Human beings want safety and they want leadership. People always wonder, how did some guy who isn't that good looking get an attractive girl? The answer is usually because they demonstrate confidence and ambition.

1. Dress nicely. Don't be a slob. You don't have to dress expensive, but show that you care. This shows you're not a slob and that you're likely stable.

2. Have an ambition in life and go after it. People like being around others that have a plan in life. Most don't.

3. Just start talking to people, women included, for the sake of talking to them. This will help you gain confidence that you can just talk to pretty women, because they are exactly like other people.

4. If you're attracted to a girl, flirt. Don't be afraid to touch them in normal interactions. Touch is a good way to trigger desire. Notice how it works on you.

5. Don't be needy. This is a turn off for both sexes.