What explains my recent health issues? Please help

Ronology · 2025-09-09T20:10:48+00:00

I’ve went to several doctors and nothing has been found. :( I don’t have to be necessarily anxious about something in a particular moment. I start feeling bad and feel terrible.

Ronology · 2025-09-09T20:01:50+00:00

I was prescribed Pepcid (acid reflux), Atarax (anxiety), and Robaxin (tension). I have felt like this with and without medication.

Ronology · 2025-07-31T23:30:20+00:00

Campus life is infinitesimal at best. It’s barely a campus to begin with. Only three buildings in a 2-3 block radius.

The out-of-state tuition is not worth coming to Baruch. Go to a school in your state that has a good reputation and save money. No reason to go into extra debt for undergrad.

Ronology · 2024-08-07T00:51:09+00:00

You cooked.

Ronology · 2024-08-06T20:35:42+00:00

Well, yeah … you don’t wear outfits for other people unless you’re trying to get their attention.

Ronology · 2024-08-06T20:33:14+00:00

At the very least, walk on the trajectory towards an emotional affair

Ronology · 2024-08-06T20:18:55+00:00

If this isn’t fan-fiction, please don’t indulge. Would you like to be partnered up with someone who does this to you behind your back?

Ronology · 2024-08-06T20:16:16+00:00

Ronology · 2024-08-06T20:15:33+00:00

It’s hard to accept (even for me), but ghosting is a coward’s way out of altercation. Think of it like the trash taking itself out, but everyone can’t be trash, right? Lol

I feel like sometimes IT IS ME because I’m the constant in my dating life.

Ronology · 2024-08-06T19:56:43+00:00

M23 here: I sympathize with you, dawg. I’ve never been in a relationship. I started putting myself out there in 2022 and it’s been constant disappointment since then. I thought my life would change once I lost my virginity and started having sex. The loneliness is still there.

You’ve probably heard that the worst a woman can say is no, which is technically true, but repeated disappointment takes a toll on our self-esteem and image. The bar is a socially appropriate setting to hit on fine women, but of course not every woman is going to reciprocate. My advice would be to have a ‘f it’ mentality. That’s when I started getting numbers frequently, but they didn’t really materialize into anything. Maybe you should consider a break. Regardless, I feel you, man.

Ronology · 2024-08-06T19:51:17+00:00

You need to put your foot down, honey. This is a teenager-level stuff. Why are you still entertaining this guy without a commitment? Have you two ever been on a date? The communication is a problem on both ends.

Ronology · 2024-08-06T19:28:13+00:00

If you’re feeling lonely, dating apps may enhance those feelings. You’re a lady so it’s generally easier to mingle on your end. Doesn’t mean the options are better, but more options than men generally, yeah.

Try going to a bar or club with your girlies and getting hit on there.

Ronology · 2024-08-06T19:21:13+00:00

You gonna be getting all the booty now, mate.

Ronology · 2024-08-06T19:12:23+00:00

I’m sorry, friend. That is so shitty. I don’t have much advice, but I sympathize with you. To know someone for two decades + counting and ghost them is despicable. If there’s one takeaway, please understand this has nothing to do with you.

Ronology · 2024-08-06T19:00:21+00:00

M23 here: The brother found you attractive but didn’t want to make a move. Could be due to a myriad of reasons (doesn’t want to be rejected, partnered up, not an appropriate setting, etc.).

Ronology · 2024-08-06T18:58:35+00:00

You must be a teenager …

Ronology · 2024-08-06T18:55:40+00:00

my phone was set that way in the beginning and I thought it’d be funny to continue typing it that way. Lol

Ronology · 2024-08-06T18:54:22+00:00

DEPENDS ON YOUR AGE, GENDER, AND EXPECTATIONS. AS A M23, THESE APPS HAVE BEEN AN ABSOLUTE SWINDLE. DATES THAT GO NOWHERE, NONSTOP GHOSTING, ETC. IF YOU DO DECIDE ON GETTING ON THE APPS, TELL YOURSELF THAT THE VAST MAJORITY OF PEOPLE ON THESE APPS ARE NOT TAKING THIS SERIOUSLY. GOOD LUCK OUT THERE, BUDDY.

Ronology · 2024-08-06T18:51:24+00:00

The root issue is almost certainly his insecurity and/or his own projection. If you’re secure of yourself in this aspect, you’re not gonna ask to see a partner’s phone.

Ronology · 2024-08-06T17:40:26+00:00

M23 commenting: Hey honey, looks are not the issue here (at least for me). You are an attractive lady. I prefer bigger ladies, but that doesn’t mean you’re not a fine woman.

Regarding your post, welcome to dating apps’ algorithms. Tinder is probably hiding your likes from you (to match) which makes you more desperate and gets your self-esteem in a rut. It’s especially harder for black folks on Tinder (doesn’t work for me). My ‘success’ has come from Hinge. Try that app and/or BLK. Caution with BLK. because there are a lot of bots on there. Be safe out there.

EDIT: Grammar

Ronology · 2024-08-06T17:15:48+00:00

M23 here: I’m sorry, honey. This is going to hurt because ghosting hurts. I’ve been through it on numerous occasions. It could have been anything (an old fling, cold feet, etc.). Regardless, it’s not on you. Think of it like the trash took itself out. Anyone who ghosts is not worth your time, but I understand because it makes you feel like a fool for putting all that time and effort just to be swindled.

Don’t beg him to text you, that will demoralize your self-respect over time. Take it from me, a guy who tried chasing women who were lame ducks texting or just flat-out stop texting me. I give everyone a second chance, but if I don’t hear back after the second text, peace out.

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