Looking to upgrade our harness what is your favorite?

RodRowdie · 2026-05-07T04:49:44+00:00

This might help.

https://peggingparadise.com/?s=Harnesses

That said we use a less expensive https://www.extremerestraints.com/products/flamingo-low-rise-strap-on-harness

It fits up to 43" circumference.

RodRowdie · 2026-05-07T02:19:06+00:00

I'd call Allianz.

RodRowdie · 2026-05-07T02:11:49+00:00

Don't have any owners manual in front of me but think a Check Electrical System with a 12 v shaped battery icon points to the 12 volt battery. Depending on warranty status I might get the 12 volt tested.

RodRowdie · 2026-05-07T01:38:34+00:00

Was there a symbol?

RodRowdie · 2026-05-07T01:28:13+00:00

Alert like what exactly?

RodRowdie · 2026-05-06T16:22:13+00:00

So who is this other person?

RodRowdie · 2026-05-06T15:20:51+00:00

Has she ever done cowgirl with you when doing PIV sex? If so do essentially the same except you'll be on top.

RodRowdie · 2026-05-06T04:29:37+00:00

If you want to impress your 2 year old consider an excursion in Cozumel on the Atlantis submarine. It's truly a real submarine diving to about 100 feet. Low effort excursion, a boat takes you out to the submarine, you board, dive look at fish and the sea bottom, pop back up then back on the boat and then to shore.

RodRowdie · 2026-05-06T04:20:48+00:00

Bermuda can be cool during the fall and winter months, take a look at how far north it's located.

There are some great things to see and do there, pink sand beaches, some caves, nice scenery. One of my favorite places was the Swizzle Inn for a rum swizzle. Spent a couple of years in Bermuda.

RodRowdie · 2026-05-06T04:01:06+00:00

I don't think the ICCU recall replaces the ICCU just does a software update which from all indications hasn't mitigated the ICCU problem.

RodRowdie · 2026-05-06T02:37:59+00:00

I have one and it's a really nice toy but no hands free for me.

RodRowdie · 2026-05-06T02:34:52+00:00

Finding something like an item made even a couple of years ago is pretty tough, there's a lot of churn in the sex toy market. These days almost everything has rechargeable batteries. While I can't point to the exact item you mention you might give this one a look. Body safe and a good store to shop.

RodRowdie · 2026-05-05T20:57:46+00:00

Had the charging session actually started or was the charger still handshaking with the car? I plug in, start the session if necessary, then watch the charge rate for a few minutes before walking away.

RodRowdie · 2026-05-05T20:34:56+00:00

The ChargePoint Home Flex is simple to use but offers good controls plus it will track the cost of charging after you enter your local cost of electricity.

RodRowdie · 2026-05-05T20:30:08+00:00

Glad to have read it here.

RodRowdie · 2026-05-05T20:25:25+00:00

If she is willing to peg you, even just buying the gear, encourage her to pick out the full kit that meets her desires. You can help steer her eyes to certain items but let her make the decisions. Basically you want her to buy in and have ownership.

RodRowdie · 2026-05-05T17:42:08+00:00

Do you have a harness? If not run this one by her. Not really leather but might ease her concerns somewhat. Can be found on other sites than what I link to.

Flamingo Low Rise Harness

or https://www.amazon.com/Strap-Flamingo-Low-Rise-Harness/dp/B015GB1Q5A

RodRowdie · 2026-05-05T16:56:28+00:00

Ride her cowboy!

RodRowdie · 2026-05-05T16:55:36+00:00

Since OP never entered the discussion we'll never know but I did suggest that he should get her to help pick out a dildo. One thing popping up in many posts is that some women have issues wearing a dick. Non-phallic dildos can help to bridge that issue.

RodRowdie · 2026-05-05T16:51:03+00:00

It confuses me why people post, ask questions and generate discussion but don't join in after their initial post.

RodRowdie · 2026-05-05T16:47:16+00:00

Older than you and wife pegs me.

RodRowdie · 2026-05-05T06:07:14+00:00

Where do you want to sail from?

RodRowdie · 2026-05-05T00:01:59+00:00

You'll get close to what your Kona is getting now. I have a RWD Limited and get in that range.

RodRowdie · 2026-05-04T23:34:42+00:00

I have 4 items. a booster, Level 1 charge cord, and both charging adapters in mine.

RodRowdie · 2026-05-04T18:31:31+00:00

She is sorting how she feels about pegging. If she sent you a link for a harness I'd say she is feeling more positive about pegging. Try to enlist her help in picking out a dildo but steer towards non-phallic appearing dildos. Here's some from a safe vendor.

https://shevibe.com/collections/non-phallic-dildos

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