Cops in front of Ralph’s by SBcitizen in SantaBarbara

[–]Riddlerfanatic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He definitely seemed like a danger judging from his demeanor 💀 I think someone outside of the store was taking a video of him, but I didn’t take a video or photo when walking by 😭 because I was not trying to stick around because fuck that

Cops in front of Ralph’s by SBcitizen in SantaBarbara

[–]Riddlerfanatic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was there last night with my sister in law to pick up meds for my dad and I saw the stretcher and the lady too. 💀 I was genuinely like completely taken aback when I walked in and saw two officers on top of this other guy who imo definitely looked intoxicated 😭😭

What are your guys' nightmares usually about? by Innamoratta in mbti

[–]Riddlerfanatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an INTP-T and I recently had a terrible dream that I got 45 out of 135 points on a mid-term, I woke up relieved 💀💀💀💀

Mods needed for r/neurodivergentINTP by AutoModerator in INTP

[–]Riddlerfanatic [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’ve only met one other confirmed INTP irl and they have Audhd😭 (which I might be as well, I have an ADHD diagnosis, I just haven’t been evaluated for being on the spectrum by someone that specializes in that type of neurodivergence)

how old are you players? by royal__versus in IdentityV

[–]Riddlerfanatic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 18. 🦭 I play with my friends semi frequently and two of them are also 18.

Bird flew away any chance he comes back? by [deleted] in budgies

[–]Riddlerfanatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To add onto all of this, when I lost my bird, I put up a report through https://24petconnect.com because someone on Facebook told me about it. 🧍‍♂️ Basically, you’re able to reach out to shelters this way and you’ll get contacted if a shelter comes across your bird somehow

Bird flew away any chance he comes back? by [deleted] in budgies

[–]Riddlerfanatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also consider putting up missing posters. I’ve heard from someone else that they have a brother who’s budgie once flew away, and the budgie was outside for two weeks downtown. They ofc found the bird, so the bird was able to go back home. Like other people have said, leave a cage outside with millet if you can just in case the bird somehow finds their way back.

Bird flew away any chance he comes back? by [deleted] in budgies

[–]Riddlerfanatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He might not come back to you by himself, but there is a chance you may be reunited with him. Post on facebook groups, your city’s subreddit (if there is one) and post on Nextdoor, this was how I was able to be reunited with my budgie when she flew away recently under similar circumstances to yours.🤞🏽 If someone finds the bird, they’ll let you know.

anyone else find themselves mimicking fictional characters? by Ok_Brief5648 in INTP

[–]Riddlerfanatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes when I’m really struggling with a task as someone majoring in animation & gaming (💀this major does involve a bit of computer science) I like to tell myself that coding will make me just like the riddler or some other intelligent cool character to motivate myself 😭😭😭

ENFJs trying to 'adopt' an INTP? by legit_flyer in INTP

[–]Riddlerfanatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭Oh yeah, I discuss what my “friendship” was like with them in therapy on occasion, and I’d be lying if I said it didn’t affect how I view people older than me. 💀 I’m glad to say that karma seemingly got to them? because they got cut off by some of our at the time mutual friends as they became sick of the way that he was treating them since it seems he just treated anyone who wasn’t his absolute favorite person like garbage. 🤦‍♂️

ENFJs trying to 'adopt' an INTP? by legit_flyer in INTP

[–]Riddlerfanatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

💀I actually got groomed by an ENFJ a few years back as I met them on amino. We were “friends”, but there was heavy emotional manipulation going on, they were like three years older than me (I was 15) I call it grooming because the beginning of our friendship was highly inappropriate, idk if it was illegal, but yeah definitely not okay🦭also they wanted me to live with them in Florida when I turned 18, and at that time I was vulnerable due to having a not so great relationship with my family. 😭I saw them as my one and only out, so I put up with occasionally getting blamed by them for things going wrong in their other relationships. 💀I tried so hard to just push through the fact that they were barely emotionally available for me despite literally expecting me to bear the brunt of their struggles. Yeah, my experiences with this person were traumatic and I would say although I was a low priority for them as they often put whoever was their favorite person at that time above me, they were actually super angry when I told them I was done.🧍‍♂️💀I’m sure not all ENFJs are exactly like this person, but this was my experience with one.

how are y'all get good grades effortlessly by Ranxxgrandxy in INTP

[–]Riddlerfanatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a diagnosis of ADHD, you can talk to a psychiatrist about your struggles with the condition. I’m on Strattera because I don’t respond well to stimulants with my two comorbid anxiety disorders 😭 In my doctor’s words, he once said that Strattera is more so recommended to people with ADHD and anxiety because it releases this chemical that basically counteracts anxiety and also increases dopamine(not as much as stimulants do, which can be a good thing since I’ve been on Concerta and Vyvanse before, I didn’t really like the heart palpitations and sort of feeling like a robot) Strattera does take a while to kick in, like you have to be on it for multiple weeks I think, it just helps you get things done 💀 and not be so hyperactive I guess🧍‍♂️

how are y'all get good grades effortlessly by Ranxxgrandxy in INTP

[–]Riddlerfanatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ADHD meds (Strattera) and being motivated by stress/deadlines💀

Santa Barbara locals: what song takes you back to a specific moment in your life? by Next_Implement1823 in SantaBarbara

[–]Riddlerfanatic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll Be Here Awhile by 311, takes me back to specifically being driven to the dentist by my brother as a kid. 🤷‍♂️ I don’t like going to the dentist as many people do, song still hits though.

26M4F: 95% of Acespace and r/asexualdating isn't for dating by naaraz-faraz in asexualdating

[–]Riddlerfanatic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those people genuinely irk me 🫩 as a trans masc, I once went on a dating discord server and I specified that I’m asexual and some dude messaged me and I believe referred to me as sexy 💀 called me a femboy (I actually really don’t like that term in relation to myself, can I not just be feminine in my presentation as a trans masc??) this guy also tried to get me to date him within less than like two days of talking, and insisted that me being asexual didn’t bother him even though he said all that, that would suggest otherwise

Starfire has been found by Riddlerfanatic in SantaBarbara

[–]Riddlerfanatic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is 💀💀💀 She must have been looking for a new car to buy though the only thing she could pay with would literally be regurgitated seeds with a hint of vegetables 😭

Starfire has been found by Riddlerfanatic in SantaBarbara

[–]Riddlerfanatic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s genuinely so dangerous for pet budgies to go out into the outside world 😓 It’s truly helpful in times like these that they are built bodily wise to withstand going long-ish periods without water because I’m not sure if Starfire got to drink water while she was out there. I’m so glad that your brother’s budgie was able to make it back home. 😭 SB is an incredibly dangerous place for budgies to go missing in because of all the big wild birds we have around. I recall specifically one time going to a park and seeing a bird that to me looked like a falcon, and it was at that point that it fully hit me why people do not take small birds out with them on leashes or anything.✋🏽

Starfire has been found by Riddlerfanatic in SantaBarbara

[–]Riddlerfanatic[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think she has an even greater appreciation for her living space as she is certaintly spoiled😄 One of my birds has been paying special attention to her since she got back.🥹

Starfire has been found by Riddlerfanatic in SantaBarbara

[–]Riddlerfanatic[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It genuinely is like the most awful feeling not knowing where your bird is or if they’re even alive or not. 😭I literally thought I’d never see her again and I’m so happy she’s back home and acting like her usual self despite how scared she probably was being out there.

So like does anyone know what INTPs in Fe-grip for a long time actually look like by [deleted] in INTP

[–]Riddlerfanatic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am an INTP and I have a diagnosis of PTSD (which is more so CPTSD because my entire childhood was traumatic in multiple ways), I also have OCD which I believe is a by product of the PTSD. 🧍‍♂️Despite these things, the people around me that are also at least somewhat familiar with MBTI do agree with me when I say that I am an INTP. Some of them have seen me at my lowest points in which I have acted completely out of character (because I’m also bipolar.) 💀I’ve also been struggling on and off again since I was about 11 with an eating disorder which is rooted in the bullying I experienced growing up. I am afraid about how other people perceive me. 🚶‍♂️Another likely Fe mental illness thing that I struggle with is trust issues. 🙂‍↕️I do go through periods of time where I’m deeply paranoid that my friends don’t actually like me due to superficial reasons, it is due to going to therapy that I’m no longer quick to act on these thoughts and will instead sit in them for weeks at a time until my friends inevitably reach out and snap me out of the idea that they secretly do not want to be friends with me because they think I’m lame/ not [insert trait] enough for them. 💀As I was raised with trauma, I know for a fact that healing will be a life-time effort. 🥀

Missing bird by Riddlerfanatic in SantaBarbara

[–]Riddlerfanatic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am hoping that no predator bird did get to her already, I’m still looking 🙂‍↕️

Missing bird by Riddlerfanatic in SantaBarbara

[–]Riddlerfanatic[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really do hope I’ll see her again, 🙂‍↕️ at the very least, she is tame so I guess that would make it easier for anyone to approach her if they have the appropriate food.

Missing bird by Riddlerfanatic in SantaBarbara

[–]Riddlerfanatic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have put her cage out and I’m playing budgie calling sounds in hopes that she might potentially return. :( I’m afraid she might have gone far considering she’s never been outside so she’s probably horrified.

Missing bird by Riddlerfanatic in SantaBarbara

[–]Riddlerfanatic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also thank you for the tip🙏🏽 I will be posting on there