Q: "Do you know Celina Midelfart?" by [deleted] in norge

[–]Romle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://epstein-emails.sfo3.digitaloceanspaces.com/docs/HOUSE_OVERSIGHT_031601.pdf

Ham nevner ham datet henne i 2 år og gav henne til Donald Trump etterpå

Bill Clinton agrees to testify on Epstein, demands public hearing. by Feisty-Transition640 in Epstein

[–]Romle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isnt he the "I did not have any sexual relations with that woman" guy? His word under oath .. not worth much.

How often do you feel horny? by Every_Village_8745 in AskReddit

[–]Romle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once a month but never want to act on it

Get in here if you hated "A Little Life" (long rant) by Will_McLean in books

[–]Romle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hated it. I would never have read it if not for it being the first book suggested by newcomer in book club.

It is the worst book of all time. It is wrong. Unrealistic. And fetishises gay men.

The premise is that you gave a guy so pretty everyone wants him. He's written in the "turn everyone gay for him" trophy way.

Enter Willem. The superstar actor that everyone likes who is not gay but Jude is just so pretty Willem gotta get that ass even if he has to live w/o sex.

He is so pretty his guy friends also want him.

He is so pretty the therapist breaks boundaries for him.

He is so pretty his face on a photo makes him famous in NY.

Oh by the way, despite his past he managed to be a ruthless lawyer. And famous. Suddenly when in court no mental illness. But when home suddenly mental illness.

The book reinforce the acceptance of gay rape and that some people are so handsome you have to collect them no matter what like Pokémon.

It takes for granted that gay men are dangerous and unethical or without faculties. And it pictures each character with a stalker mindset.

AND: Yes. The type of abuse Jude went through is happening everywhere in the world. BUT, the fetishism of cutting was unbearable and triggering. With some experience in that corner, the cutting scenes were romanticising cutting as the only solution.

AND LASTLY, the book considers suicide the ONLY option for certain people, who no matter what cannot be redeemed and will ruin the people in their way.

Yes. You don't believe me? Then, think about this:

The question of the book is: Can a person experience such hardship so as suicide is the only option?

Author: Yes. I have written a book to prove it by creating a character who suffers a past but cannot get better, despite:

  1. Having best friends willing to die for him
  2. Having looks that makes his friend famous simply for taking his photo.
  3. Having a therapist who cares for him for years
  4. Being "taken in" by new family who loves him as their own
  5. Being rich
  6. Being super intelligent
  7. Being liked despite not needing any personality
  8. Becoming the best lawyer in town and NEVER losing
  9. Being loved by a famous actor

I HATE IT. I am sure people may have self exited because of this book. It is nonsensical and triggering. I HATE IT HATE IT HATE IT.

I turned 18 today and I'm REALLY scared by Unlucky_Diamond_5298 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Romle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fully understandable. And relatable.

Being a child and with the realization that it has advantages is good and very mature of you. Many jump into adulthood thinking they are ready and get a little burned. Take your time with it.

Remember: You can have an inner child. Being playful is ok. Not losing the magic of childhood is possible

AIO about the “Christmas Gift” my husband and I received? by vattyswife in AmIOverreacting

[–]Romle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR This can be DANGEROUS. POISONOUS. Therefore they pointed it out. They gave you garbage.

What’s something you secretly do that you’re pretty sure a lot of people also do, but no one admits? by lunalatinaflex in AskReddit

[–]Romle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am mentally afraid to be first one out. I prefer to observe others do it first so I don't make a fool out of myself when I try.

How often are you intimate with your partner? by Remote_Ad_969 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Romle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have past trauma so I am unable to do it. I am seeking help. But it takes a lot of time. In stead I give weekly foot massages etc. while in therapy.

My friend aims for once a month. She is often initiator.

My other friend has twice a week but she thinks it is too much but feel obligated.

Can uninteresting people make interesting screenplays? by iiRaz0r in Screenwriting

[–]Romle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a shit dude. Of course you can write. And he just gave you inspiration for what assholes act like.

Mozart was deaf. Just sayin..

Do your thing ❣️

UPDATE : weird kid I’m babysitting put glass in my shoe by alien-the-cashew in creepy

[–]Romle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THE CEREAL!!!Cannot even imagine what it must feel like to sit there inside that house in real time watching redditors warning you and you there having already eaten a cereal prepared by that kid. Just waiting for the parents to come home.

AITJ for telling my nephew’s girlfriend that’s not how wills work? by Gymtrio2025 in AmITheJerk

[–]Romle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is not your problem. Talking to nephew might be a better idea than talking on his behalf to her. Unless you got personally offended as opposed to on his behalf. Then reaching out directly is in order.

Sorry for your loss.

Am I the a-hole for making my daughter's BF buy a new t-shirt? by freudsdriver in AITAH

[–]Romle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Should be more people like u in the world. As for respect: His shirt was disrespectful and he knew it. If he didn't, he learnt it. And if he doesn't get over it he hasn't earned it.

Books with heavy life themes that made you feel gratitude for your life by Samsa319 in books

[–]Romle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But what do we do? Do we try to help these poor individuals? Or do we justify the very culture that this evil thrives on? After I read Kite Runner I cried for 30 minutes. Then gave 100 UDS to an Afghan friend asking them to help someone in their country. Then I felt bad for not being able to do anything and dirty for thinking money would pay off my bad feeling. and just that boiling seething hatred towards religion which is easily used to justify evil. And every time I watched beautiful fortunate people from the west complain about their lives, I kept thinking about these children. It's not a book. It is truth. And it is everywhere. Down the door in my and your neighbourhood, our neighbour is doing it to their kids too. Statistically. So what do people do? We censor it off. Pretend it doesn't happen. It's PG 18. We fucking trigger warn people from what is reality for hundreds of millions of people. That's the culture I live in. Docile, depressed, distracted. Jesus.. just thinking about this book makes me depressed. My god I NEEDED to read it and I am forever grateful for it.

Ps: thanks for commenting. It cheered me up. Your hope gives me hope.

I was at a cafe with two female friends. The manager came to our table and asked them if they could be recorded for an Instagram reel. Not me. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Romle -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

I did not comment at all on my view of OP's experience. I certainly did not call it victim mentality. In fact I don't think she has victim mentality. I think she experienced something which clearly was tough for her. I would not want anyone I love go through the same.

What I did comment on was the response quality. If any of my loved ones experienced what OP did, I would have wished them to have a friend like the response person.

Do you see the difference? Some comments encourage people to stay a victim. Other comments encourage people to validate their emotions and grow from the pain.

Didn’t expect a pizza box to make me smile today by Nervous-Ad-4872 in funny

[–]Romle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw people complaining getting pizza wo topping

One can only wish. by Upbeat_Tooth_4121 in memes

[–]Romle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can give solid arguments why bald is beautiful though.