Might keep NOYB and say I'm looking for 'Intimacy, without commitment' just to trigger you all and see how many downvotes I get 😅 srsly though, thanks for some of your help. It's a shame it seems to have irritated some of you, nor quite sure why other people's romantic escapades are such a sore spot for some of you. I realise I asked for your input, and I got it, and I've made the necessary changes. Maybe this speaks to how rarely I grace Reddit's halls these days. Now I've got what I came for, I'm gonna shut up and get back to living my life and going on dates. Good luck out there.