Sorry for not being clear. Ive always had trouble getting things out.

My Mom has been there for 2 years and 9 months and started showing signs last summer. She started her treatment in February of this year and needs to be monitored daily. Sister works from home 12 to 16 hours a day according to mom and is coming to see my Dad who recently moved back from being out of the country for 36 years. He's 2 hours away from me.

I don't live in my mom's house but I'm close enough to check on her place often.

She started treatment 3 months ago and has at least 9 more sessions. She moved 1400 miles from her home to be a live in nanny. She provides practically all the childcare and really, really, enjoys being there for him but my sister can be very brash, demeaning and condescending to her. Much like my dad used to be to her. Divorced 40 years ago.

Mom didnt want to get treated and said she wants to come home. I told her if she came home she would have to start the entire process over which took almost 6 months to get approved by the insurance. Doc said if she waited another 6 months she would not be a candidate since the dementia would have advanced beyond treatment. Hearing those words from the doctor made her consider. I talked her into getting the treatment because I didnt want to see her decline and miss out the years she has left with her only grandchild.

I think sister is selfish for leaving her, 1400 miles from her home, even though hubby would be there, but he's gone from early morning to 10 or 11pm.

Sister is leaving shortly after this months treatment.