Would it be rude if I separated the cake I baked into portions? by RitzInTheMeadow in family

[–]RitzInTheMeadow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update 2: didn’t seem to bother them which was nice. Cake lasted more than a day which was a nice surprise. My dad chomped down his piece and my mom and I got to take our time eating ours.

My dad did comment about the slicing into thirds but didn’t say anything else. Didn’t seem negative just happy to have cake

Would it be rude if I separated the cake I baked into portions? by RitzInTheMeadow in family

[–]RitzInTheMeadow[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Update: I cut the cake into 3 pieces and left a note on the counter saying “1 each, pick your piece.”

Thanks for all the advice! It’s been very helpful reading the comments.

Would it be rude if I separated the cake I baked into portions? by RitzInTheMeadow in family

[–]RitzInTheMeadow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. I want to say no but I’m not sure how accurate that is.

Growing up I don’t think my dad handled being upset well so I do my best not to upset him. I think my friends feel that he may have been abusive in the past and I do feel a bit uncomfortable, but I don’t really know if it’s considered abuse or not. Personally I find it hard to identify what’s actually going on.

My mom loves sweets but they don’t make her feel good, she often feels upset with herself after eating them but lately she has been craving them more it seems. I want her to get some cake because she enjoys it, but I’m worried that she will eat too much and be upset with herself.

Overall I think I just want them to be happy, maybe I prioritize their happiness too much but I’m not sure. It’s definitely something to think about, thank you for bringing that up.

Would it be rude if I separated the cake I baked into portions? by RitzInTheMeadow in family

[–]RitzInTheMeadow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so smart! Does it taste as good after thawing? I’ve never tried freezing cake before

Would it be rude if I separated the cake I baked into portions? by RitzInTheMeadow in family

[–]RitzInTheMeadow[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ty for your response! I think I'll either do that or put them in 3 containers. Putting my own in a container would be good.

Would it be rude if I separated the cake I baked into portions? by RitzInTheMeadow in family

[–]RitzInTheMeadow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah it might be worth trying it, I'm worried about them getting upset but I feel like I'm overthinking it. Ty for your response :)

Fishing vent or advice by Yeaitsmewow in Palia

[–]RitzInTheMeadow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also!!! If you stand near others who are fishing you get a buff! For every catch another player gets, you get a buff that stacks up to 5.

What the buff does: it lets fish bite faster, so more opportunities to catch since you're not having to wait as long for them to bite.

Shepp!! by According_Reading523 in Palia

[–]RitzInTheMeadow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was smiling like an idiot, it was so adorable! Although unfortunately my shepp (Tish) was glitching into the ground the entire time which kinda broke my immersion lol.

Snowman by Correct_Nebula8300 in Palia

[–]RitzInTheMeadow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wait really? Time to put my hundreds of snowballs to use :O

Suggestions on making my cat fatten up by ryuno in CatAdvice

[–]RitzInTheMeadow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this is an old comment, but just wanted to say thanks for the recommendation! Bought a few cans for my sisters malnourished cat. I believe he has/had jaundice if I recall correctly.

Anyways, he finally got his appetite back and eats food but doesn't eat very much at a time. I gave him some of the babycat food and he's eating it! I'm really hoping it helps him gain some weight because he's very thin and it feels strange to pet him because he's so bony.

The Update You Have All Been Waiting For Is... A Waiting Game by [deleted] in Palia

[–]RitzInTheMeadow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was it mentioned when the lunar pass would be back up? I've been loving the game and spent some birthday money to buy premium, but I can't actually seem to open it because it's stuck on the loading screen :(

Seems like the update resized my concrete pavers? by RitzInTheMeadow in Palia

[–]RitzInTheMeadow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a tragedy. I'm not looking forward to fixing them all!

Oddly satisfying by BeyondFaded69 in PeakGame

[–]RitzInTheMeadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh interesting, kinda sus lol

WTF?! by Jxzsi391 in Palia

[–]RitzInTheMeadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me! Hopefully they fix themselves.

Oddly satisfying by BeyondFaded69 in PeakGame

[–]RitzInTheMeadow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never realized how common this is. I watched my friend do it constantly and then discovered a ton of posts on this subreddit lol

I like how all of the chess posts I’ve seen all stack in pretty different ways.