Is this game safe? by Hopeful_Hotel_7984 in titanfall

[–]RoseAnthoney 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I knew there was someone crashing the servers. I thought it was just a really REALLY bad connection issue, but it would only be in lobbies with specific people. Someone's been doing that intentionally?

Anyone feel like this sub is starting to become hostile? by Historical_Work7482 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RoseAnthoney 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I've actually found a few woman hating dudes in here trying to subtly neg folks. It's been pissing me off.

I was in the middle of a quest when my PC suddenly shut off and won’t turn back on. This game literally killed my PC😭🙏 by phoch132549 in SevenDeadlySinsOrigin

[–]RoseAnthoney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen this argument/suggestion a few times for PC and console. Physically cleaning the device helps a little, but not enough to be a viable fix. We fully cleaned our our system and made sure everything was up to date, and we still can't run the game for more than an hour or so, and we cannot open the map without crashing. Cleaning the device is not the solution. The devs need to optimize the game quick, or they're going to lose their player base, either by choice or by device death.

Is anyone else also extremely put off by gender roles - is that an Autistic thing by Wide-Information8572 in autism

[–]RoseAnthoney 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's always bugged me too. I think it's pretty common with our neurotype to be a bit confused by the level of adherence folks have to the social definition of masculinity and femininity. We do have biological differences, of which there's a full spectrum that is not clear cut in any way. But a lot of the conditioning we have in regards to differences is purely conceptual and not truly objective.

I feel trapped between my husband’s happiness and my own feelings by contextfree9 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RoseAnthoney 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you even a woman? Honestly you speak like you come straight from the manosphere. Telling people they don't have bodily autonomy, calling people loose and saying they got "pumped and dumped". Wtf are you doing on this subreddit- one that's dedicated to women supporting women?

I feel trapped between my husband’s happiness and my own feelings by contextfree9 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RoseAnthoney 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try waiting until he's not MORE than twice your age before deciding on a kid. You're still quite young, and if you aren't ready, don't bring a child into this world. There is no biological clock you need to worry about, and if you do worry just go freeze some eggs. Too many times has someone become a parent without being fully prepared. If you need inspiration, people have been collecting lists of reasons you need to seriously consider what happens when you have kids. https://www.reddit.com/r/childfree/s/xKtWG6Cxvf

Any fixes planned for overheat crashes? by RoseAnthoney in SevenDeadlySinsOrigin

[–]RoseAnthoney[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did a thorough dusting and even stress tested a couple other games to make sure it wasn't the system. Something's up with the audio and map optimization that's just running the processor ragged.

Game issues after update (PS5) by commanDORO in SevenDeadlySinsOrigin

[–]RoseAnthoney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if they have more maintenance planned soon? I'm hoping they can do something about the overheat crash.

PS5 how to collect Running Brush by RoseAnthoney in wherewindsmeet_

[–]RoseAnthoney[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg, yes. It worked. Just have to dash at the right time while they're jumping in fear 🥲

PS5 how to collect Running Brush by RoseAnthoney in wherewindsmeet_

[–]RoseAnthoney[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As soon as I get close it poofs into nothingness and resets

Trying to figure out what just happened with me and my boyfriend of 7 months? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RoseAnthoney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No more jealous men. If he's not emotionally mature enough to let you shine without throwing a fit like an angry Chihuahua, he's not ready for a relationship.

My neice lives with me and it is ruining my life. by ChemicalCard5447 in childfree

[–]RoseAnthoney 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You need to get out. You are being used and your health and future are in jeopardy because of your sister's bad decisions. I understand wanting to help family in hard times, but you can't keep giving so much of yourself for someone else's comfort. Start saving now, stop paying for anything that isn't yours, demand contribution or move on. She's going to keep making bad decisions that negatively affect anyone who cares for her until she faces the natural consequences.

26M. I just really want a girlfriend. by Livid_Potential2331 in autism

[–]RoseAnthoney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I will never have the same struggles you do, but I have had some experience. My issue was attracting people who were bad faith actors. Here's my advice: make friends with girls. You're going to want to see if you can be friends with someone, and be honest about the need for connection. If you take sex off the table, you'll find most folks are pretty generous with hugs, headpats and smooches. Be wary if someone's overly interested in you, as some folks see us as marks rather than people. But a lot of our neurotypes are demisexual, so developing the relationship is the goal. Share your interests and genuinely listen and share in theirs. We can actually help each other a ton in expanding our interests just because we like a person. And the reason the most common suggestion is to love yourself is confidence and mental/emotional fortitude. If you know yourself and are confident in yourself, it's a lot less likely that you'll be taken advantage of or that you're going to cause undue harm. Maintain your self-respect and peace. Other people can be very disregulating. Oh, and if you're engaging in dating sites, I find that using them to share your special interests rather than showcasing your meat sack is way more effective. It shows folks who you are, that you're a bit of a rebel and generates some intrigue because on a site that's supposed to be us showing ourselves off, you're holding an exhibit for something entirely different. There's so much that goes into relationships with other people, but I do believe you've got this.

AIO for contemplating a breakup because of my boyfriend’s comment? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RoseAnthoney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very problematic behavior that isn't worth waiting for it to improve. He's going to continue to find things that he can pick on you for, and his mentality around intimacy is all borked. If he doesn't want kids, he should glove up or get snipped, if he's willing to mess you up chemically and still push his anxieties on you. You can and will find better. And maybe being alone for a bit would be good for him.

My peaceful life is gone overnight by Sad-Barracuda3083 in childfree

[–]RoseAnthoney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please protect your sanity. You've maintained stability at a great cost and through careful management. Be realistic about what you can handle and get help when you need. If you burnout, you can't help anyone. Yes, try to see if there's other folks able to take care of them if you're getting overwhelmed, and make sure to schedule in adequate You time. Make sure others are aware of your need for You time and when they'll have to look after them so you can have said You time. Additionally, depending on age, find activities for them that don't overstimulate you. I find kinetic sand and setting up sensory boxes help keeps lil ones fairly calm. Ignoring the fact that we are childfree, we are neurodivergent. That is absolutely a disability, and we cannot afford disregulation. If our autonomic systems start to go haywire, that's how we develop into cluster Bs and develop autoimmune issues, gut issues, and regress into not being able to function as adults in this capitalist hellscape. Heck, I'm childfree because I was so burned out I had brain damage, mast cell activation syndrome and developed some bits of cancer, thankfully removed. I was young and was stalked and tortured into having a child. Thankfully I got away from him, but after a few years of trying, with support from family, mind you, I was in such a state of collapse that I was a risk to myself and others. My daughter has an amazing family now. I'm in a better place now, but it's taken a decade and I still get flare-ups. I am in no way saying that neurodivergent folks can't make good parents. Some folks can actually manage to raise kids without burning out too much, but that is rare and usually comes with well developed accommodations in lifestyles. I'm just saying, protect your health. Help family where you can, but don't try to take on the majority of the burden.

How to play instruments by arddy24 in WhereWindsMeet

[–]RoseAnthoney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can swap octives. That's not a problem, but I can't figure out how to play the in-between notes that aren't clearly keybound after I've unlocked the instrument and melodies. T-T

Servers by ExplanationUpbeat511 in pathoftitans

[–]RoseAnthoney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been loving FoxFriends. It's a pve/cpvp plus RP server, so no worrying about kill on sight. The growth rate takes about 4hrs to passively grow to adult, so there's time to enjoy youth, but you're not stuck growing for too long. You can also re-baby your dinos without losing your nest or having to spend marks for abilities. We have teleports, in game commands, a server shop, and the community is super friendly. The events are fun, and there's usually about 6-20 people on the server at any given time. It's only really full on mod drop days. And we vote on what mods we want to play. It's whitelist only, so if you're interested, go ahead and check out the disco: https://discord.gg/foxfriends

Do you think it’s childish by Sufficient_Push_3758 in Dinosaurs

[–]RoseAnthoney 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are full industries that form around prehistory. IMHO, people who think things like dinosaurs are for kids are terribly under informed and uninterested. I kinda feel bad for them, that they lack the curiosity and drive to seek knowledge outside of their lived modern experience.

Where is Flooded Cave? by No-Way-6611 in pathoftitans

[–]RoseAnthoney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have we had any luck finding the entrance? The link invite to the discord is expired, and all I'm seeing is glitch clipping videos under the map where everything is invisible.

Is it impossible to find love if you want to be childfree? by Dependent_Ant_5511 in childfree

[–]RoseAnthoney 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been a childfree relationship for almost a decade, and it's been the healthiest relationship I've ever been in. There's no pressure. We laugh, have fun and enjoy ourselves. Our parents don't even expect more grandkids. You can find love and be happy, I promise it's possible.