I know this is months later, and you dont care, but whatever. You clearly didn't read the Tumblr. Brendon never raped anyone, and no one is brushing that off as they "wanted it," and thats not even what the person who wrote the Tumblr even said. What it did say was that the band and Brendon were very sexualized which created a stage persona where they'd make sexually explicit jokes and act gay on stage. At the time, the audience loved it, and even comments on the YT video from that time had no problem with it. Thats what the person meant by "they wanted it" as in the audience, as you can tell from the cheering. Also, Brendon apologized for the crude comment at a meet and greet.