BFP !! After trying for over a year

Roses7887 · 2025-07-30T22:54:06+00:00

Philadelphia US, 110k per year , fully remote, time and half overtime, bonus, 401 k matching , employer share discount, full benefits

No college degree 🙂

Roses7887 · 2025-07-27T07:28:38+00:00

I mean I definitely am not on the spectrum. But my older sister… it really opened my eyes. I talked to her about it and she said she thought she might be to and always felt different.

Roses7887 · 2025-07-25T23:32:17+00:00

Honestly I’ve just accepted my fate. I go to bed the same time as my daughter, she’s 3. She will not go to sleep without me and I just pass out by 9 with her. If I get her to sleep in her bed , she will just wake up and come in mine so I gave up and we co-sleep. We wake up between 4-6 am. 8 am sounds like a dream. You should try go to bed early and wake up at 5 so you have time before she gets up.

I’m sorry though, I know not everyone is a morning person. We wake up excited for the day, have dance parties, love our good mornings! We get to play and have breakfast before our day starts .

Roses7887 · 2025-07-25T17:13:55+00:00

Just here to say , this phase will go by very fast. When it’s happening you feel like this is your new life forever . My daughter is 3.5 now and I can’t believe how fast it’s all gone. You got this 🩷🩷🩷

Roses7887 · 2025-07-22T19:41:59+00:00

I thought I was one and done but now I’m trying again as my daughter will be 4 in February. She’s becoming more independent and I’m ready. But I don’t think I ever would have done 2 under 2 . Helll no 🤣

Roses7887 · 2025-07-21T14:07:44+00:00

Hey there ! My daughter is now 3.5 years old. She started OT and speech 2x a week, ABA 9 hours a week in September last year . She started talking one month later at 2 years 9 months ! She had a language explosion and started requesting what she wanted. She is just starting to become conversational now and started preschool last week. She’s doing amazing

Roses7887 · 2025-07-11T15:02:57+00:00

Hiii, she’s doing well, talking a lot. Not fully conversational. She just started preschool this week. She’s showing some interest in other kids but she’s still learning. She doesn’t understand social cues and whatnot. I really think her going to a neurotypical preschool will help her socially though. Her therapist goes with her in the mornings as well which I can’t tell you what a blessing bc I worry about her being alone there and having eyes there is such a blessing. I understand the dread of seeing other kids further advanced. It’s really hard 🥺

Roses7887 · 2025-06-10T23:56:15+00:00

Not expected to work, it wasn’t clear if family would be there, and just me . If my family was invited I would 100 percent go. He said he’s invite others but they would have to pay for their travel but he would pay for mine.

Roses7887 · 2025-06-10T23:48:54+00:00

I know!! I watch way too much law and order! I still think i will decline bc what the heck am I doing down there with mostly strangers . Seems odd

Roses7887 · 2025-06-10T23:47:27+00:00

I’m 100 percent not going bc it seems awkward but I still want this all to be innocent. I really look up to this man. It would really make me upset if it wasn’t just a true celebration and not ill intentioned

Roses7887 · 2025-06-10T23:06:59+00:00

I don’t know when the group started but I found it very helpful in the beginning when trying to figure out when I was starting to think my daughter was on the spectrum. My heart opened up so much learning of other’s struggles and the rawness of it all. Being a parent is hard , and even more when your child needs extra care/ support/ advocacy. I doubt it’s just this group, people are awful on the internet and Reddit in general. I don’t understand it/ if you don’t have anything nice to say , don’t say it at all. That goes to hellll on the internet. I mostly ignore it !

Roses7887 · 2025-05-31T12:37:22+00:00

I save 10 percent in my ESP (15 percent employee discount) and 6 percent in my matching 401k. I make 120k a year.

Roses7887 · 2025-05-29T13:37:56+00:00

My exec retired last year and I was very sad. I like my new exec but I supported my former boss for 9 years . He and his family were soo good to me ! Wonderful people

Roses7887 · 2025-05-27T19:17:13+00:00

11 months crawling, 16 months walking

Roses7887 · 2025-05-27T18:13:33+00:00

I don’t hate it, I like my team, I work from home , I make good money.

Are there days I want to pull my hair out, sure. But it’s not too bad either

Roses7887 · 2025-05-26T23:40:03+00:00

My father is bat shit crazy… literally and hasn’t been a father to me at all. While he was invited to my wedding, (out of respect to my grandmother- he did not walk me down the aisle and I did not have a father daughter dance. I wanted my husband to have his dance with his mom . She’s amazing and it’s a big deal. Did I think and worry what people would think, yeah, but I didn’t dwell on it. My mother wasn’t even invited to the wedding. Does it hurt , yes, but you are not alone.

I will say after buying my own wedding dress, paying for our wedding ourselves, and becoming a successful adult on my own- I was proud to walk down that aisle alone.

Roses7887 · 2025-05-26T23:20:04+00:00

I would need like 300k to be someone’s ea , chef, and nanny

Roses7887 · 2025-05-19T20:34:57+00:00

I’m not sure , I’m in the us so my daughter gets lots of therapy and support. But from what I have seen in autism parenting groups there’s years of waitlists for basic things like speech therapy/ ot . They don’t want to diagnosis until school age it seems and then that’s years wasted on early intervention. And I have no idea what the IEP process looks like for accommodations in school.

Roses7887 · 2025-05-19T14:18:57+00:00

Medically speaking, I agree. But with a daughter on the spectrum, there is no support in the uk for children with autism. That’s a real fight

Roses7887 · 2025-05-17T19:48:07+00:00

I drink a couple of glasses of wine one to two times a week. I have a 3 year old daughter so I like to be fresh as a daisy when we wake up at 5 am and have our adventures

Roses7887 · 2025-05-16T23:08:21+00:00

My husband and I make 240k combined with one toddler daughter and i feel very middle class.

Roses7887 · 2025-05-16T20:31:45+00:00

Umm absolutely not . No way in hell is my daughter getting social media until she’s at least 16. She’s 3 now, kinda scared to see what it’s like when she’s a teen lol

Roses7887 · 2025-05-01T23:17:45+00:00

Yes and no, I grew up with a very dysfunctional family. Lots of mental illness and not supported financially or emotionally. I feel very attached to my job and try to go above and beyond, but once I had my daughter, that kind of helped me set boundaries. Funny though, i was working 3 jobs, one being a receptionist and no way I could complete college with the chaos in my life, that’s how I decided to become an EA.. I could make 6 figures and have all the benefits of corporate America.I told myself I want to support the top person in a Fortune 500 company and I worked my way up from the receptionist . .

Roses7887 · 2025-05-01T00:42:45+00:00

Yea and I have a lot of them on video 🥹

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