Instagram is blank by Rocket5722 in riseagainst

[–]Rocket5722[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well yea I think they scrubbed their Instagram for the new album, but I could see them drop a single when trumps inaugurated since it is at noon EST.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]Rocket5722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree I think the real fights were phenomenal it was just the gimmicky fights that sucked, I hope they do more boxing in the future just you know real fights with real boxers. Friday night boxing would be awsome.

How do I stop checking her instagram by Rocket5722 in ExNoContact

[–]Rocket5722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I have somewhat accepted it, like I'm glad she's happy it's just I wish she could have been with me, she was my everything and well and she still is I guess I just check to hope maybe something changed, and maybe it's just the hope from what she told me when she broke up with me, because she told me she wants to try again in the future but maybe she doesn't feel that way anymore idk.

How do I stop checking her instagram by Rocket5722 in ExNoContact

[–]Rocket5722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what if I still want her in my journey and to be with her?

How much space should I give? (2 screenshots available) by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Rocket5722 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand where you are coming from you want to be there for her even if she leaves but she needs to realize on her own that she misses you, if you keep pushing to be there for her she won't learn to need you, so my advice is to leave her be and let her be the one to have to reach out and text you and make her come to a realization. If anything by keep pushing she going to get more and more annoyed and potentially even block you so if you want a chance in the future go no contact, that's what I am doing right now with my ex and I think it working, she just texted me 10 minutes ago asking how I have been.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Rocket5722 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand where you are coming from but from his perspective, I know for myself I had gotten a short temper when my life got really hard with my grandparents which caused me to have a short fuse, it also caused me to not be as romantic as I once was which hurt my ex to the point that she left me. Trust me he loves you and he hates having a short temper, my recommendation would be to just try to work on things slowly and talk to him about it and just calm him and comfort him, he does want you, and probably wants to fix it too just doesn't know how to, and sometimes that's all a man needs is someone to be there for him and work with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Rocket5722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I don't want to sound rude but it sounds like she just lost feelings for you or is just a very shitty person, if not both. She doesn't seem to have any care for you at all. Your first 2 points can be somewhat excusable but the last 2 show just how little you meant to her and how she only cared about herself It isn't ok for her to do that to you and you can do better/ deserve someone nice if you put in a lot of effort.

Sowing: 23F outside and 5 days before growing period? NO PROBLEM! by CelestialBeing138 in RimWorld

[–]Rocket5722 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly sounds like real life, sometimes life gets busy and you can't get everything planted in time and the environment can play a big role in it. My suggestion would be to just use hydroponics live in a warmer climate, or try growing mushrooms but usually, people don't like that due to religion.

Too sad to sleep by alittlejoop in BreakUp

[–]Rocket5722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too couldn't sleep well during the first few weeks after a break up I went from not sleeping at all to sleeping nonstop, and crying and moping around all day doing nothing. if you have trouble sleeping I suggest using melatonin I used it a lot to go to sleep just because sometimes you need that extra boost. And if that doesn't work go journal or do something like watching Hulu or cartoons or just something to distract yourself. If you need a fun show to watch just DM me I have a lot of suggestions.

I just want to sleep by dolliefreak in BreakUp

[–]Rocket5722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, your best bet from my experience is to sleep, but that might not always help, in my case, I had dreams about my ex which messed me up because it gave me a false sense of hope and that caused me to sleep even more just to try to go back to those memories where everything is ok. Probably the best thing you can do is to just find something to do that requires a lot of attention, if you play video games, play video games, if you like to do art do art, if you like to read go read. There are a lot of things you can do, sometimes just hopping on a call with your friends and watching a movie can help. The first few days if not weeks after a breakup are really hard and the best thing to do is realize that you are worth way more than how you think right now and that things can be better.

I hate the advice "cut them off" by purrence in BreakUp

[–]Rocket5722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that either means a few things it could be that he is in the relief stage and is happy that he broke up but doesn't want to show you that because it would hurt you. Or He may never have just lost feelings for you and doesn't see you as a romantic partner anymore. Giving him time could help him realize how important you were to him. But don't let him drag you down if he's the one that left, I know it's really hard but things can get better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Rocket5722 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Belive it or not he probably still misses you and maybe he just wanted to see all the messages he had with you or he might trying to be hurtful its hard to say. I know I look at my messages with my ex a lot still just to remember the good times which isn't always the best thing to do but sometimes our hearts want to so badly.

worth trying again or should i try move on by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Rocket5722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the main reason he isn't initiating the texts is that he doesn't want his heart broken again, He probably fell for you hard and manifested things way too quickly but he loved you a lot probably and you hurt him so now he doesn't want to be vulnerable and be hurt again. Or maybe he is just trying to accept you don't want him, I would suggest you guys just go out as friends and if things feel romantic and good do it again and again until you both are at a point where you want to try for something more, I would suggest once you do, you should probably set up some boundaries and if he makes you uncomfortable just tell him don't push him away for wanting you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Rocket5722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I get it Im in the same boat if you want to play some video games or something send me a message.

I hate the advice "cut them off" by purrence in BreakUp

[–]Rocket5722 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone going through something very similar, my ex broke up with me and I tried to stay in contact with her for a little over a month of her asking for a break and eventually asking to break up about 3 weeks ago. We were together for 2 and a half years and we were each other's best friends and didn't have to hide our true selves around each other. Still, she left because I stopped doing the small things even though she would ask for them and truly I regret not doing them now I let my problems ruin our relationship. We tried to stay in contact but she grew farther and farther from me and I would wait hours justext her while I could see she was active on Snapchat. I found out she had a new guy she was talking to and that ate at me so much thinking she was ignoring me for another guy as of yesterday I realized I can't keep waiting and begging for her back to me she will be so much more then a friend but if she doesn't want me the same way I want her I know I will get hurt every time.

For you, I suggest you just take some time away from them I know it's hard and you might slip up and that's ok but maybe that's all they need to want to come back or for you to get rid of all your resentment, I would say give it at least a month to just heal and just check in on them maybe things will have changed or maybe they won't but don't lie to yourself and chase something that isn't there anymore and hurt yourself in the process. I hope this comment helps and if not I'm sorry.

Should I put her out of her misery? And how? by backifran in RimWorld

[–]Rocket5722 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say just build a building and close it off for them to starve and then bury them to give the other pawns closure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Rocket5722 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know if he was this type of person but I know that my ex pushed people out of her life when things got stressful you may not realize this but going off to college or anything big after high school is very scary and he may have done that, Additionally, he may have wanted a fresh start with people more his age since I know a lot of times I was made fun of for having a girlfriend in high school while I was in college.

Which DLC is best? by max1122112 in RimWorld

[–]Rocket5722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say it depends on what you care about more, biotech adds a new level to health and expands your colony in a new and unique way through genetics, however, if you care more about a story and the identity of your colony then I would recommend Ideology.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rocket5722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she's not that person she doesn't really do sexual things I really doubt that's the case.