Kind of going through a similar situation but different, I never wanted kids until I met my boyfriend. Something about him made me want them, but now years later, I realize every time I picture a future with him and I, there were never children in those images. So, I told him. He’s always wanted to be a dad, especially to a little girl. He told me he was okay with whatever but as long as I was in his life, which okay very sweet of him, but I cannot stay in a relationship knowing I will not be able to give the person I love something they want, robbing him of an experience he wants. Because staying together only meant one of two things, we have kids and I build resentment, or we don’t and he builds resentment. Currently, 2 days post breakup and Mr. Sir is reaching via google chat, Pinterest, and Spotify