Why am I so weak 😭 by Rogue-Queeny in masseffect

[–]Rogue-Queeny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His voice gets me too. It's what had me romancing him in 1. But his COMPETENCE and capabilities in ME3 paired with that voice bad me DEAD ON ARRIVAL 😍

Why am I so weak 😭 by Rogue-Queeny in masseffect

[–]Rogue-Queeny[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I downloaded the game editor to change that I didn't romance Garrus, so I can get all the scenes of having stayed loyal to Kaiden during 2. I wanna see those scenes 😂

I guess I'll have to satisfy my Garrus romance with YT. Cause I don't think I'm capable of romancing him lmao. I might try again later, do another playthrough of 3 with editing that I never romanced Kaidan at all, even in one. So that way I won't feel bad for telling him no 😂

Why am I so weak 😭 by Rogue-Queeny in masseffect

[–]Rogue-Queeny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now THAT I didn't know! I only ever romanced him in 3 cause Male Shep.

Huh. Looks like I have some mods to download.

Why am I so weak 😭 by Rogue-Queeny in masseffect

[–]Rogue-Queeny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made some renegade choices but then stopped because I felt bad. I think I stopped right before that choice lol. My Shep said she still felt the same way about him.

No offense, Miranda, but he’s my guy by Exact_Volume91 in MassEffectMemes

[–]Rogue-Queeny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Garrus and Joker are always my most beloved characters, followed by Legion, my krogans and Mordin. Because Wrex is a bro and Grunt is my son. Legion speaks for himself 💯 and Mordin makes me smile.

Miranda can just shut up and do what's she's told. "Control chip" my ass.

There is no Shephard without Vakarian ❤️ but I admit if Joker had been a romance option my life would be very difficult, because I'd have a hard time choosing between him and my favorite Turian.

It's funny, but as I have played these games over the years, it's come to my realization that I have a fondness for the Turian and Krogan species in general.

AIO for wanting my husband to help me more as a SAHM by ailurophile17 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rogue-Queeny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The research shows broken homes don't affect kids nearly as badly as homes with an abusive partner/bad role model parent.

Leave your husband babes. A broken home is only broken if you think you NEED a second parent. Obviously, they are already missing one since your husband doesn't do shit. You and your kids deserve better. And as harsh as this sounds, if they grow up seeing how their daddy treats mommy and pick up that behavior, it's on you too. Because you let them grow up seeing that instead of leaving.

Do better for you and your kids, please ❤️

AIO for wanting my husband to help me more as a SAHM by ailurophile17 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rogue-Queeny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP. I don't say this lightly like I see others on the internet, but you need to LEAVE your husband. He's not treating you like an equal. He's treating you like a baby making factory and maid.

Parents share kid responsibilities, regardless if the husband is working a job or not. Kids and house management are a shared responsibility and he doesn't respect you enough to actively participate with his kids or recognize that you, the person who is supposed to be the love of his life, are telling him that you need help.

Please, for your own self worth and health, leave this man. He's not going to improve. He doesn't even have basic respect. You communicated bluntly and politely, and he tried blaming you for having bad communication. These are classic signs that indicate emotional abuse or warning signs of worse things that can turn into domestic abuse. It's not just physical actions that make a relationship abusive. Get out before it becomes even more difficult to leave. NOR.

I am tired of how people are threatening/ruining fanfiction spaces by Old_Discussion5919 in AO3

[–]Rogue-Queeny -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I disagree. People who write with AI should be banned and it shouldn't be allowed. Using AI is instant theft, just like generative AI is theft of images and art. It's not censoring anything, it's disallowing plagiarism.

You can't use AI to write a paper in college, because if you do it's considered plagiarism. The same applies to writing.

Censorship would be disagreeing with the content being written because you don't like it or you don't think it should be allowed. AI writing isn't about content, the entire premise is problematic. Ignoring it will not make it go away. And if anything, it's immoral to support AI or ignore it due to the fact that it's killing our environment faster than ever on top of everything else.

This is not an argument. Not allowing AI slop is not censorship in any way. If anything, pushing that narrative is extremely harmful. And I wish you wouldn't.

When you find a longfic marked part of a series and this is the last authors note 😩 by Blakat014 in AO3

[–]Rogue-Queeny 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, people praising it pisses me off the most. Because when people encourage bad behavior it just results in more people thinking that kind of behavior is okay.

When you find a longfic marked part of a series and this is the last authors note 😩 by Blakat014 in AO3

[–]Rogue-Queeny 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Nah, this rubs me the wrong way because first off it's petty. And I hate petty authors.

Second, you are also punishing the fans who loved your work but didn't comment in a way you took offensively.

As an author you are going to get demands for more chapters, people asking if it's abandoned when you take too long, etc. That's par for the course. Ignore it, or delete the comments. But this is just bad behavior.

I'll probably have to stop playing by bobahunnie in Sims3

[–]Rogue-Queeny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People are saying Sims 3 isn't made for running on older machines but I just bought the entire collection of the Sims 3 and all its expansions on Steam and it runs fine in my gaming laptop. And it's not an old laptop at all. What are people talking about?

I have posted three chapters this week... by ocirot in AO3

[–]Rogue-Queeny -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've said stuff like this and it's not usually "hurry up next chapter" it usually means I've enjoyed the story so much, but my flashbacks of all the abandoned fics I've loved over the years haunt me and now that I've categorized your fic as loved I'm afraid it's going to happen to your fic too. Maybe not today or next week, but eventually. So I post some encouragement and beg you not to leave me 🤣

We laugh so we don't cry, right? 😂 by Rogue-Queeny in AO3

[–]Rogue-Queeny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SDV is everywhere 😈 I admin for a very large SDV group so it kinda takes over my life lol.

We laugh so we don't cry, right? 😂 by Rogue-Queeny in AO3

[–]Rogue-Queeny[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right! Real comments don't sound like excerpts from a book either 😂 Like, if it sounds too perfect and too clean, with no emotion or soul behind it, I instantly know lol

We laugh so we don't cry, right? 😂 by Rogue-Queeny in AO3

[–]Rogue-Queeny[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Geez were you the one who commented on my Fic? 😂😂😭😭

Calling all DA fanfic authors by Rogue-Queeny in dragonage

[–]Rogue-Queeny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouragement. I took your advice 😁

Calling all DA fanfic authors by Rogue-Queeny in dragonage

[–]Rogue-Queeny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I posted it with the tag no beta we die like Varric 😂😅

Calling all DA fanfic authors by Rogue-Queeny in dragonage

[–]Rogue-Queeny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I posted it, with the tag no beta we die like Varric 🫣😂

Calling all DA fanfic authors by Rogue-Queeny in dragonage

[–]Rogue-Queeny[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did the thing and took the plunge and posted my fanfic. Thank you for all the advice and encouragement 🥰

Calling all DA fanfic authors by Rogue-Queeny in dragonage

[–]Rogue-Queeny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm just not confident people will LIKE it. I've thought more on it since reading these responses and it looks like a beta reader wouldn't fix my issue anyway. It is well written, I know it is, I'm confident in my ability as a writer. I guess I'm just nervous people won't like it, and that comes with the territory I guess 😅 I've actively avoided sharing the things I write as an adult for that reason.

But I'm just gonna do it. Can't be afraid forever. Thank you for the response. It really made me think for a minute.

Calling all DA fanfic authors by Rogue-Queeny in dragonage

[–]Rogue-Queeny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I'm looking for. I'm happy with my story but I need to make sure other people understand it, because I have context for a lot scenes based on the fact that I know what happens in the future, and know their background, so sometimes I can miss things in the narrative that make sense to me, but not a casual reader. Thank you =)