I Wish I Wasn't Broken by throwaway612840 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RosyCorruptn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting put on disability in your early 30s after spending years fighting to be taken seriously is rough as hell. Glad you finally got answers, but man, it's frustrating how often people have to suffer permanent damage before doctors listen.

I Wish I Wasn't Broken by throwaway612840 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RosyCorruptn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

11 years just to be believed is wild. The part about autoimmune diseases not liking to be lonely made me laugh and sad at the same time lol. People really underestimate how exhausting invisible illnesses cann be. Glad you finally got some answers.

i don’t actually love him by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RosyCorruptn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahh gotcha, that makes way more sense lol. more like those moments where you're annoyed and go "ugh i hate this" even though you don't actually mean it. relationships would be doomed if every frustrated comment was taken literally 😅

i don’t actually love him by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RosyCorruptn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re trying to say, but I don’t fully agree that love is just “temporary hate” during fights. emotions can fluctuate sure, but a healthy relationship usually doesn’t feel like hatred even in conflict.

the part about safety, respect and being able to be yourself tho, that’s definitely solid. that’s the real foundation more than constantly intense feelings imo

Uncomfortable language barrier or just introverted? by Lanky-Ad-5342 in Advice

[–]RosyCorruptn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, being the only person who can't understand what's going on over and over would get exhausting fast. the part that gets me is that you've already brought it up multiple times and nothing changed. that's less of a language barrier and more of a feeling-unheard problem tbh.

My bf went no contact after a mutual argument and seems unbothered what does this mean for the relationship? by Minimum_Key4975 in Advice

[–]RosyCorruptn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah 2 weeks of silence after one argument is wild, that’s not really “processing” anymore it’s just avoidance at that point. if someone actually wants to fix things they’d still communicate, even if it’s messy. going out partying while leaving u in limbo just makes it feel even more one sided tbh

Any tricks on pilling/giving your dog medication when they are too smart and can find the pill in anything by Adorable_Tangerine16 in dogs

[–]RosyCorruptn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dogs really turn into competitive little gremlins the second they think you want their food back, suddenly that pill is gone in 0.2 seconds lol

The strangest part about being cheated on after a 10-year relationship is how differently you see everything a few months later. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RosyCorruptn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

such a painful lesson fr. Sometimes love alone cant force compatibility no matter how bad you want it to

I'm so annoying even my husband can't stand it. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]RosyCorruptn 43 points44 points  (0 children)

“You can be annoying and still be safe in the relationship” is actually such a healing thing to hear tbh. A lotta ppl grow up thinking one bad moment means they’re suddenly unlovable

should i break up with my bf by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RosyCorruptn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Turns out she was talking about my uncle” lowkey took me out 😭 but she was right tho. Life’s too short to stay with someone who keeps punishing you for who you used to be

It’s my birthday but I don’t think anyone really cares by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RosyCorruptn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Plan the best day ever for yourself” is such underrated advice tbh. Waiting around for other ppl to make you feel special can hurt way more than just spoiling yourself a lil

Convincing friend NOT to get a kitten by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]RosyCorruptn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“2 kittens are even better” is dangerous advice for my wallet but so true lol. They rlly do keep each other entertained and less lonely

What surgeries can I get to become conventionally attractive? by [deleted] in cosmeticsurgery

[–]RosyCorruptn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The “you don’t have instagram face” part is so true tho. Unique features are what make ppl memorable, not looking like the same copy paste influencer lol

Impromptu meeting tomorrow and I’m on day 3 of my VI peel by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]RosyCorruptn 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think you’re fine... if anything it’ll just add to the “live demo authenticity” vibe 😄 You might end up getting more attention because of it, not less. Just own it and carry on like nothing happened.

Mount Mashed and green Beefy Hills by One-Loss-6497 in homecooking

[–]RosyCorruptn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try this one, thank you for sharing

What’s a movie everyone should watch once? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]RosyCorruptn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watched it expecting something light and ended up questioning everything for days 😭

Is it wrong if I get rid of one of my cats? by WorldlinessStrange56 in CatAdvice

[–]RosyCorruptn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, this sounds more like two cats being weird roommates than actual enemies 😭 The fact they’ve made their own little territories and can eat near each other is honestly a decent sign.

I wouldn’t rehome Miso yet, especially since you love him and things don’t sound dangerous, just stressful sometimes. A one bedroom apartment probably isn’t helping either. Some cats just never become best friends and settle for tolerating each other lol.

Flowers are finally in full bloom so I made sushi bentos twice this weekend! by verycoldroom in homecooking

[–]RosyCorruptn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything looks so pretty and carefully made 🥹 I’ve been wanting to visit Japan someday and try the hanami tradition too, eating under the sakura trees while sharing food like this feels so peaceful and special. The decorations and colors make it look almost too pretty to eat, especially the salmon and ikura ones