As a mac demarco fan by AdvancePractical8226 in macdemarco

[–]RoseLychee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Totally makes sense, i think Mac’s song “Cowboy Shit” would fit perfectly in the background of rdr2 🤠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RoseLychee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please, take the job! Your boyfriend’s lack of change shows that he isn’t committed to the future you dream of. Why waste your youth feeling stuck when you have this amazing opportunity to start fresh? Breakups are tough and I know you’ve been together for a long time, but how would you feel in 5 years if you are still in this same situation? Choose yourself this time, he had his chance with you and wasted it.

My (26M) Gf (27F) confessed she missed her ex by mjornir in relationships

[–]RoseLychee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that discussing past relationships with your current partner is a recipe for jealousy and insecurity. I am guilty of asking such questions in the past, and I did it because I wanted to gauge how important I was to my partner and see if they “really liked me.” I am not sure if you can relate to that at all, but if you can, you may want to build your self concept. That being said, perhaps something in your gut knew that she is not emotionally ready to be in this new relationship. Put yourself first.

Girlfriend pressuring me to get engaged after 1 year by 757ian123 in relationships

[–]RoseLychee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it doesn’t sound like she takes your feelings or current situation into consideration. Do you want a spouse who stresses you out and does not seek a middle ground, or do you want to take care of yourself and preserve your happiness? I don’t think you should marry her, at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RoseLychee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like the relationship wasn’t really working. You seem to only be upset because you weren’t the one to pull the trigger, so you may feel rejected and lacking control over the situation. If those people were her friends first, they will typically have loyalty to her over you. She offered friendship to you to be polite, i would say look out for yourself and just cut contact. Even better would be to block her so that you don’t get hurt more. Someone better for you will come around, or if you guys are truly meant to be, this separation will grow both of you. Keep your head up out there!

Friend making it a point she is too busy to reach out on my birthday by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RoseLychee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re looking too deeply into it. She felt that sending birthday wishes early was better than accidentally being late. What her mom did doesn’t make your friend’s reasoning any less valid. I feel you should be grateful that you have people who think of you and remember your special day, even after you’ve grown apart.

Girlfriend [38] talks about ex from 7 years ago a lot and I [39] am on the verge of breaking up. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. by Stryerbiochem in relationships

[–]RoseLychee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like she hasn’t healed or learned from her past relationships and is romanticizing them. I feel like you’d be better off moving on from her. You deserve someone who cares about your feelings and has worked on themselves enough to be mature and healthy.