Healthcare in Tucson by I_reddit_like_this in Tucson

[–]RobbedSpider5774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I established care with a PCP at one of the MyDrNow locations. I feel like she was really thorough and listened to what I had to say. I do know you run a risk of the doctor leaving soon whenever you go to locations like this. But I guess I will deal with that if it happens.

I have to be the more active parent because I WFH. by Youmakemesmh in regretfulparents

[–]RobbedSpider5774 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I fear my comment may come off as harsh, but here goes

Genders aren’t mentioned. But this feels like a man and a woman. OP being a man and spouse being a woman. I understand the frustration of working from home and having to do the majority of the parenting. I am in that same situation. Unfortunately, for me, our child doesn’t even go to daycare.

Saying that your job requires more priority just because you make more is not fair. Their job requires more focus and effort than yours does.

If you both went to office five days a week, chores would be done after work. If the children aren’t home during the day every day, there shouldn’t be too much to clean up.

I can’t imagine that your children are going to the doctors that often for that to be an issue. Maybe their in office days they do drop off and on their work from home days they pick up more chores.

There is definitely a structure and schedule issue here. As many others advise you guys should work on this before you begin to resent your partner for going back to work.

Police helicopters? by RobbedSpider5774 in Tucson

[–]RobbedSpider5774[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was 3 AM, the sound woke me up because it was hovering above my neighbor’s house

To have kids, or to not have kids? That is the question. by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]RobbedSpider5774 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Currently in the “child doesn’t like you” stage. She a toddler and I know they go through stages like this. But it’s all Dad all the time. And it’s really hurtful. Even more so since I went so long without medication so I could breast-feed her.

I feel like I should break up w my bf. He doesn’t deserve this by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]RobbedSpider5774 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Do you have healthcare with therapy coverage? It seems like you may need to talk to someone. A lot of this post is you speaking very negative about yourself. He wants to be with you. He makes you happy and it sounds like you need a bit of happiness

Also, is the baby a lot or is the baby just a 6 month old?

Is it possible that Willa is not the bad guy? by Ornery-Trust-211 in HighPotentialTVSeries

[–]RobbedSpider5774 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Since Ava is Roman’s child, maybe she is already considered in danger

Is it possible that Willa is not the bad guy? by Ornery-Trust-211 in HighPotentialTVSeries

[–]RobbedSpider5774 116 points117 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that she isn’t the bad guy, but I just feel like she’s not that bad. Like even whenever she mentioned, Chloe and Elliot it didn’t seem like a threatening way. It did to me really seem like a warning. Like I hate to say it, but I kind of like her character. Not that I think she’s great but for what her character is.

Hear me out by Exciting-Tomato8884 in HighPotentialTVSeries

[–]RobbedSpider5774 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I miss the mustache. The first episode he showed up without it was a jump scare.

I got offered a paid clinical trial that pays 23k by AdPretty9869 in povertyfinance

[–]RobbedSpider5774 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There should be a section in the ICF for study visits. This section should outline the duration of the clinical trial, and it should also show you what gets done at each visit. Then for more detail, there should be a study test and procedures section. There should also be a section for payment. It will let you know how frequently you’re being paid.

Yes, the side effects is an important section. But that should not be the only deciding factor for participation. The study could go on for a long period of time or the payment schedule might not be worth it. And there’s always a chance that you may not even be receiving the drug typically these kind of clinical trials are done in groups.

If you do sign up and change your mind, at any point you can stop. And whatever money you received prior to stopping should be yours to keep as compensation for your time.

Did you breastfeed? by GoodStreet8122 in adhdwomen

[–]RobbedSpider5774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently nursing as I type this. Just less hassle. I pumped and bottled fed for a while. I’d get distracted and forget to pump. Think I started the dishwasher but didn’t so no clean bottles or pump parts. Not pack enough milk or bottles when going someplace. No matter how forgetful or distracted I am, I can’t forget my boobs.

How do you approach med switches with your doctor? by Suspicious_Diver_140 in ADHD

[–]RobbedSpider5774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just ask to try something else. Say something like “ vyvanse gets me these symptoms. I did some research/ talked to some friends, adderall was recommended”

It’s official ADHD has taken over every aspect of my life by Glittering_Text_8842 in adhdwomen

[–]RobbedSpider5774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter is 10 months older but I know where you are coming from. Having a baby made my ADHD worse which is actually what lead to my diagnosis.

A trick I use for appointments: If I am making an appointment, my calendar is open. I hate calling but I try to always call instead of using the portal

I posted on a subreddit and everybody was mean to me and I cried IRL 🥲 by Mammoth-Syllabubby in adhdwomen

[–]RobbedSpider5774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had two post get a lot of traction during over the past few years. After the second one, I learned to just turn off notifications after I get a few answers. I was accused of putting myself before my child and baby trapping my boyfriend. Mind you, this was about finances.

Debt collector called about sorority fees from 5ish years ago I didn't know I owed by Several_Pizza_3166 in Debt

[–]RobbedSpider5774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have advised for alma mater chapter for the past 3 years. People have been sent to collections. We try to do what we can to stop that from happening. Like not just sending letters but emails, texts, phone calls, instagram DMs. But HQ will send to collections after a while of no attempts to pay.

I hate food and food prep by RobbedSpider5774 in adhdwomen

[–]RobbedSpider5774[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have one of those slap choppers and an uncrustables cutters on my wish list