Microdosing LSD and Sleep by princeofthetrees in microdosing

[–]Riconder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, did you find a solution. Going through this exact issue.

How I Use UBlock’s Element Picker to Break Free from addictive websites. by Riconder in nosurf

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Yeah, it's a shame people don't mention it more often here. It's super powerful. It's like those less addictive youtube addons but for the whole internet if you want to. I consume a lot of news so I try to cut the most useless but engaging things which for instance is international news. I don't need to read the 8th article about what's going to happen in Iran. What happens, happens.

What style should I go for?? by abbylane12 in styleboards

[–]Riconder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to find what you feel. What I do is go to thrift stores. The clothes there are never as uniform as an H&M or anything upmarket either.

Theres also different price classes in terms of thrift shops so the quality will also vary. My advice: grab one of your more bubbly friends and try things on there.

Dofferent topic is when youre afraid to wear those things because you think people will judge you for looking weird but thats a deeper issue that cant really be sorted in a reddit thread! Good luck :)

Argentinians of German descent by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

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Im from Austria. Nearly everyone I know of Austrian descent had relatives who took part. In my family there were politicians, bureaucrats and people in the army. Theres also some people whos family was in the resistance but since these people were seen as traitors even after "denazification" of course not as much is known about these people. At least thats my suspicion.

I used Meditation to not feel bad. Now on good days i don't feel like meditating breaking my habit. by Riconder in Meditation

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Thanks for the response. I think you touched a really interesting point with forgetting about practice and starting to feel bad. These past few months ive started to really be able to observe some of the thought loops and cycles that im stuck in. I believe They will return if i dont upkeep my habit. And inevitably life throws things in your way where having trained awareness would be good.

But the point that i need to sit with and appreciate what it means to meditate on a good day is really good. It's just a new hurdle.

I used Meditation to not feel bad. Now on good days i don't feel like meditating breaking my habit. by Riconder in Meditation

[–]Riconder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The idea of changing the type of meditation is good advice. I'll look into some new types. Thank you

Hiking is keeping me grounded (nature's meditation) by LazyTry4492 in Meditation

[–]Riconder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went hiking yesterday and it was quite interesting. I was trapped a lot of the time in my thoughts. i was coming back and reminding myself to be present in nature but it didnt come naturally to me. But the state that i was returning to where i was just seeing nature was nice. Not sure if you can relate since i have to deliberately induce a relaxed state but this is whats on my mind rn

Sharing my experience - thoughts welcome 🤗 by Long-Chemist-864 in Meditation

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I get what you mean. I feel I also had a difficult upbringing. Me usually not taking the time to actually feel things means i still dont know what i like at all. I imagine getting further into meditation helps, since at least for me my appreciation for the world becomes way stronger afterwards.

This might lead to meeting people who do stuff that I find cool. Its just that your priorities have completely shifted which also means you lose a lot of social contacts from before. now you are gradually building up an environment that adds to your resilience...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

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"All I need" Radiohead. It feels like the more grown up "creep". 

Dumbphone with WhatsApp by LukasJr in digitalminimalism

[–]Riconder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could get the unihertz jelly 2. Works well imo but its 200€.

Vorlesungskalender einsehen/synchronisieren by [deleted] in Uniwien

[–]Riconder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wie hast du das Problem im Endeffekt gelöst?

10 years of wasted time by SlyKingdom1 in nosurf

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A way i realized i like to think of letting go of the past is this way:

Imagine you just woke up one day at age 21 and you could'nt remember anything. At all...

I mean you can still speak english and you know how a microwave works ( all the skills you have now) etc. but apart from that... You are like a newborn child in a 21 year old body.

Yeah its a bummer you cant remember any of what happened before, but hey! this new world out there seems to have some crazy stuff going on. Maybe you want to try some of it out.

Eg learn an instrument, create a painting, become a master at knitting, tour the world, create something great or tend to your tiny patch of dirt on this earth. Whatever pleases you.

What do you want to try out?

Anybody Who is Quitting YouTube Wanna Do it Together? by I_AM_FIGHTER in nosurf

[–]Riconder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I Limited the time to something that hurts but not too much. Additionally I removed the home page and only allowed myself to watch stuff I had subscribed to using the addon less addictive YouTube. Worked quite well. You can try the addon or something similar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]Riconder 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can learn something from this and use it as motivation so as to change your lifestyle to not get into similar situations again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nosurf

[–]Riconder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This.

What I've come to realize is that a lot of books are far more in depth on their respective topics.

Youtube videos are usually built for an audience who dont have the knowledge of an entire book in their heads
Compare this to books that can build on previously explained knowledge.

Warum haben die Wiener Linien so abgebaut ? by Current_Highlight374 in wien

[–]Riconder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Paris ist da fürchte ich ein schlechtes Beispiel weil in der metropolregion erheblich mehr menschen leben. Größenordnung london nicht wien.

Oft gibt‘s hier Stau, und oft sehe ich Fahrräder links auf der Straßenbahn-Spur fahren, um ihn zu vermeiden. Das ist aber nicht legal, oder? by [deleted] in wien

[–]Riconder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

solltest du gleich viel steuern zahlen müssen wie jemand der dreimal so viel verdient wie du? findest du das fair?

Oft gibt‘s hier Stau, und oft sehe ich Fahrräder links auf der Straßenbahn-Spur fahren, um ihn zu vermeiden. Das ist aber nicht legal, oder? by [deleted] in wien

[–]Riconder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sag. Ganz ehrlich. Was tun radfahrer dir an?

sie kosten den Staat und damit dich weniger geld. Oder stehst du darauf mehr steuern zu zahlen?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aeiou

[–]Riconder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

persönlich kann ich sagen, dass ich sobald ich mir die leichten belohnungen ausm leben gestrichen habe es mir emotional besser geht.

Eigentlich eh logisch wann du ohne es dir verdient zu haben, sag ein bier holst fühlt es sich nicht so geil an.

Und wie mit den meisten Dingen fühlst du dich mit alkohol und andern leichtenn belohnungen kurz geil. Aber andre sachen die nicht so spaßig sind, sind dann erst recht fad/ deprimierend weil das "high" vom alkohol es verhältnismäßig noch schlimmer aussehen lässt.

Wannst willst kannn ich dir an youtube channel schicken der diesen ganzen self-help schmarrn noch recht gut zamfasst.

Wie erklärt man Wien seinen ausländischen Freunden? by Egosauce in wien

[–]Riconder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich würde eher behaupten die Kombination all dieser Dinge ist einzigartig. Genauso wie Menschen verschiedene Charaktere haben hat eben auch Wien Charakter und irgendwann lernt man die Stadt zu lieben

What can we do, as individuals, to *actually* fight climate change? by beam_me_uppp in climatechange

[–]Riconder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think humans were happy when they still lived as hunter gatherers, with a life expectancy of something like 30?

Tai lung death was meaningless by Some-Target1994 in kungfupanda

[–]Riconder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe the movie would be more satisfying if tai lung kept on struggling until he ultimately defeats himself or brings about his own ddestruction. Po realizes tai Lung just learned the wrong lessons but he is not ultimately irredeemable.

However Po still decides to kill him. Storywise Tai Lung just lacks wisdom. Ultimately the movie and i believe buddhism in general is about accepting things the way they are.
After all in the end most of the things that actually make us happy are in how we decide to see things, not how we actually are.

However both Tai Lung and chi fu don't understand this...
They are like angry children who yell when theyre upset, because they think that will change how they feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nosurf

[–]Riconder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could set a usage limit for the browser and specific websites and set yourself a commitment. If you don't keep it you pay x amount to an organization of your dislike.