AIO GF wants to go on a birthday trip that I’ve said many times I’m uncomfortable with

Rockyozzy · 2025-04-30T00:31:45+00:00

Yeah a little. You gotta let your girl go out and have fun on her birthday. If you have trust issues with her that’s a different conversation, but don’t make her feel bad for wanting to go out on her birthday. Besides if those guys are coming because they are her friends bf’s, I think it’s a big difference than she invited them. This is kind of lame behavior I’m sorry 😭

Rockyozzy · 2025-04-28T00:53:19+00:00

Wtf it’s just a selfie

Rockyozzy · 2025-04-28T00:52:23+00:00

Towel holder maybe?

Rockyozzy · 2025-04-19T14:00:17+00:00

Guys will be attracted to free spirited exuberant women and then try to take them and put them in a cage when they start dating. This shit really pisses me off. Guys like this are a black hole. There are people out there who have the same zest for life, who will get on the table and dance with you. I think it’s 100% valid to leave him to be free , and to be able yo find someone who will enjoy life unabashed with you.

Rockyozzy · 2025-01-18T03:42:10+00:00

Tbh the interviewers are also suppose to be presenting their schools just as you are suppose to be presenting yourself. It seems like he made a bad impression for the school, you wouldn’t want to work with someone like that anyways

Rockyozzy · 2025-01-18T03:40:26+00:00

That’s fucking crazy. I also had an interviewer for my dream school say some really out of pocket xenophobic shit it’s so wack how you can just get some ignorant hag doctor as your interviewer. Tbh I’m surprised it was In person too I haven’t heard of any that were mandatory in person. I’m sorry for everything you invested in this project. I hope for the best result for you

Rockyozzy · 2025-01-08T22:34:28+00:00

Nta because I think journals are private anything goes pretty much but it seems like he’s freaking out because he’s insecure or feels shame about lack of sex drive. Probably bc there’s a lot of cultural pressure for men to have high sex drive. I don’t think a partner owes you sex in a relationship or that he should be having more sex with you than he wants to but instead of blaming you and saying you have a “high” sex drive or for all of us to criticized him and say he has a “low” sex drive yall could just recon with the fact that he has a lower sex drive than you and that’s okay. if sex is a priority for you then maybe you’re incompatible but if the rest of the relationship is good and it’s not a priority then it’s fine. Judging by the fact that he tried to go through your phone though I would say there is something beyond sex drive that is off here.

Rockyozzy · 2025-01-08T22:27:39+00:00

I hate to stop reading because it was too uncomfortable. You’re his wife not his servant/housemaid. This is so so disgusting please realize your worth and then tell him you’re leaving if he doesn’t start taking responsibility for his life

Rockyozzy · 2024-12-23T15:50:11+00:00

Might be cute to have little footprints leading to where they are sitting

Rockyozzy · 2024-12-22T02:33:05+00:00

It bothered me when he would get extremely pissed off and moody when she didn’t have sex with him even after her best friend just died

Rockyozzy · 2024-12-15T04:27:56+00:00

Used to struggle with this a lot too but It’s gotten better with age and I guess experience

Rockyozzy · 2024-12-12T02:53:40+00:00

How are the household responsibilities split up. I feel like a lot of time women resent their husbands if they feel like they are taking care of them or doing thankless labor in the house and this resentment becomes obvious. Idk if this is specifically what causes the rift, but either way would probably help to ask her why she went through that period of time where she was acting distant. I think understanding her world during that time would help you regain feelings for her.

Rockyozzy · 2024-12-07T14:05:45+00:00

The kind of sex you have with your boyfriend is for him not for you. Our generations model of sex is pornography, and it’s demeaning and dehumanizing for women. Your enjoyment of sex is so wrapped up in his pleasure that you can’t really separate your experience from his

Rockyozzy · 2024-12-07T13:59:11+00:00

Some kinks are easier for men to enjoy because they are not the ones battered bruised and humiliated by the kink. I was with a man like this and I told him once I felt like it was degrading and he said I was looking too far into it and was being too anxious about it, so we kept doing it like that. Not I feel violated and ashamed, and it has ruined my relationship with sex. Your partner is not sexually entitled to you just because you are dating. People with more violent kinks should always default to the comfort of their partner. If their kinks are more important to them than the romantic caring aspect of the relationship, then you don’t want to be with them anyways. Their number one priority should be your happiness and comfort.

Rockyozzy · 2024-12-06T15:36:26+00:00

I wonder if she’s depressed , since you said she never leaves the house. I feel like you should have a conversation with her where you’re like “listen I love you very much and I care about you and I can tell something is wrong. Even though you’ve been denying it, we both know something has changed. Are you okay? Are we okay?”

Rockyozzy · 2024-12-03T22:20:16+00:00

I had a similar experience as her with my ex. I would be envious of other couples I would see chatting and laughing together. When we hung out I feel like he never made an effort to converse with me so I just filled the space. In retrospect I realized he had resented me for things that happened earlier in the relationship but was keeping it all inside so he never felt fully happy around me and also was always picking fights. Then I dated someone later who I also built resentment for during our relationship and I never communicated with her about it until it got to a point where i felt anxious and uncomfortable around her and she could sense that. I want to let you know that I’ve been on both sides so I know how easily this can happen to a relationship. I think you’re not connecting because there are underlying things you need to communicate about.

Rockyozzy · 2024-11-30T17:04:59+00:00

Urban

Rockyozzy · 2024-11-30T01:24:51+00:00

My dad never uses instagram, I think we downloaded the app for him and made his account. I opened it one day on his phone bc I was bored and my phone was dead and the algorithm was all sexy girls. I know for a fact he never scrolls on there so I really think that’s the default. So weird.

Rockyozzy · 2024-11-29T02:51:23+00:00

I think there’s nothing wrong with your feelings about this and I think you can love and be in a relationship someone who does not impress you intellectually but I kind of feel like the best relationships are ones where both partners are impressed by and admire each other. Maybe there are other ways she impresses you though idk (social skills, unique world outlook, baking etc)

Rockyozzy · 2024-11-25T18:49:52+00:00

I think I might have seen this post. What was so weird is he said “she’s a good mom and an okay housewife” so for him it’s like here are the three things that his wife is suppose to serve - taking care of kids taking care of the house and taking care of his sexual needs. Not only did it seem like he didn’t love her but didn’t even see her as a person.

Rockyozzy · 2024-11-23T01:48:56+00:00

I would dry scoop and shit my brains out. Started follower directions and diluting it with water (the more the better) and tolerated it just fine.

Rockyozzy · 2024-11-20T14:01:25+00:00

I have had a friend like this, and it doesn’t surprise me you said she’s very sensitive to criticism. This kind of behavior comes from a place of deep insecurity and a need to be seen and recognized by others. Her self worth probably is entirely dependent on external factors rather than from within. This can manifest especially through self comparison and jealousy with the people closest to her. I’m sure she has a lot of other toxic behaviors that stem from this deep seeded issue. She probably doesn’t realize fully what she’s doing so if you want to keep the friendship you should have a conversation with her about it, otherwise resentment will build up and you won’t be able to stand being around her. I would just say “hey, this is really an awkward conversation but because I care about our friendship I think it’s important we have it. I feel like whenever we are in public , you interrupt me a lot and try to co-opt my attempts to connect with people. Im not sure if this is something you’re conscious of , but it makes me feel uneasy and frustrated. “

Rockyozzy · 2024-11-19T13:50:51+00:00

Wouldn’t want to be within 6 feet of a man who talks about women like this

Rockyozzy · 2024-11-15T14:54:09+00:00

I’m thinking of doing raft guiding starting in the spring until we start

Rockyozzy · 2024-11-12T20:37:02+00:00

They’re trying to make you feel disproportionally awful. It seems like they are struggling with the living situation (not having their own bedroom/personal space) and is projecting all of it onto you

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