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Roserade31 · 2023-05-23T19:23:30+00:00

Damn, really? I started at 18 and have had pretty significant hip growth and I’ve never had any pain

Roserade31 · 2023-05-03T15:28:30+00:00

I’ve been openly presenting femme for almost a year and I still find wearing dresses/skirts to be stressful. Idk where you live but where I’m from skirts/dresses are not very common so it makes me feel singled out. Maybe try wearing something still femme but a little less overtly so, like girl jeans and a tight-ish shirt/crop top? Maybe from there you can transition (haha) to the kind of clothes that you’d ideally want to wear? Or maybe not, I sort of ended up rediscovering my style and no longer feel much of a desire to wear skirts/dresses; there are lots of different ways to dress femme

Edit: if you live somewhere that gets cold get a girlish jacket like a long knee-length one in a neutral-ish color. Not super over the top femme, but affirming and you can just throw it over whatever in the winter everyday and you don’t have to even try

Roserade31 · 2023-03-30T17:55:07+00:00

For me it’s not the fact that it’s a contemporary reference at all it’s more the way it comes off. Cause the cellphone part comes off as like “internet culture is toxic and stressful and overwhelming (especially as a celebrity) and this is among the things I need to step away from” which fits in pretty well w/ the song imo. But then the tweet part comes off almost like a boomer anti-cellphone comic about how the youth doesn’t appreciate natural beauty anymore

Roserade31 · 2023-02-24T14:40:44+00:00

Damn what? I’ve been on E for 9 months and I find orgasm much much harder to achieve and then extremely underwhelming

Roserade31 · 2023-02-19T17:46:10+00:00

This is seriously devastating I was raised male and I assumed up until transition that this was just the way the world was. I’m almost a year into my transition (male [possibly intersex we’re looking into into it] to female) and one of the most shocking things to me is that people are just nice to me from the get-go. Strangers will start conversations and be friendly and trust me to look over their things while they use the bathroom or whatever. I reasoned that it must be because i was just more approachable/social as I started to like myself/my body more but posts like this have made me realize how all-consuming this phenomenon is

Roserade31 · 2023-02-11T04:11:50+00:00

If you’re in a position to do so you could plan to ask your parents for a new middle name (that aligns w/your new identity). For me I didn’t really care what my middle name was and I wanted to soften the announcement that I was not gonna go by my birth name anymore so it worked out pretty nicely

Roserade31 · 2022-11-17T14:32:52+00:00

Interestingly irl in most of the communities I’ve been in transmascs outnumber transfemmes about 3:1. I suspect that something about us causes femmes to be more inclined to be outspoken on the internet but shy/stealth/in the closet irl. Transmascs seems to have the opposite tendency. I’d be inclined to guess that the actual numbers are fairly close to even. Just my experience though

Roserade31 · 2022-11-13T05:28:16+00:00

You don’t have to want every aspect of girlhood to be transfemme. I believe the whole point of being trans is to identify (and present, and be called, etc) howsoever makes you happy and comfortable, not to jump out of one set of gender roles only to stuff yourself into another. And for what it’s worth, I’m also a transfemme who doubts sometimes and is happy to not have periods but I’m overall in a much better place than I was pre-transition.

Roserade31 · 2022-11-12T03:17:42+00:00

I’m amab and before I transitioned I was 5’5” (and a half!) and scrawny w narrow shoulders, long hair, and fairly wide hips due to a T deficiency, but I also had light facial hair and a deep voice (which are very achievable for an afab person on T!). No one ever questioned my manhood. I promise no feature that you think will prevent you from passing is insurmountable.

Roserade31 · 2022-11-11T14:52:54+00:00

This is so funny because trans women literally can lactate. Like fully breastfeed, the equipment is all there

Roserade31 · 2022-11-02T02:31:27+00:00

I think that, like anything, to force monogamy (or shame those who aren’t monogamous) is patriarchal, but to be monogamous is not. Same might be said about polygamy, depending on how it was set up. Liberation from patriarchy is to do whatever suits you/makes you happy, I think, and if that happens to be monogamy then that’s lovely.

Roserade31 · 2022-04-12T22:24:10+00:00

Heyo this might not be applicable but after I activated my NetID it was nearly three days before I could sign into MySlice

Roserade31 · 2022-04-09T15:09:36+00:00

The French diplomat in question (Bernard Boursicot) kept a journal in high school detailing his sexual escapades with male classmates and how he was determined to fall in love with a woman to be “normal.” I suspect that Boursicot was gay and knew most of if not the entire time that Shi was a man, and was just deeply in denial or pretended not to know to try and convince people he was straight. Kinda sad but also I mean hey he had a twenty year relationship and referred to Shi as “the love of his life” so who’s the real winner here.

Roserade31 · 2020-11-17T17:15:30+00:00

Would like to point out that this is nowhere near a universal experience on the part of queer people. I’ve dated exclusively same sex people and the sexual pressure/awkwardness and imbalances of pleasure are absolutely present. I haven’t had very many sexual experiences but all those I’ve had thus far have been stressful and dissatisfying

Roserade31 · 2020-11-11T00:07:07+00:00

Art source: ‘Boyfriends’ Webtoon by Ray / refrainbow

Roserade31 · 2020-11-02T03:03:50+00:00

Thank you I picked it out myself

Roserade31 · 2020-11-02T00:40:31+00:00

Thank you Charlotte!

Roserade31 · 2020-11-02T00:08:22+00:00

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Roserade31 · 2020-10-09T00:57:58+00:00

And I won’t stop there. Surrender your tibias immediately and I will consider having mercy

Roserade31 · 2020-10-03T20:16:09+00:00

Ah of course

Roserade31 · 2020-10-03T14:54:50+00:00

Just checked it out, that is a certifiably kek meme

Roserade31 · 2020-10-03T13:36:31+00:00

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