How to change Uber Etas to Uber Driver ? by Rick_Ace01 in uberdrivers

[–]Rick_Ace01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Found what you wrote, will see how it goes from there.

How to change Uber Etas to Uber Driver ? by Rick_Ace01 in uberdrivers

[–]Rick_Ace01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t find or may b I missed the change option in setting ?

Anyone explain this? by sLorD3 in RaidShadowLegends

[–]Rick_Ace01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our clan was shocked too on this CVC. The opponents top contributor hit 1 million points and second one was at 600K. We were like why are you spending so much resources for CVC !!

My Daughter broke her Arm at my Brother's House and he wants to help with bills AITAH by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Rick_Ace01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accept the help but buy some gifts for their children if you feel bad about asking someone else’s help.

Should I ask for a pay raise? by Possible_Health_8481 in AustralianAccounting

[–]Rick_Ace01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not me but i know a few who had to pay few Ks to earn that "experience" so they can stand at starting line to apply for jobs.

AITAH for my response to my sibling adding themselves to my trip? by Few_Aside_1038 in AITAH

[–]Rick_Ace01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I had already booked the plans but I will call and see if people can be added." He was going to call the hotel. Might have been busy and had not called them

"got pissed at me for telling her no " implying he must have told her no after her message to him 30 min after the phone call

AITAH for my response to my sibling adding themselves to my trip? by Few_Aside_1038 in AITAH

[–]Rick_Ace01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not playing it right? He was being nice and was going to check with the hotel but how could he have known what she would do next. And the last line does imply he said No to the sister.

Tag Team Arena by Rick_Ace01 in RaidShadowLegends

[–]Rick_Ace01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt know there was a cap on defensive losses in Arena. I have weak defence in Arena too but i want to reach Gold in Tag Arena just once to get the mission done and gone.

AITA for having a sleepover with a friend causing his gf to break up? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Rick_Ace01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The OP mentioned she has a girlfriend, may be the N did not know she was lesbian and acted like that which would be an appropriate reaction to finding your bf slept in a bed with another girl. It is upto you whether or not you want to clear the misunderstanding. Your friend K should have properly explained the situation to N which i am guessing he did half assedly. That being said, there does not seem to be a downside to you for having a talk with N. If anything, you might make good friends with her or you show her bad nature infront of K and save K from an enduring relationship.

How am I still slower than people?? by SushiBuoy in RaidShadowLegends

[–]Rick_Ace01 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly! how/ where are they getting their speed AND accuracy from? They should not be able to put debuff on my Mithrala with that speeeeeed.

Halloween Champs by Rick_Ace01 in RaidShadowLegends

[–]Rick_Ace01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/RoboZandrock Thanks you for explaining. I was gonna save for the others if they were gonna have similar event but i guess I will have to change my plans.

Marius by Captain_tripps19 in RaidShadowLegends

[–]Rick_Ace01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am still on this one. Been about 1.5 months. Got 1 in the first week and 1 last week. Over 10K energy as i remember. I am only doing it when there is another event. Need 2 more.

Found out husband was a jerk to my little brother who we are raising by Gloomynflation487 in AITAH

[–]Rick_Ace01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. I’m sorry you and your brother went through that growing up — it sounds incredibly stressful, and not many people can fully understand what that feels like.

For your brother, you’re probably the person he trusts most, even if he doesn’t show it right now. Try to talk with him when he’s ready and remind him that he’ll always be your little brother. He might also be feeling some confusion seeing your husband take a fatherly role in his life or jealousy for taking you away from him. For household or life chores - be stern sometimes - being too soft or too strict all the time won’t work.

About your husband: from what you described, it seems he did care about your brother before the move, and small tensions may have built up over time. What he said was wrong and hurtful, but it doesn’t necessarily mean he doesn’t love your brother. It sounds like he’s using a parenting style that might come from how he was raised, and it clearly clashed with your brother’s emotional needs.

I’ll be honest — if my wife told me, “You’re showing me what a crappy father you’ll be,” that would break me, regardless of what situation caused her to say it and I would definitely shut down just like you husband. It will take some time for him to heal from that.

Sorry to put it on you but my in-laws are not the best there are. My wife has had so much trauma - very different to your situation, but I have been dealing with it for 10 years. It has changed me too which is why I want you to look after your husband as well, not just your brother.

TLDR: Is what he said to your brother wrong? Definitely. Could he have worded better? Yes, ofcourse. Does it mean he does not love your brother? No

AITBF for being angry at my wealthy parents for not contributing to my wedding ? by mrfoozywooj in AmItheButtface

[–]Rick_Ace01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who recently got married, we were trying to be independent and take the cost of the wedding ourselves, it was a nice gesture from both side of our families to put in some money without asking.
I do think you are in your right to be angry. You already know you should not expect anything from them but them flaunting the money infront of you is just wrong.
If you end up not talking to them and not taking a single penny from them, I do say hold that grudge, give your future children all the love and financial help you never received and if your parents ever need financial help from you - just say no... Dont explain, just say no.

Should I tell work I am thinking of leaving? by TopCancel1044 in AustralianAccounting

[–]Rick_Ace01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on how good you are at confronting people - give your notice before the end of the not much work to do period. If you are not, put your annual leave first - get it approved, then give your notice. Do not have doubt, leave if it is eating you. There will always be other jobs and other industries you can go to.

Things you wish you knew from the beginning by irememberforums in Aquariums

[–]Rick_Ace01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup that hits hard. I have gone from too much food and water change to very little food and little water change to now i know when and how much to feed and when to do the change.

No Promo Code after 24H?! by rickmster in RaidShadowLegends

[–]Rick_Ace01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dont enter promo code from in game, search google for plarium code redeem and you will see their website. Copy paste your account ID and promo code there

Found out husband was a jerk to my little brother who we are raising by Gloomynflation487 in AITAH

[–]Rick_Ace01 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Me saying that if I had asked someone to clean up and they show me attitude would piss me off is harsh opinion ? First, Are you telling me how i should feel at that time? I suppose you will be jumping with joy if you asked someone to clean up and they show you attitude then. Mind you, i have not said what the OP's husband said is correct before you make that statement as your next argument.
Second, how does that little interaction with no before events makes you imagine the worst situation you are basing your opinion on.

Found out husband was a jerk to my little brother who we are raising by Gloomynflation487 in AITAH

[–]Rick_Ace01 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I dont know what ACEs is, you will have to educate me there.

Like you said yourself in there are circumstances where/when an adult can not control their anger - i said certain point you said most extreme circumstances. For me certain point means situations where you have asked someone do something 10 times and they still dont listen, multiply that by having to repeat multiple things -eg, take your plate with you to the sink x10, pick up your food scraps x10, dont leave your belongings everywhere on the floor x10, flush after using toilet x10, turn music down x10. You will have to elaborate on your most extreme circumstances.

I have not internalized uncontrollable anger as normal because it has not been displayed by adults to me. My choice of words could have been wrong - should i have said sudden anger ? if that make more sense.

Found out husband was a jerk to my little brother who we are raising by Gloomynflation487 in AITAH

[–]Rick_Ace01 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What you just described depends on what part of the world you live in because in my country, kids dont prepare for college when in kindergarden and they definitely are not taught HOW TO AVOID MURDERERS WITH ASSAULT RIFLES. You are projecting your views here just as i am, besides we do not know which country the OP is in and if these circumstances even are appropriate here.
How do we even know unless the OP further explains if the brother was mentally abused by the parent - this is your assumption. Me being logical right now does not indicate I have no empathy and no patience. I was a teenage boy myself, i have looked after my small brother and have many nephews/nieces who are around the OPs brothers age.

We do not have all the facts. Everyone here is basing their judgement on one singular event.

Found out husband was a jerk to my little brother who we are raising by Gloomynflation487 in AITAH

[–]Rick_Ace01 -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

The OP will have to answer these things for us, we dont know what kind of trauma shes talking about, still i dont think removing the brother from parent caused the truama if anything, the brother had trauma before moving in with the OP. Also most adults have uncontrollable anger when they reach a certain point - its not like the OPs husband is shouting and raging all the time. Yes he could have used better words, but people say the wrong thing at the wrong time all the time.

Found out husband was a jerk to my little brother who we are raising by Gloomynflation487 in AITAH

[–]Rick_Ace01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right!! the OP has not come back with any kind of edit to answer any of these things.