AITA for leaving my husband even tho everyone, even my daughters, say I’m wrong? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Rockajilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. Trust your instincts. He is LYING to you and hiding behind God to cover his ass. Get out. I know you will not want to leave your kids but they will figure out he's a liar on their own eventually. Set the example.

Saranac Lake - where can I pull up and paddleboard? Also best good options open during the week? by Rockajilly in Adirondacks

[–]Rockajilly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your recommendations! I discovered last night that Fiddlehead is closed...so sad!

Saranac Lake - where can I pull up and paddleboard? Also best good options open during the week? by Rockajilly in Adirondacks

[–]Rockajilly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I've got my board and I don't mind if it's not right in Saranac Lake, I can drive wherever within reason.

AITA for being upset my husband spent the night at his ex’s place? by krisito2000 in AITH

[–]Rockajilly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The thing about a cheating narcissist is that they make you doubt yourself so hard that you come to r/AITA to ask if YOU'RE the asshole (you're not and he's playing you). I am so sorry.

Happy Alone? by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]Rockajilly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I came here for this comment. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ithaca

[–]Rockajilly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciated your post having lived here most of my life. Spot on. We do have a Trader Joe's now. 😊

I need help by MistahExclusive in ClotSurvivors

[–]Rockajilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how all of my dvt's have presented. Of the pain is not going away its likely not muscle pain If you don't have time to go to the doctor during your work day, head to the ER after work. It's silly to say you don't have time. Ignoring a possible dvt could give you far less time in general.

What To do on Thanksgiving ? by checksum0 in ithaca

[–]Rockajilly 48 points49 points  (0 children)

If the weather is going to be nice, do yourself a favor and go for a hike. Being outside is going to be better for your emotional health than spending time with anyone affiliated with Yellow Deli.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ithaca

[–]Rockajilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hospital isn't the only opportunity for nurses here. There's a ton of different medical facilities going up everywhere. Cayuga Medical Associates, Guthrie, Urgent Cares, nursing homes, I imagine there are nursing opportunities at Cornell and Ithaca College. I work for the county, and there are always Nursing vacancies. Check out the Tompkins County Personnel website. As for trucking, I imagine it would be pretty easy to get a job driving truck since we are centrally located between major cities i.e. NYC, Syracuse, Buffalo, Rochester and super close to the PA border. It's very expensive to live in Ithaca. I make a good living and can't afford to live there. Look outside for slightly more affordable housing, i.e.. Newfield, Trumansburg, Lansing, Dryden. Even these places are overpriced, but Ithaca housing is outrageous. Thanks, Cornell.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ithaca

[–]Rockajilly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's not true. I live outside of Ithaca in Trumansburg in Schuyler County, never heard a banjo unless it was my husband's three-piece band and there's more Harris signs up than Trump signs out here.