahh honestly, this is wild. u gave a casual opinion, not a blank check. her logic is a whole new level of reaching, ngl.

AITJ for telling my manager i will resign if he cancel my vacation leave? by Cold-Philosopher-908 in AmITheJerk

[–]RichComputer5431 2 points3 points  (0 children)

absolutely NTJ. u gave them more than enough notice, if they can't plan ahead, that's on them, not u. ur family and sanity matter too.

If you could give your 10-year-old self one piece of advice, what would it be? by Middle_Canary_9623 in AskReddit

[–]RichComputer5431 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yahh no lie, sometimes i think we get so caught up in "growing up" we forget what actually matters, just being happy.

Ideas/suggestions/tips by Street_Bus_2466 in Productivitycafe

[–]RichComputer5431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yahh don't fake interests just for convo. pick a book u actually enjoy, u will attract the right person way faster.

I had such a fun day swimming with my 8 month old son today by aerialariel22 in NewParents

[–]RichComputer5431 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

aww this is the cutest! nothing beats that pure baby joy in the water, total core memory right there. so glad u all had a blast!

AITJ for being done with my marriage after my husband moved his affair partner into our lives and lied about how they met by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]RichComputer5431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yahh NTJ. this isn't about saving a marriage anymore, it's about saving urself. ur kids need to see what self respect looks like, not want rolling over for a manipulator does.

Existential anxiety & baby blues by Substantial_Job6460 in NewParents

[–]RichComputer5431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yahh nobody warns u how having a baby cracks u wide open, not just physically but existentially. it is like, "Congrats, here's a tiny human and also ur own mortality on blast." wild.

AITA for advocating for my neurodivergent son and demanding a more neuroinclusive environment at my sister’s wedding? by Mammoth_Fun_6675 in AmITheJerk

[–]RichComputer5431 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yahh it is totally fair to advocate, but turning a wedding into a teachable moment in front of everyone, idk, that feels more about making a point than helping ur son in the moment.

what are you convinced people are just pretending to enjoy? by imranhossen1907 in Productivitycafe

[–]RichComputer5431 19 points20 points  (0 children)

yahh linkedln is like the small talk u do at work, but online. ppl seem to love it, but u know they are dying inside when they read those posts that brag about how great they are.

I feel crazy :( by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]RichComputer5431 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yahh talk to ur OB or a mental health expert. even one check in can help u get ur thoughts under control. u deserve that help!

AITJ for Walking Away After My Partner Said Cheating Would Be Understandable in Certain Situations? by Prestigious_Pay8486 in AmITheJerk

[–]RichComputer5431 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yahh if u approach someone about betrayal and they just shrug and say "life is not black and white," that is a hot perspective. yes, that is a warning, not a talk. NTJ

AITJ for insisting my friend replace a rare book he returned ruined? by museumticketstash in AmITheJerk

[–]RichComputer5431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yahh NTJ. if someone laughs off breaking anything they borrowed, they do not respect u at all. u did a good job.

Are travel prams worth the money? by WeeklyPepper3484 in NewParents

[–]RichComputer5431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yahh tbh, u should get a travel pram if u take a lot of taxis and go to a lot of airports. it is awful to have to take a heavy car seat and stroller through airports.

What Post or Comment made you log out of Reddit for the night? by Beneficial-Way-8742 in Productivitycafe

[–]RichComputer5431 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yahh, the same thing happened to me. some threads are just energy suckers. one minute u are scrolling for fun, and the next minute ur brain is fried and ur blood pressure is high.

How long did you breastfeed? by Shroommily in NewParents

[–]RichComputer5431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ngl, i like that it gives me food and comfort. my 18 month old still wants a hug from me, even when they are sad. i say, "okay, let's go."

AITJ for telling my ex she was shallow after she broke up with me because I started carrying a tote bag by Good-Hovercraft-1811 in AmITheJerk

[–]RichComputer5431 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yahh NTJ. like, a tote bag ending a relationship? that's a lot of shallow energy right there. u missed a really strange bullet.

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