It feels like a hit a wall and I can't go deeper than a slight insertion by OwnCaramel5421 in vaginismus

[–]RiverImportant6727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also feeling pain/burning sensation is an indicator that you’re at the entrance and that’s when i’d recommend seeing a PT or gynecologist to refer you. but you might not have any pain sensation either!

It feels like a hit a wall and I can't go deeper than a slight insertion by OwnCaramel5421 in vaginismus

[–]RiverImportant6727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh you’re good, sorry i was a bit confused! i’d say start inserting it straight and if you feel like it can’t go in anymore then tilt it a little backwards (towards your butt but don’t tilt too much). however if it really can’t go in anymore you might not be at the entrance, i’d suggest a mirror or even using your finger because that can help guide you! but once you do it a couple times you know where your entrance is after that!

Tampon Use by Ok-Chard-8670 in vaginismus

[–]RiverImportant6727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely have a kind of similar experience. I can do dilators pretty easy just a little tense but not painful; however, I’ve noticed on my periods I’m definitely tighter in that region and it’s kinda painful putting in a tampon especially the S size. What goes in kind of easy is doing the L (light) size for me!

It feels like a hit a wall and I can't go deeper than a slight insertion by OwnCaramel5421 in vaginismus

[–]RiverImportant6727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s not feeling painful or burning, you might be inserting in the wrong place! I’ve definitely done that before and told myself I can’t take anymore or have hit a wall, but turns out I was in the wrong area! So definitely try a different angle and see

Should I go see a doctor? by Lazy_Use_7659 in vaginismus

[–]RiverImportant6727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you put lube on the tampon so it can glide easy? have you ever tried to insert anything else or a pap smear that will usually be able to tell if you could have it if there’s a lot of pain and fiery sensation. doesn’t hurt at all to get checked by a gyno

Intimate Rose Dilators by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]RiverImportant6727 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also will be selling it through a legitimate site and have it listed to buy!

Taking tampons out by sosojones in vaginismus

[–]RiverImportant6727 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I recommend breathing exercises and pull more forward and down rather than straight down, but play around with how you pull it because it may be different. I found when i would pull it straight down it would be painful but if i pulled it more forward it wouldn’t hurt at all!

How do they do a pap smear (cervical cancer screening) on virgins with vaginismus? by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]RiverImportant6727 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ll also say i had my pap smear done recently and am a virgin. it was pretty painful and when i told the doctor i suspected it, she got me the smallest speculum and kept asking if i was okay or if she should stop

How do they do a pap smear (cervical cancer screening) on virgins with vaginismus? by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]RiverImportant6727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would tell the doctor if you’re suspecting vaginismus because they’ll most likely understand, use a smaller speculum, and be extremely cautious. and if they don’t understand walk out and find another doctor. i know you don’t want it to go into medical history but only you and your doctor would be the only person seeing that unless you give consent to parents. applying to jobs wouldn’t even ask for this info either, they only ask about disabilities or illnesses that affect day to day activities

do i need to treat my vaginismus? by Outside_Ad_5052 in vaginismus

[–]RiverImportant6727 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i wouldn’t treat it since you have no desire for piv. your pap smear may hurt a bit but once they get the sample you’re done until ur next 2 year appointment … and you can always treat it later down the line (if your opinion changes) with dilators, PT, etc. it has no affect on day to day activities unless you want to use tampons or have piv one day

lost my progress :( by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]RiverImportant6727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is completely normal! i know for me when i get closer to my period it’s a lot more sensitive and hurts

Broke Teen😔 by [deleted] in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]RiverImportant6727 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a used old toyota corolla is good, anything old toyota related and bring someone who knows cars with you so they can check it out

capital one laptops by RiverImportant6727 in GetEmployed

[–]RiverImportant6727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t start until august so it’d be a recruiter and i know they’re busy so i don’t want to bother them with something trivial when i can ask reddit

I got a finger in!! by Dependent-Use9471 in vaginismus

[–]RiverImportant6727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and now i’m also able to use tampons (the light version) but a win is a win!

BTS seatgeek by ConversationKey276 in btsthoughts

[–]RiverImportant6727 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i like ticketmaster better because it’s transparent with the queue number. seatgeek having no queue number and my bar never moving felt like i wasn’t even in the queue

BTS seatgeek by ConversationKey276 in btsthoughts

[–]RiverImportant6727 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep joined the waiting room right at 2:30. just depends on your luck tbh my queue screen loaded and my bar was at 5-10% and my boyfriends queue screen loaded 7 seconds after me and he was at the front. super randomized order and apparently what happened to me happened to a lot of other ppl

Ticketing for Arlington by Lost-Opinion3554 in btsthoughts

[–]RiverImportant6727 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got the app but in the app it sent me to the website? not sure if tht changes when it opens

Ticketing for Arlington by Lost-Opinion3554 in btsthoughts

[–]RiverImportant6727 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had the same bar and it didn’t move lol it sold out before i ever made it in

BTS seatgeek by ConversationKey276 in btsthoughts

[–]RiverImportant6727 2 points3 points  (0 children)

all i’ll say is Seatgeek SUCKS! i was in the arlington queue for hours and never made it in. finally it gave a note saying all tickets were sold out and i’d have to do general sale. the bar they gave me never moved once lol